he just dumped me without telling me why. he's really shy when it comes to talking to me. should i try talk to him and ask him why he dumped me? or should i ask one of his friends?
the only reason i wouldn't want to talk to hm about it is because 1. i'm shy too, and 2. i think he's a little annoyed at this whole situation because people keep telling him he was really mean in breaking up with me 3. i don't want him to know i really want him back, it'll make him too full of himself.
if i do ask him, how should do it?
please help!
2007-03-24 04:05:46 · 18 answers · asked by italiancat73 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave it alone. it really doesn't matter why he broke up with you...it's not going to change anything. just move on and have fun with your friends for awhile. this will keep your mind off the whole situation. :)
good luck!
2007-03-24 04:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him Jack if he does not have enough respect 4 u 2 tell u why he is NOT WORTHY of your time r an relationship. Get the message back thru his friends that WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND shyness is not an excuse 2 not communicate and answer 4 your actions. Don;t want 4 someone who don't want u- u r better than that.
2007-03-24 04:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just broke up with my boyfriend, and didn't give a full reason.
he kept asking why why for weeks.
he still does.
the thing is, sometimes when you break up with someone, you dont know why.
you just don't feel happy or that the relationship isn't working.
it isn't anyones fault and its not like you made a mistake and he doesn't like you anymore.
it could just be that he doesn't feel that you two are right for each other or that you lack chemistry.
so if you still want to keep him as a friend, don't bother him about why you two broke up and work more on being his friend.
2007-03-24 04:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Layla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't ask him anything he must not want you any more which should be fine with you it is time girlfriend to move on he showed you that what you and he had was not important to him because he dumped you as you have stated and has not told you why and after reading this again it sound like you are very young kids if this is so just go to school and put all that time you are putting on that boy into your books and get yourself ahead fore college.
2007-03-24 04:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those things where you're just going to bother yourself over until you just do it, and we both know it, so the answer to "should you do it" question really doesn't matter. What matters is that you will. So how? Simple. Direct. My experience has taught me that you're always going to regret what you don't say more than anything you ever do say. So say how you feel. You'll never have to worry about what would have been because you'll always know you did what you could.
2007-03-24 04:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to just "get over it". Leave it alone. If he wants you to know why he'll tell you.
It's ok to not know WHY he broke up with you. Good riddance to him anyway; he was obviously a waste of time.
Read the book...."He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrent (sp)
2007-03-24 04:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by dahlia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well just get together alone as friends, and ask him why. if they are no people around you guys, and you are alone, then i guess you could ask him and he'll easily respond. it may be something bad or he thought the relationship was too boring. don't be afraid to do whatever you want to do, because life comes at you fast and then you realized you should do something or should have done something
2007-03-24 04:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just tried to get back together and then ask him
and if u really like him tried to make him like u back
then soon you and him will be a great couple
good♥luck
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2007-03-24 04:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Michelle♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see , I cannot tell you more..I was never in this situation...You are not married to ask him...explanations..but you could acuse him of imorality ...and tell him.that you are socked that..he liked only your body...and took advantage of you...Then you can take vengeance ..and tell him..''.if you are satisfied with having only my body.not my heart..it's perfectly..I am glad I got rid of somebody like you ...Now I will be carefull and sleep with someone..only after he marries me..to be sure he wanted my heart...''You can tell him all of this..or if he doesn't want to see you you can send him message...Also you can tell him...''You deserves someone that wants also just your body....and be happy if you can ..this way...''
2007-03-24 04:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simple ask why did you dump me.
2007-03-24 04:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋