2007-03-24 04:15:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As you become more involved or passionate about "today", things of yesterday will be more of a memory.
If you are trying to overcome heart ache.. remind yourself of the awful things, that separated you "Learn From It", and now start Living for Today! It gets easier as time passes.
'a 1st love' we never really forget... with time we mature and learn to look for character traits that are closer to reality.
Remember the good things, and Remember everyone experiences loss. It is what we choose to do with that loss, and experiences that make us who we are. Why not choose to be wiser, and not make the same mistakes as you move forward.
Choose to be a more sensitive human being, capable of Loving more whole hearted in the future, having lived and experienced today to your fullest potential.
Just be... you... and what ever comes natural for you, create happiness for today. Do what make YOU happy. Even if it is a tiny thing that happiness seems to last but for the moment. Moments will eventually lead to another tiny moment, that will expand into a minute, to an hour etc. May you decide to start living today! ((Goodbye past.)) Think of the past as being put into a treasure box, that you hold the key to, and open it only when you need to from this day forward.
Peace.
2007-03-24 04:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't forget someone you loved in the past, because in your heart no matter how hard you try there will always be that special place for them. Just make sure you remember the good memories and let go of the bad. Life is about living-as we live, we learn and move on.
2007-03-24 05:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a long time, especially if you really loved him/her, but start hanging out with other people. Don't ignore them completely, say hi, and have small, very small, conversations, stuff like that, and be friends with them.
It might not seem like the best answer, but it will work, trust me.
2007-03-24 04:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Horselover@yahoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant really get over him all the way its hard i know.. but u will always have a memory of him/her in heart and thats all u need to have if ur lookin for a guy that is the same way!
2007-03-24 04:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by **♥ hOrSeRiDeR4LiFe♥** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually, you do. It takes a long time, but you do.
2007-03-24 04:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way other than praying to Almighty to do so
2007-03-24 04:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋