Okay, here's the situation. My husband of 3 years is rarely to never interested in sex....which was not the case when we were dating....but anyhow, every time I try and give him a BJ or initiate something...he stops me and tells me no. He says he needs his "Testosterone." He says that if he "blows his load" it takes too much out of him, his legs are weak, he's tired the next day etc...and he needs to save his energy for work, or for basketball with the guys...or whatever...life I guess!? He says, "Ask any guy, they'll tell you the same thing!" So that's what I'm doing, asking all you guys out there...is this true, or B.S.?!
Sounds like B.S. to me!! Most guys I've been with would never turn down a BJ, and most would want some action at least once a week! So give it to me straight, what's the real deal here!? Any women experience this behavior from their man??
I don't think I'm ugly, I get checked out all the time...I'm adventorous, supportive...what more can I do?!
2007-03-23 04:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by LoveBiologist 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thats such bull Sweetheart.
A BJ is the best cause you can imagine anything and not have to work for it. It doesn`t take away your energy because your not exerting. It doesn`t reduce your testosterone level. As men are always the givers it is nice to be a receiver sometimes.
At 59, Mommy and me don`t do it as often but we still do it about once a week or so..
Sorry but when guy`s don`t do their wives its because they either can`t anymore (medical) or are doing "someone else". You need to ask him which is going on here?
Glad you asked
2007-03-23 04:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 11 years this year and i would die for a bj or sex at least 2 times a week. After kids the sex slows down but i think that he is getting his elsewhere. If he had a load to give you then im sure you would get it. Besides i take care of things myself every day sometimes twice a day and it never makes me tired or weak in the knees. Hes a puss. Go out and buy you a nice pocket rocket to handle your own. Then use it on him when hes being a pansy.
2007-03-23 04:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by steve h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion your man is seriously bull-jiving you and he has to give you credit for what you do behind closed doors, it seems he attitude toward sex pretty much means that he has studdenly stopped being interesting and making up excuses as to why he does not want like because it makes him feel tired, don't believe that for one second, but then again he has the right to refuse sex or anything sexually related. He is missing out not you so don't feel bad, once he realizes what he is missing he will be back, what guy in this world won't kill to get some. After awhile talk to him and let him know how your feeling and let him know this is affecting your relationship with him.
2007-03-23 04:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy has a Rocky syndrome, or something from Dr. Strangelove. It is total BS. It does make you weak for a few minutes, but lordy it is worth it. But it also drives the testosterone harder. If you never get rid of those little devils it will atrophy and become useless. Also, the prostate does one thing and one thing only. It creates fluid for the little sperms. If you never use it then it atrophies and become cancerous.
2007-03-23 05:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes "blowing your load" can make you feel a little weak, but it doesn't effect you that bad for him not to ever want to. Sounds like to me that hes blowing it somewhere else(maybe in her hair) I don't see how it could effect him after he sleeps through the night too. Hey just holla at me and I'll give it to you and you can give me a BJ.
2007-03-23 04:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Great one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's total BS. I've been married for 2 years and bang my wife at least 4x a week. I couldn't imagine not getting any regularly. If I were you, I'd start snooping around. Who knows, maybe he's gay!
2007-03-23 04:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is getting it somewhere else, im sorry. Smell of his member when he comes home sometime. If thats not it then he's masterbating allot or is gay.
2007-03-23 09:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like crap to me.. sorry for your unfortunate situation.
hope it gets better.
2007-03-23 04:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋