Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

I posted this question twice & no reply...Is it a stupid ques or what??...

There's this girl i have been seeing for about a month now. The 1st time we had sex she went down on me. I'm not complaining b/c she's a pro at what she does but does she do this with everybody? I'm wondering is/was she a whore or is she premiscuious (sp). She says she's just seeing me but I doubt it. She said she likes doing it & it turns her on & she does it every single time. She even sends me text msgs tellin me what she wants to do to me. I like her but not sure if I should make her my girl. She's attractive, funny, has a good job, money and she never asks me for anything except to see me & hang out with me. What should I do?

2007-03-23 04:11:33 · 4 answers · asked by deez 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:11:16 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

What is your expectation from your wife on the 'first night' even if you don't know her very well? I am soon to be married and I just wanted to know what you guys expect on the first night. Might give me an idea about what my husband-to-be is expecting. I am to shy to ask him myself.

2007-03-23 04:11:11 · 13 answers · asked by blush 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We haven't dated. I have been taking care of an ill uncle and left a great job to do it. Now, I wonder if that man who liked me would still be interested in me if I didn't still have that job. He was such a sweety, and I just bet he is a snuggly type of slow dancer.

2007-03-23 04:11:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:10:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The guy I know I'm suppose to spend the rest of my life with just broke up with me. Me and him only started dating 2 weeks ago (i've been friends with him for years tho), but he found out that my ex, who i still live with, didn't know about me and him. my new guy also found out that i cheated on my ex, which is his main reason for breaking up with me since he's had that happen to him before and couldn't stand to go through that again. He is definatley someone I would never ever do that to cuz i know what he's been through and i've never felt so strongly about someone before. How can i prove to him that it was a stupid mistake i made that i would never do again? my friends told me to give him some space and he'll come around, but i'm afraid i may have lost him forever. i don't even want to be with anyone else, so don't say move on. i'm willing to wait forever for him, that's how much he means to me. plz give me some advice on what to do or say. i love him so much and want him back.

2007-03-23 04:09:42 · 17 answers · asked by dolfingrrl928 3 in Singles & Dating

If size doesn't matter? Why do women ask for a guy to have a big penis and then can't handle it?

2007-03-23 04:09:17 · 1 answers · asked by Tea 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:09:00 · 19 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Singles & Dating

There are lots of them and most of them are those that we point out as detrimental to women. However this one is something that I just thought of. It is in most societies that the woman can expect to be taken care of by the man that she is with. Even alot of the most "independent" women have subconscious expectations to be taken care of that manifest themselves in the way that guys are generally expected to treat them. Guys show girls that they are willing to take care of her, prize her and protect her by holding doors, paying for all or most of their dates, being the emotionally repressive partner in the relationship and many other things that we attribute with "proper etiquette." (Deny it all that you want but these things are based on the idea supporting and protecting the woman). People rarely even question these things. But if a guy has desires for support in similar ways people claim that he is looking for a woman to be his mother. What type of sh@t is that? Why's that acceptable

2007-03-23 04:07:29 · 16 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Singles & Dating

Why do people throw rice after the wedding?

2007-03-23 04:06:57 · 4 answers · asked by Tea 1 in Singles & Dating

I Have been seeing a guy thats 29 yrs old with a 3 yr old daughter, Im 18 yrs old and wont be 19 tell Dec 07' I am graduated from high school, Very mature for my age,

2007-03-23 04:06:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this friend who is a girl, she stays glued to my butt! She follows me everywhere, I don't like her that much! She is annoying sometimes but I don't wanna hurt her. When I go to the movies with a bunch of friends and I try to sit next to the girl I love, she comes and sits next to me instead and never shuts up! For example I have a party tonight and she asks me if I'm going, I tell her that I'm not sure, she tells me please come so I could stay with you all night! Now I'm thinking of not going to this party because of this! I feel that I can't move when she is around! Help! What should I tell her in a nice way?

2007-03-23 04:06:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am talking about the women i see complain on this forum and in everday life. how in the world do you complain if you dit not take the required steps to get the child support for your kids. and if you did how in the world did you not get your child's fair share. i for one pay my child support faithfully regardless of how unreasonable it may seem trust me i am not the only one who thinks 800 a month for 1 child is. but like i was saying i think the system is def pro women so how can it be sum men can get off so easilt while men like me want to support their kids get shafted. A nd for the women who do recieve cs, do you really think you should have no accountability . i am very cautious how i spend my money and know where every little bit goes except for the 800 a month i have been ordered to hand over so i have just sum it up to i did my part whatever she does with it its her biz. i am not sayng you have to tell me just saying there should be sum type of accountability.

2007-03-23 04:05:51 · 13 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went behind my BF's back & got the number to his new cell phone which he said is his business line. He said that he wasn't giving the # out so I felt suspicious. Once I got the # I called him private just to see if I had the right number, I thought he'd let it go to voicemail but he picked up & I hung up. When he asked me if it was me. I told him that I knew the # & he freaked out. He hung up the phone on me. We've seen each other since then & we've talked since then but he won't talk to me about the issue. I'm tryin not 2 b hard on myself bcause I figure it's a cell phone #, it's not his bank acct. am I being too hard on myself or is he being 2 hard on me cause now he barely makes i contact with me, and is sensitive about anything I say about the phone. He said I violated him & that I'm a liar. So how do I make it up to him or is he overreacting 2 something that isn't even that serious?

2007-03-23 04:05:36 · 24 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

My german sister in law (30) thnks she know everything and my parents jump as soon as she or my brother(29) snaps their fingers. The result, they ignore me(21) or don;t respect my opinion.They have doctorate degrees ingeology and i am studying journalism , 3rd year. it's like I dont matter anymore.my parents just blows it of and keep on going the old ways.What do I do? I 'm getting a complex here.

2007-03-23 04:05:21 · 13 answers · asked by zee 1 in Family

i want to marriage with a girl but i like her not i love her and i dont know what am i doing

2007-03-23 04:05:12 · 17 answers · asked by masoud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okai theres this guy i like and wen i told him i like him he just sorta stopped talkin to me but recently i made contact with him htrough e mail ad i asked him y doesnt he talk to me any more and he said : i dont no y dont u talk to me any more" and i said cuz i thought he didnt want to talk to me then he didnt reply so i sent him a msg saying see it feels like u dont wanna talk to me am i annoying u and all he said is no...wat does this mean??? and in class he ALWAYSSS stares at me so im confusedd????

2007-03-23 04:04:47 · 4 answers · asked by cutie wit a booty 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:04:18 · 18 answers · asked by Twisty 2 in Friends

should people have to wait to get married to have sex. Dont you think people should exprience thir sexual needs now?

2007-03-23 04:03:45 · 1 answers · asked by scoopie110 4 in Singles & Dating

i like a boy...and he said me that he likes me...but i have a friend that she also like this boy (she knows that he like me) but she's very jealous....what can i do in this situation???? excuse me but i'm italian and my english isn't very good but i want to only know other comments....by

2007-03-23 04:02:55 · 5 answers · asked by Nameless 3 in Friends

Girls who are 21 to 26 years old, what is the oldest guy you would consider dating?

Keeping in mind relationships happen for all different types of reasons but let's consider a regular guy, not a sugar daddy or dating for financial reasons to the extream.

What is your age and how old would you date, what would be the considerations at the high end (that is, the older they are, what concerns you the most)

Thanks! I'd like to know what you think and feel about this.

2007-03-23 04:02:30 · 19 answers · asked by Tim H 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ ƒσяєνєя яє∂ ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

i'n going out wit jesse but at the same time like this guy joey but my boyfriend and i don't see each other that much and when ever we talk he says he has to go but he says that he likes me but my friends say i should brake up wit him because he has a nasty mind but i like him u know but at the same time i like joey cause he was my first boyfriend and for some reason i can't stop liking him so wat should i do?? becasue joey likes me ad he told me and i want to brake up wit my boyfriend but i promised all the girl from my class i would not go out wit joey because he has hurt me to much to go out wit him again but i have no clue wat to do??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-23 04:01:39 · 8 answers · asked by Yeny 1 in Singles & Dating

I never call it my first time, even though it was the first time a man "entered" me, my unwillingness, unpleasantness of the memory, and the awkwardness of telling someone makes me select the next time, when I chose to do it...
Is this wrong/lying? I feel guilty about it, but also feel it depends on perspective of what "first time" means...
What do you think?
Thanks

2007-03-23 04:01:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Dancing keeps us middle aged folks young. Kids are going are out of the house so hubby and wifey are out playing having a good ole time.

2007-03-23 04:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 04:00:19 · 23 answers · asked by Rerun 2 in Family

My boyfriend lives 6 hours away and I won't be able to see him until June when we move in together. How can I get though these months? I miss him terribly.

2007-03-23 04:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to find some unique/useful thank you favours for the guests, everywhere I look its candles, tea cups etc. My problem is its a large mixed group of young and old!

2007-03-23 03:59:36 · 17 answers · asked by So Happy!! 4 in Weddings

how do i ask my brothers friend if he wants to hook up? i really like him and have liked him for a while i know he dont have a girl. but im a shy one. my ex always told me that im cute and have a nice body how do i do this

2007-03-23 03:59:22 · 5 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend used to be a pretty big partier, before we got together he used to do weed and drink alot! but since weve been together hes laid off alot for me. weve been together 9 months and i love him with my whole heart, i just lost a grandfather to smoking and recently my boyfriend has been smoking cigarettes alot, i used to do some light smoking but i quit for my grandpa, he asked us all to not do it before he died and my boyfriend told him he wouldnt but he still does, he promises me that he's going to quit but i dont see it happening, i really worry about his health, he says it gets hard to breath when mowing already and were only 16. it cant be good for him to already be like that, i want to tell him to quit but i dont want to seem like a controlling girlfriend, so how do i tell him?!

2007-03-23 03:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by rckstar88 2 in Singles & Dating