I'm a 19 year old dating a 39 year old woman is there anything wrong with that? Neither of us have money so it's not like were getting something out of dating each other so is there anything wrong with me dating someone who is 20 years older than I am?
2007-03-24 04:08:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing wrong.
2007-03-24 04:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really WRONG, except for the fact that you are still under 21 (and in some states and that may have some legal implications, I don't know). Just depends on your particular maturity, experience and what your expectations are of each other; most times these things DON'T match, so people tend to discourage such relationships.
Personally, I DON'T encourage your relationship, but I don't think you should quit or feel guilty about it either because I believe in your right to try to make sensible decisions. It might just be something good . . .
2007-03-24 04:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dilettante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...
Are either or both of you under the delusion that this will be a permanent thing...
...or are you both cognizant of the fact that this will work for a while until you get a little older, a little more on your feet financially, and start becoming a much better attractor for girls in the 18-22 age bracket?
Until then, it's totally fine. You'll both probably get out of it what you want. You'll likely end up a much better husband later on with fewer hang-ups as your wife ages and likely be a much better lover (and therefore less likely to have a marriage fail for a long time).
For her, she gets the sex and companionship she wants but will likely discover she's more interested in something else (hobby? career? her kids?) later on and may move on to someone more similar in outlook.
Of course, you both risk being looked down upon for this because society has this fixation on permanent monogamy with someone and won't understand that a good relationship for a while then (properly) moving on when the time comes is healthy and good for those involved...
2007-03-24 04:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its for real then think about the implications it would have on the kids having a 20 year old dad and a 40 year old mom.
If it was reversed and you were 40 and she was 20 then what would people say.......
2007-03-24 06:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by ceci_*220* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a bit age gap but if it is like "Demmi Moore" its okay!
2007-03-24 04:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a great idea.
They don't tell,
they don't smell.
they don't yell,
and they're grateful as heck.!
2007-03-24 04:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by HD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋