This woman at work is really hot and married and a goodie, and i was a badboy u might say but, secretly i wanted her. I said something one day while her husband wuz belittleing her and she gave me that look with her eyes like thanks i like u. it went on for awhile like that and i wuz outa town working and found out she gotta divorce. I never hit on her again but she hit on me and i never acknowledged it. Its been 3 yrs since then and i decided to ask her out and she turned me down saying she didnt want to ruin a good friendship. i wuz kinna hurt. then a couple of years latter she just up and said OUTA KNOW WHERE that she dont care know more i wuz confuzed. She keep giving me compliments on my cars and boat acting like she liked me but, i didnt acknowledge her come ons. a year latter i ask her out and she said her brother has fixed her up with someone so i ask her who and she hadnt meet him yet but wuz hoping that it wud work out cuz her brother said he liked him. help
2007-03-23 04:27:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, could you type in proper english? That would help me understand your situation. Second, there is probably a reason that it isn't working out. She is realizing that she probably missed a good guy, but now she's missed her opportunity. You just need to let her go. If it is meant to be, you'll both be on the same page at the same time. For now, find someone else.
2007-03-23 04:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by ALFimzadi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like this happen all the time and when we get in a position where we feel that we can finally do something, our ideas are suddenly crushed. Maybe when she asked you and refused because she just wanted to be friend and nothing more and did not feel like it was the right time to start dating because she did not feel ready. Now that she has someone, it is not wise to try and break it up, because you will have more problems then you need and she will be really mad at you and there is no telling what she might say. If their relationship does not work and she wants to give you a try then she will come to you, you have done your part, move on until something happens, but waiting around is not going to cut it.
2007-03-23 04:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lot of years - and not even one date. Amazing.
2007-03-23 05:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends only at this time--may change in the future
2007-03-23 04:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-23 04:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋