her last boyfriend was an asshole and like always the asshole gets everything. she tells me we can do other things but i think its time i lost 'it'. she says that she doesnt want thing to turn up like her last relationship. i get angry because she gave it up to him after a couple of months even the he cheated on her, treated her bad, and all he wanted was sex, what should i do?
2007-03-23 04:34:19 · 4 answers · asked by all for the 5point0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would listen to her. She has experience in this area and you do not. If she did agree to have sex with you, and then for whatever reason, you decided that you wanted to break up with her two or three months down the line, won't you feel every bit as much as an asshole as you think her ex-boyfriend is?
If you requirement is sexual exploration and sexual pleasure in a relationship, there are other ways besides having intercourse. You even said your girlfriend was willing to do other things. For now, you should do the "other things" and show her that you respect her, care for her, and value you her as a person, not just a hole to get off in. If what you truly want is just to have sex, find another high school slut and don't treat this girl badly. She was honest and fair with you, she deserves the same.
2007-03-23 07:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect her for what she wants to do. Why do you take the time to show her that you're not like her other boyfriend. She will warm up sooner or later, but you have to give it time. If dont want to respect her for what she wants to do, then she deserves way better than you.
2007-03-23 12:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by aliengirl72008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes. All you have to do is to make her more and more excited, eventually she might ask for it.
All the best!/
2007-03-23 12:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex!!!love her!
2007-03-23 12:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by then she killed my brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋