i'n going out wit jesse but at the same time like this guy joey but my boyfriend and i don't see each other that much and when ever we talk he says he has to go but he says that he likes me but my friends say i should brake up wit him because he has a nasty mind but i like him u know but at the same time i like joey cause he was my first boyfriend and for some reason i can't stop liking him so wat should i do?? becasue joey likes me ad he told me and i want to brake up wit my boyfriend but i promised all the girl from my class i would not go out wit joey because he has hurt me to much to go out wit him again but i have no clue wat to do??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 04:01:39 · 8 answers · asked by Yeny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There r sooooo many fish in the sea.Don't stay with anyone if there not making u happy in every way.I would say let them go n find someone new.U can do it.Why stay with anyone that doesn't fully respect you.U deserve better now do it for u n start over.Your first b/f is just someone u feel comfortable with but after some time away n getting out of the habit of him u will b fine.Find something to try n take your mind off them until u don't think of them all the time.If you don't have time then u won't see him.Good luck n go spend some time with your friends that is what they r there 4.Have faith in yourself cuz u can do it.
2007-03-23 04:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave Jesse for a start... If you're not happy and if you think he has a nasty mind then the relationship is pointless.
And about Joey, do you think you will be happy with him? Can you trust that he will not hurt you again? It is about YOU and what YOU want and not about any girls from any class or any promises that you have made to anyone.
2007-03-23 11:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by oops1388 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young! You should go out there and meet people. I am not saying go sleep around because you should not! I am saying you deserve to be happy, if anyone hurts you at all, that's means they do not deserve you. You should just be alone and focus on your self right now. Both guys don't deserve you. If he hurt you in past he will hurt you again. People don't change, if they do that's great but don't trust Joey. If Jesse don't treat you good and doesn't spent time with you you shouldn't be with him either.
You have your whole life ahead of you. Please be true to your self. good luck.. Don't worry about what anyone else is going to say, this is your life. Please make the right decision. good luck..
2007-03-23 11:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have feelings for another guy while your with your boyfriend, its not fair to him for you to keep seeing him and feeling that way about another guy.. i would break up with him but on good terms and tell him your jus having mixed emotions right now BUT dont go hop right into another relationship especially if its a guy that hurt you alot before.. jus stay friends with both and see how it goes from there.. you dont have to break up with one then go to another cuz your b/f now will see that and prolly not want to even be your friend if he sees you dump him for another dude. and if you wanna see how things will go with your old boy joey, then go on a couple of dates with him without becoming "official" that way you can see if he has changed and to see how your feelings stand without having a b/f.. hope this helps
2007-03-23 11:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_cotton_candy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should talk it over with your current bf and let him know that you are not sure if it will work out between the both of you. If he does not spend time with you ,you should get someone who does.
2007-03-23 13:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can u go out with never seeing or talkin to each other sounds like ur being unfair to jesie and the other guy choose one before they both dump u which would b my advice to them if they were askin for answers
2007-03-23 11:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a girlfriend. stay single and go out with everyone.
2007-03-23 11:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To solve your problem, start using PUNCTUATION!
2007-03-23 11:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋