Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

Okay, here's the situation. My husband of 3 years is rarely to never interested in sex....which was not the case when we were dating....but anyhow, every time I try and give him a BJ or initiate something...he stops me and tells me no. He says he needs his "Testosterone." He says that if he "blows his load" it takes too much out of him, his legs are weak, he's tired the next day etc...and he needs to save his energy for work, or for basketball with the guys...or whatever...life I guess!? He says, "Ask any guy, they'll tell you the same thing!" So that's what I'm doing, asking all you guys out there...is this true, or B.S.?!
Sounds like B.S. to me!! Most guys I've been with would never turn down a BJ, and most would want some action at least once a week! So give it to me straight, what's the real deal here!? Any women experience this behavior from their man??
I don't think I'm ugly, I get checked out all the time...I'm adventorous, supportive...what more can I do?!

2007-03-23 04:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by LoveBiologist 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have to question to ask, if you are with someone and you
this guy are intimate,but you don,t achieve climax,but your last
partner you achieve it all the time,does it mean that you when
you love someone you achieve climax more,or it just depend
on the person

2007-03-23 04:32:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I saw my ex again the other night, he was holding me, hugging me, even crying..i thought several times he was going to ask me back but he didnt. The problem: he has a GF...who he describes as a nice girl. I get the feeling he doesnt want to hurt her...but its been over 6 months and he still says he is in love with me. Hes never tried to turn it into a booty call so thats out. I just dont understand what to do. I wont be number two girl ...i didnt speak to him for 4 months..ive only been in contact with him for maybe the last month. It was so hard to see him crying and holding onto me.
Heres the best part..theyre going to be taking a trip together in a few weeks..he says if he hadnt already paid for it, he would probably not be with her for the last 2 months and things with us would be very different.

Do i simply not talk to him until he figures things out or do I come with it and tell him that if he wants us to work he needs to break it off with her?

2007-03-23 04:30:21 · 15 answers · asked by Lioness 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently spoke to a close cousin of mine named Sonia.She told me that she walked into the store that our younger cousin works at to say hi.They met after five years.I will call the one who works at the store Polly.Polly also introducted her to the tall and handsome guy she has been having sexual relations with who is not her husband unbeknown to cousin Sonia. Now my dilmena is that I know this has happened and it could be happening still as they work together, do I tell my close cousin Sonia or keep my mouth shut??I know that after Sonia gets married and starts to visit that city more as her husband is from there will get to meet this other cousin Polly often so I wonder that it is possible Polly will also have her guy who she is cheating with socialize with them bc he is none other than the husband's best friend.The husband thinks this guy is his best friend so invites this guy with his wife when they go anywhere together bc he does not know their real relations.WHAT TO TELL SONIA

2007-03-23 04:30:17 · 4 answers · asked by JasmineRose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i grew up in in the city of Buffalo and my wife in the suburbs. The neighborhoods in the city are crumbling and the worst thing is the school system. We have a kid in the Buffalo schools now and she is having a very hard time there. We now have another one on the way and i want to move to the burbs where the kids are safe and in good schools, but my wife wants to stay in the city. we have fought about this over the past year and nothing i say is convincing her. She is concerned about diversity which i respect, but i am more concerned about the kids well being. what do i do next?

2007-03-23 04:30:13 · 4 answers · asked by John D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 04:29:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u know what love is

2007-03-23 04:29:55 · 6 answers · asked by ~Shan~ aka Shannon B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a long distant boyfriends who 2 best friends (well most of his friends) are females. He said something to me last night about one of them wanting him to go to the movies with her, and the other one wanting to meet him for breakfast. Am I being unreasonable by not liking this siuation?

2007-03-23 04:28:48 · 22 answers · asked by dipinchocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Singles & Dating

Im new to dis schl rite and i really lyk dis guy but i dont no how to talk to him talkless of saying that i actually lyk him i mean he looks at me and i look bak but we never say anything.What should i do

2007-03-23 04:28:34 · 5 answers · asked by QT4REEL 1 in Singles & Dating

im armenian and wanted to see if there's any other armenians that use yahoo answers

2007-03-23 04:28:04 · 4 answers · asked by sweethyedreamer213 3 in Singles & Dating

I am getting harrased by a message board jer. What do I do?

2007-03-23 04:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one of our memeber on this yahoo, suggested to use ky jelly for guys on first nite, if that is his first experience. pls advice whts that ky jelly.

2007-03-23 04:27:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This woman at work is really hot and married and a goodie, and i was a badboy u might say but, secretly i wanted her. I said something one day while her husband wuz belittleing her and she gave me that look with her eyes like thanks i like u. it went on for awhile like that and i wuz outa town working and found out she gotta divorce. I never hit on her again but she hit on me and i never acknowledged it. Its been 3 yrs since then and i decided to ask her out and she turned me down saying she didnt want to ruin a good friendship. i wuz kinna hurt. then a couple of years latter she just up and said OUTA KNOW WHERE that she dont care know more i wuz confuzed. She keep giving me compliments on my cars and boat acting like she liked me but, i didnt acknowledge her come ons. a year latter i ask her out and she said her brother has fixed her up with someone so i ask her who and she hadnt meet him yet but wuz hoping that it wud work out cuz her brother said he liked him. help

2007-03-23 04:27:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So my really close guy friend and I both have next week completely off!!! Well anyways, we are planning on hanging out a lot that week. The thing is, me and him have always kinda liked each other on and off. Right now he likes me and I like him. But this time I wanna show him how much I really do lie him. I wanna make a move on him this week, but I don't know when I should do it, or how I should do it. Any suggstions? Thanks!!!

2007-03-23 04:27:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say Brenda married Kevin. Kevin has a sister named Kim. Kim married Steve. what relation is Brenda to Steve. brother in law?

2007-03-23 04:27:17 · 2 answers · asked by i totally agree with you!! not 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

...but when I suggested hiring a professional house organizer, my Mom snapped at me and said it's insulting to her. She thinks that members of the family themselves should clean up the mess, primarily the mother. Thing is, half of our house (and we live in a three-storey house) is clutter! She never has the time to clean up her own closet, let alone the whole house! I have suggested throwing away old stuff to minimize junk but she wants to keep them for keepsake or because of sentimental reasons, whatever. I honestly do not want to live in a messy house (who does?) so how do I make our household more livable? I am going to move out soon, but I don't want them to live in that pile of junk of a house too. HELP!!!

2007-03-23 04:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by Tammy 4 in Family

theres a justin timberlake concert in april i have 2 tickets for and i know she likes him also &even mention that her friends had tickets & shed like to go i really would like to see the concert with her but i so don't want to make a jerk of myself
by asking her on a date & she likes"uh"no
she is so friendly always.i don't want that to change.
and worried of making a fool of myself please help.
i only get to see her on the weekends now and she ask me how was my friday night but i don't really like going to clubs bars & feel out of place
i'm 22 years old by the way not a kid which is so lame
honest answers please
how would you like to be asked?i don't want to be like really in her face thats not nice
shes really nice and easy to talk to how would be a nice sincere way no corny lines of asking please im still not sure if i should or even could im so jealous of people who find it easy

2007-03-23 04:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by johnc 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend puts kittens in hamster balls and rolls them around her house. Sometimes they get hurt. What can I do to stop this? And why does she do this?

2007-03-23 04:26:38 · 14 answers · asked by orderless1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is tis girl at my school that i like, like a whole bunch. the thing is, i dont know if she likes me. she notices me and i've talked to her and we've had conversations. i make her laugh a lot but i just cant be funny all the time, i need more ideas. im also 1 of two ther guys who like her. how do i get her to likeme over the others. like yesterday, she asked for a hug and today she completley ignored me!?!? i was confused. i really like her and want to go out with her. help please

2007-03-23 04:26:38 · 6 answers · asked by Young Jizza 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-23 04:26:17 · 22 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

Ive done everything i can to get my relationship back on track ive literlly done everything, and i am so tired of it. I know its worth the effort but i am so tired and i am so exhausted i luv the relationship but its taking t mucg out of me wat should i do

2007-03-23 04:26:07 · 17 answers · asked by Scott 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't have any boyfriend so far,because I don't want to date with different guys.I'm 20 and I'm still a virgin.I believe in true love,though it seems that true love is unavailable.And my friend told me that there was no Mr.Right.Is he right?Should I go out and hook up with different boys?

2007-03-23 04:25:48 · 21 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am concerned about the child's view of me taking some attention away from him by his father. He is a wonderful young man and his mother abandoned them. He is very close to his father, and I am very happy that they have such a close relationship. Any suggestions on how to reassure the 8 year old boy and the man that I have no desire to come between them and that I love them both without being too sappy?

2007-03-23 04:25:39 · 11 answers · asked by curiositycat 6 in Singles & Dating

Should I ask my wife's permission? Kind of like an open marriage situation. I love my wife and want to spend the rest of my life, but I need variety right now. Are some women open minded enough to accept this?

2007-03-23 04:24:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we dont have alot of money to spend on a wedding ( just me and my fincee are paying for everything and we have an average income) we are spending about $3000 on evevrything, luckily we are getting married in our niegborhood park with gazdo to is very pretty and the park is free and the the reception is being held at the local VFW buliding and we are only paying $150 to rent it, all the table and chairs come with the VFW buliding rental prices but they are thoses ugly brown metal folding chairs, and even thought i dont have a lot of money i still want to place to look every nice, any ideas will help my wedding theme is the seashore and dercorations are sand and seashells with a little luau thrown in there also, please no smarta$$ conments...thanks

2007-03-23 04:24:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-23 04:24:19 · 8 answers · asked by majestic13jm 1 in Friends

My bf broke up with me bcoz his family couldnt accept me (im not muslim) and he didnt know what 2 do... now he's gone back home (singapore), but i still love him, after 3yrs together. Should i go and try 2 get him back? What can i/we do about his family? Muslim/singaporean advice esp - need some tips!

2007-03-23 04:23:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this guy that I think likes me. The reason is because he is always nervous around me and I am not a scary chick at all. I am just his friend and I don't flirt with him. I am just really nice.
One day, he was telling me and his guy friend how it was almost impossible to get to his girlfriend. She lives 5 states away.I didn't even know he had a girlfriend.
This was the day after I caught him staring at me for a long time. After I caught him looking at me, I looked at him, and then I looked away.

He is also a really nice guy.

Only serious answers please.

2007-03-23 04:23:35 · 4 answers · asked by lakers_girl17 1 in Singles & Dating