I am 21 and want a boyfriend.... I want children and want my husband to love me and mean it and we could have the time of our lives.....But the guys don't seem interested in me??? What am I doing wrong.... I need some help and tips!!
2007-03-23 04:36:12 · 7 answers · asked by country gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, in our culture today, you're probably not going to find too many men your age who are ready to be married. And if you talk about wanting to be married and having a family to young guys, you most likely are scaring them off. Maybe you should try to meet men who are in their late 20's or early 30's who are ready to settle down.
2007-03-23 04:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. In my opinion not only is that the most sincere and honest thing to do, but it's much easier too. Go into every situation openly, without big expectations, and without prejudice. I found my bf right after I had resolved that I would never find anyone. I wasn't sad about it or anything, but just knew that I would never find someone to spend the rest of my life with. Then one day I was hanging out with my best friend and he asked what we should do so I said we should go find people, as in some of his other friends and we went to this guys house. Man was he ever hot. I pretty much fell in love/lust with him right away and it took a couple months and lots of liquid courage to get me to make a move on him but I finally did, and tomorrow is our 2 year anniversary and I am 25 weeks pregnant. The best part is that we have so much in common still, both in our backgrounds and beliefs and in our likes and dislikes. I wish you all the luck in the world honey, and it will happen for you!
2007-03-23 12:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wonder the same thing...but sorry to tell you i don't think this is the best place to meet him. I could tell you all the crap about "he'll come when you least expect it" and stuff but it doesn't make you or me feel any better does it? Good luck and have confidence in yourself and the guys with see it! how can they think you are special if you don't like yourself(i'm still working on it too)
2007-03-23 11:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be any one of a number of things!
2007-03-23 14:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am available, contact me if you are interested.
2007-03-23 12:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ben N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its how you look? be funny, smart, and witty, and sexual at the right times
2007-03-23 11:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Answeroni-the dime piece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll do it, but you have to give me your rear
2007-03-23 11:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by PrimEvil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋