I mean what if you really love this person, I really do love him. He is not a bad person, but his past caught up wit him and he may have to do some time. The past few days we have been spending a lot of time together and he is giving me his things and his car because he doesn't trust his family. (he can trust me though) I really do love him so much and I do want to wait for him, but apart of me is worried. I mean I know how some people are when they get a taste of freedom..but I know he loves me.
I believe it will only be 3 to 6 months, its nothing too serious. Until then I have 21/2 weeks to spend with him.
If you've been through this tell me how was it?
2007-03-23 04:40:39 · 11 answers · asked by SexyBlackFasho 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was with a guy for 2 years and he went to jail for a year and it was the hardest thing i ever had to deal with. we were so in love and it was like somebody just took that away from us. we talked about marriage and kids the whole nine but when he got out things change he got out of jail and did his own thing i was so crushed. but if you love this guy and you know he loves you wait for him you never know he may be the one. in my heart i still believe that mines is still the one so maybe one day he will come back to me.
2007-03-23 05:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by KEDESHA G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I waited on my husband for 2 years, and I regret it. He came out and did the same thing over that go him put in jail in the first place. If you think this guy is for you, then make sure you check everything out about him before he gets out. If his past keeps cathching up with him, then its time to run faster. Know what I mean??? Tell him to take a different route in life so it wont "CATCH" him again.
2007-03-23 04:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then waiting 3 to 6 months will not hurt you. I thought you were talking years. Now if he has like years into his sentencing then no.....don't put your life on hold for him. You have to live for you then, he would not be out here helping to support you so why wait that long?
If it is just 3 or 6 months that will go by so fast just be true to yourself.
2007-03-23 04:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3-6 months is pretty low key. And at least you know he won't be cheating on you. Visit him every week and write a few letters. You'll be fine.
EDIT: To the person below me: Gay rape in prison is extremely, extremely rare these days (ESPECIALLY minimum security facilities, where a 3-6 month term would likely be served). Learn your facts before you make blanket statements.
2007-03-23 04:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mudhole 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that long, you can wait it out. Visit him 4-5 times a week, if not every day. He needs someone to lean on, since he can't depend on his family. You really love him, and he really trusts you. Stick with him.
2007-03-23 04:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend went to jail and i really love him and he was suppose to do 3 to 4 months but he got lucky and got out he was just there a week cause a new law pasted and i still was going to wait for him even if it was years.
2007-03-23 04:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sure to have him tested for STDs when he gets home... not implying that he'd be seeking gay sex while incarcerated, but gay sex may find him. Way too many women (especially Black women) get infected with HIV after dealing with men that have been imprisoned.
2007-03-23 04:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dustin T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like u already have some doubts go with ur gut instinct or b prepared to live the rest of ur life waitin
2007-03-23 04:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the suitation, if he is good person from within and truely loves you .. you would wait coz he is worth that.
Best wishes.
2007-03-23 04:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sara007 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hi sexyblac,
ur not clear in asking ur q. is ur b/f is in jail? is he a criminal?
if he has committed a serious crime then there is no point waiting for him. just forget him. try a new venture. enjoy the life!
2007-03-23 04:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋