i was seeing this guy for a while and i recieved a phone call from this girl and she asked if i knew him i said yes i do...and then she said ...oh well he is married and he's married to me and i said ok well i didn't know he never told me that he was married and then she said " u know what it's ok u two can be together it's ok." ....so i called him and told him about it and he said that one of his ex girlfriends lie all the time to start trouble. He's in the military so he said that if she calls again tell her if she's really his wife then she should report him to his chain of command, and that she needs to prove that she's really his wife if she's telling the truth so a few months later i get a phone call she said that she's the wife and i told her exactly what he asked me to tell her and then all of a sudden she says..."oh that's ok u two have a wonderful relationship i wish u two the best" and then she said i'm telling u for the second time that u can date him and be with him"
2007-03-23 04:39:20 · 8 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why is she calling you to tell you she's his wife if she is okay with you seeing him? I doubt she is telling the truth. Or maybe she really is his wife legally but they are separated, but still weird, if they are separated she shouldn't care. The jealous ex-gf story is more believable IMO.
2007-03-23 04:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by romulusnr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's crazy. As a military wife, I'd never say that! First of all, he's MINE. Second of all, he really can be prosecuted in the military for adultery. So hang up on her next time. Think about this though, dating him means having that crazy around. He really needs to get her to quit this silliness, or you need to call block her.
2007-03-23 11:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be wondering about her calling you, she's obviously a woman scorned and wants to stir things up.
I'd be more pissed at him. First of all, how did this woman know he was dating you? How did she get your phone number? Why does he allow her to do this and shrug it off like it's nothing?
It's because he likes the thought of two women fighting over him. That makes him bad boyfriend material.
2007-03-23 11:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think this man can be trusted. And the woman is a psycho, how could she find you and know so much about your relationship if he is away in the military? I would back away from both of them because this woman knows your number, and might know much more than you think.
2007-03-23 11:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by s..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this lady is psychotic and probably has mental problems. I highly doubt that this guy is in a relationship with her and she's probably trying to break you two apart. Get proof that he's not married (just to double check) and go on with your life.
2007-03-23 11:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dumb ex. If u like him just chill with it. If you start to notice him changing. Like not spending time anymore or not so close than maybe something is going on.
2007-03-23 11:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolute confusion!
find her address and go get rid of her!
2007-03-23 11:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by Spark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?? ummm, i think she is mentally ill. dont listen to her babe
2007-03-23 11:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~Mevsim~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋