Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

I mean what if you really love this person, I really do love him. He is not a bad person, but his past caught up wit him and he may have to do some time. The past few days we have been spending a lot of time together and he is giving me his things and his car because he doesn't trust his family. (he can trust me though) I really do love him so much and I do want to wait for him, but apart of me is worried. I mean I know how some people are when they get a taste of freedom..but I know he loves me.
I believe it will only be 3 to 6 months, its nothing too serious. Until then I have 21/2 weeks to spend with him.

If you've been through this tell me how was it?

2007-03-23 04:40:39 · 11 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3 in Singles & Dating

of all ages ,lol not this one

2007-03-23 04:40:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends want to take me out. I would like to do something different - kind of bored with the bar scene. I'm 27 and in the minneapolis area.

2007-03-23 04:40:06 · 9 answers · asked by RcknRllr 4 in Friends

I know middle-aged men are attracted to younger women for biological reasons, but when it comes down to finding a partner, do they want younger women? I'm 25 and am interested in a 40 year-old man. He's my doctor who I've been seeing for the past few months for depression. I think he's into me from some of the things he says and does - i.e. hugging, rubbing my thigh when consoling me, commenting on my appearance. I shied away and felt uncomfy at first, but I realized that I'm attracted to him and that's why I'm uncomfortable. I want to tell him how I feel, but he hasn't come out and said anything to me about being interested. I don't know if this is just how he is with patients or maybe he is just teasing me. I've been through a rough time lately and have had trouble keeping jobs. I can't understand why anyone would want to be with me in this predicament, but it seems that from his actions he's wanting more. One minute, he wants to get close to me, then he pulls back. Is it my age?

2007-03-23 04:39:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:39:20 · 8 answers · asked by freeway_mad 1 in Singles & Dating

i was seeing this guy for a while and i recieved a phone call from this girl and she asked if i knew him i said yes i do...and then she said ...oh well he is married and he's married to me and i said ok well i didn't know he never told me that he was married and then she said " u know what it's ok u two can be together it's ok." ....so i called him and told him about it and he said that one of his ex girlfriends lie all the time to start trouble. He's in the military so he said that if she calls again tell her if she's really his wife then she should report him to his chain of command, and that she needs to prove that she's really his wife if she's telling the truth so a few months later i get a phone call she said that she's the wife and i told her exactly what he asked me to tell her and then all of a sudden she says..."oh that's ok u two have a wonderful relationship i wish u two the best" and then she said i'm telling u for the second time that u can date him and be with him"

2007-03-23 04:39:20 · 8 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 19 years old, married 2 years ago,i have one child but i would run away with my ex boy friend ,so what?

2007-03-23 04:38:45 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A girl who is intellectual or an amusing character just to fill in your time (party type)?

2007-03-23 04:38:35 · 10 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:38:28 · 3 answers · asked by KaraKartal 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:37:57 · 10 answers · asked by jsmotown 2 in Family

2007-03-23 04:37:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As a child I was molested by a relative, became secretly pregnant when I was 13 and then suffered a miscarrage. At 16 I got involved in a sexually abusive relationship. After a second pregnancy that had to be aborted for medical reasons. Then I became involved with the man who is now my husband. I love him dearly but he says that I always use my rape to compare against him. I think the world of him. If all you've ever known was pain caused by the men in your life, how do you learn to trust. Counseling has never helped, I've been in therapy many times. My husband is kind and gentle with me, never pushing me into anything (very patient man) but my past keeps rearing its ugly head. I am trying to trust him the best I can, I am just afraid of losing him. I'm afraid he will lose patience with me and go somewhere else for the things I can't give him. We have a good sex life. We can usually manage about 3 times a week but it seems like not enough for him, please help

2007-03-23 04:37:39 · 9 answers · asked by lydia manning 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, this is kinda a long story and I don't know if should be askin this on yahoo, but I will give it a try. My ex and I have been broken up for 3 months. We have KNOWN each other for almost 8 years. We are both 24 and we reunited last march. It had been 4 years since we had spoken to each other. When we first dated when we were teens, we weren't as serious but there was always this connection we had. We were too young to really know what would come out of it. so when we realized last march when we started talkin again that we both had feelings for each other still, we decided to give it another try. He said he had missed me for those 4 years that we didn't talk.
So we never were very compatible, but I think it had to do a lot with distance. He lives in San antonio, and I live in ft worth, texas. We have always had that distance between us. It was simply fate that brought us back together this last time. That is why we thought we were meant to be cuz God gave us a second chance..

2007-03-23 04:36:56 · 6 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you french kiss? (i am old enough, by the way) and the guy im going out with has his tongue Pierced (i dont know if that makes a difference) please help =]

2007-03-23 04:36:50 · 3 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:36:49 · 22 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago, during the break up, he had a really hard time coping with it & after 6 months, I called and ask him back for a second chance but he already started a relationship with another girl. So i asked him will there be a second chance and he said right now no and its already too late because he really cares for the person right now and lets remain as friends then we will see how thing will be in the future. Prior to that, he said i will always have a special place in his heart having being his 1st girlfriend. Right now, part of me feels that there will be a scond chance but another part of says there wont be anymore. I still love him very very much and i really hope that there will be a second chance. What should i do now? Wait for a second chance or let the second chance become a fake hope? Deep down i still love him very very much.

2007-03-23 04:36:47 · 19 answers · asked by Faithless_AnGeL 2 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone tell me why the child support system thinks my son is worth 72.12 a month what can I do to get the money thats owed to me. that very little money for anyone.

2007-03-23 04:36:46 · 12 answers · asked by Nice isn't it 1 in Family

I am 21 and want a boyfriend.... I want children and want my husband to love me and mean it and we could have the time of our lives.....But the guys don't seem interested in me??? What am I doing wrong.... I need some help and tips!!

2007-03-23 04:36:12 · 7 answers · asked by country gal 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:35:58 · 3 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

It's raining outside. Bills are due. Money is tight. I have 4 of my kids this weekend my b/f gets his 3 kids. He'll get paid but takes home 25% of his gross. He's had the IRS put a tax levy on his pay. He keeps threatening NOT to pay the mortgages on the house. I had to pay the 2nd mortgage last month. I've had to pay out $4,000+ in the last 6 weeks on bills. He's only paid out $1,600 in the last 6 weeks. My annuel income is $12,000 & that includes my childsupport for my kids. I bought the house we live in a yr ago with his promise to pay the 2 mortgages ($630/mo). Then he wanted a boat & newer car to pull the new boat, all in MY name. Then the IRS put the levy on his paystub. Now he has enough to pay his boat, car & 2 mortgages & his cel. But he has let the cel go. Paying instead for bowling, lottery tickets, cancer benifit, etc. He needs $500 to pay a guy who claims he can lift the tax levy in 48hrs. That would be the BILL money! He would NEVER get caught up. How to keep peace?

2007-03-23 04:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 04:35:43 · 16 answers · asked by BlossomGirlNowerw 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating this girl for about 3 months now, & we get along great. But i find myself busy working alot. Shes busy too. But every moment I get off work or whatever i want to spend with her. My friends suffer from this. She has her own friends and is reall social too. Any advice on not looking needy, and how to keep her all over me every chnce she gets??

2007-03-23 04:35:43 · 10 answers · asked by M-A- Double T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:35:41 · 15 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2 in Singles & Dating

Are completely controlling my life. they wont let me wear wat i wanna wear, hang out with who i wanina hang out with. they wont lemme do anything i wanna do. they make me feel useless and like i cant do anything right. ive told them how i feel about this before and they said they would look out for myh feelings more but they wont. they still haven't. what should i do to get it in their head that they can't competely controll my life?

2007-03-23 04:35:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I started dating a guy who is very good to me. He talkes of marriage and growing old together. Im not ready for that because Im not even divorced from my husband yet(seperated for a year). Am I wrong to just drop him, or should I try to convince him to be friends first??

2007-03-23 04:35:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:34:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her last boyfriend was an asshole and like always the asshole gets everything. she tells me we can do other things but i think its time i lost 'it'. she says that she doesnt want thing to turn up like her last relationship. i get angry because she gave it up to him after a couple of months even the he cheated on her, treated her bad, and all he wanted was sex, what should i do?

2007-03-23 04:34:19 · 4 answers · asked by all for the 5point0 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 04:34:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was passive now should i be agressive?

told him we should hang out - and later that week got an evite to his bday party next Fri but beyond that, no bite.

what would you do? i want to ask him out and see him not at this big party, but don't want to be too aggressive.

2007-03-23 04:34:09 · 2 answers · asked by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband will lie about something and he knows that I know he's lying or that I at least suspect he's lying, but it will sometime take hours or even days for him to come clean with the truth. The only reason that he does come clean is because I keep drilling him. Once he does come clean he gets very upset with me and says I can't ever let anything go and I have to go on and on and on about things. My husband set rules when we were married about privacy, which I feel are only applicable to my mom and my brother whom are my closest family members. But when he wants to make exceptions for his family (his parents or his niece) he will and if I confront him about it he'll get defensive. After hours of drilling he'll finally say he knows that him making differences between people isn't right. After that he becomes very angry at me because he'll say I am "starting" mess. We have a joint checking account and when we go out to dinner my husband insists on using "his" debit card. See Part 2.

2007-03-23 04:32:38 · 21 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce