Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

can anyone give me tips on how to ease the pain of losing my virginity? i'm am very ready to make love to my boyfriend (please, no lectures on premarital sex) and we've tried other things like him using his finger but that hurts as well! we use plenty of lube and i try my best to stay relaxed, but does anyone have any other suggestions? Thanks.

2007-03-23 09:01:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some info on dating british guys because i will move to england someday!!!

2007-03-23 09:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm a bit confused, I've had intercourse with women before, i'm only attracted to them physically, as for men, it's more a sentimental thing. I couldn't imagine myself falling in love with another woman, I only fall in love with guys, like my fiancé. But women, I like their bodies and getting intimate in bed with them.

Does this mean i'm bi-sexual? Or does bi-sexual mean you have feelings for your same gender too?

Thanks everyone

2007-03-23 08:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by PinkRose 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old woman who is interested in a 38 year old man? Is that a bad thing? Is that too big of an age gap? I'm not sure how he feels about the age difference, but to me it isn't a problem. What should I say to him to assure him that it isn't a big deal? Any suggestions?

2007-03-23 08:59:52 · 21 answers · asked by selena020102 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 08:59:38 · 19 answers · asked by Chris E 3 in Friends

She told me so I broke things off with her and we are both devastated...she really wants to be back together and says it all happened because i didnt like her sister, and this guy she hooked up with did like her sister. She also said that it was a huge mistake and she regrets it. That i gave her ammo to go out and expore what else is out there...i just dont get it...how could she love me, like she says she still does, and go do something so premeditated, sober...she basically had a fling for a whole week...claims just kissing and im trying to believe that...Maybe its age or inexperience??...she just turned 24 and im 28. What should i do!!!

2007-03-23 08:59:33 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 08:59:13 · 14 answers · asked by valgal115 6 in Family

My boyfriend invited me out to his mother's birthday dinner the other night and I want to send her a thank you card for having me. We've met before, he and I have been friends for years and we would bump into each other frequently, but this was the first time I had been introduced as his girlfriend so etiquitte is very important. I have no way to contact the grandmother who paid and I really don't want to apear stuffy or snooty, but I want to let them know that the gesture was appreciated.

Dear Name,
Thank you so much for letting me be a part of your birthday festivities the other night. It was wonderful to meet everyone again and to have such a wonderful dinner. I think tiramisu may be my new favorite dessert! Please send my thanks and love to your mother for dinner, it was very much appreciated.
Many thanks,
Me

I thought about saying, "Now I know where Blank get his kindness and sense of humor from!", but I figured that would be too much. Thoughts or suggestions?

2007-03-23 08:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married to a wonderful man in the US military. I'm in the UK. I'm planning on joining him soon with my children (who are 15 and 12) from a previous marriage. I've already got the hurdle of fighting him in court over this. My lawyer said there shouldn't be too much of a problem as they say they want to move with me and start a new life over there and the courts listen to children nowadays. They see him every now and then for 2 hrs on a Sunday.

Now I have another problem, MY MUM. I know she's going to be heartbroken when we move. When we go out to see my hubby we speak to my parents on webcam so she can see my children. The problem is she's questioning them all of the time about are we moving? would they move? Every day this week she's been on at them. I find it hard to speak to my mum to be honest as she makes me feel like I'm a kid, stupid I know. What's the best way of going about it without me blowing my top.

2007-03-23 08:58:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have heard the arguments - especially the religious ones - that we are responsible for our fathers transgressions/sins/misdeeds.
I understand that these actions can have repercussions on you.
But do you feel responsible?

2007-03-23 08:57:45 · 14 answers · asked by Bunts 6 in Family

I met this guy back in Nov. and within days I met his kid. Not long after that he introduced me to the baby's mother (they had never been married)and for the most part she was really nice to me. But then she started started callin at odd hours tryin to cry on his shoulder because her boyfriend left her or because her friend moved far away. I told my b/f that if our relationship was to grow that that crap had to stop, and it did. By Jan. we got our own place, the ex was still being nice to my face. But then she started saying (behind my back) that she didn't trust me with her baby (because I don't have a baby, therefore I don't know how to take care of one) and if my b/f left his kid alone with me that she would take him away. And all this from the girl who takes an infant to a bar! My b/f doesn't want to tell her to **** off because she has relatives working for the state. She is making me feel like I'm in a dead end situation. Anyones opinion would be welcome.

2007-03-23 08:56:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a while to go, up until August 1, but I want to plan something for my husband and suprise him...I am just not sure what I could do.....I want something creative....and something that takes a little time to plan...it has to have some romance....I just don't know what lol if any one has some ideas please help :) I am thankful for any help I get :) Please keep it serious I really don't want any BS answers :) Thanks ahead of time for anyone that helps.

2007-03-23 08:56:24 · 5 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she broke up with me....and she has a new boyfriend now.
She tells me that she still loves me the way she use to....and wants to come see me...i still love her too.

She said It's not to get back together.

She knows that i would work things out with her with whatever caused the breakup...

What's her purpose in seeing each other? more drama?

2007-03-23 08:55:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this girl I went out with a few times. Then we moved in together and eventually married. When I come home from work she is always looking at me and smiling. Sometimes she even cooks dinner for me. Does she like me?

2007-03-23 08:55:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do hot girls always date ugly guys that are jerks?

2007-03-23 08:54:59 · 3 answers · asked by Trevor B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 08:54:58 · 13 answers · asked by Tiffany I 1 in Weddings

I have been married 5 years, with my husband for 8. Until last year, we had a great relationship. However, I had skin cancer with surgery, a back injury with surgery and 4 weeks of bedrest. I went into depression and was very cruel to him, calling him names and accusing him of things. It was ugly. I am doing much better now on medication and healthy. He just informed me that he wants to move out for a while to get space to think. He says he loves me, he doesn't have anyone on the side or want anyone. He is staying with his sister now, but every time he comes over he tries to have sex with me. It is a big head trip. Any advice? And don't bother saying he's cheating because he is a snow plow driver and was out on the road for part of January and the entire month of February and when he wasn't there he was at home asleep.

2007-03-23 08:54:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hmm?

2007-03-23 08:54:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband's ex has always disliked me because she doesn't want me in her kids lives. His family still invites the kids to birthday parties to keep them involved but no one really want's her there.

2007-03-23 08:54:28 · 0 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 9 years
i love him dearly
He left me today and i am torn ...
whats the best way to get over a person and let them go
we have 3 girls
7,5 and 2
Its a vicious cycle of druga nd alcohol abuse
i love him but i love me and my kids too
but im sick!
i feel lost

2007-03-23 08:54:23 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

several months ago and would like to have him back. It is to my understanding that this was an "Open-Adoption" where both parties keep consistent communication between one another and the mother, i.e. my sister, is able to view pictures and receive update status of her son's health.

1. Is this possible?
2. If possible how difficult would this rode become?
3. How should this be initiated?

Recently she conveyed this to the other party and now there communication has not been as frequent. We understand that his is hard for them however my sister feel guilty for her mistake and that the child should be with a biological parent.

If you have any suggestions please help.

2007-03-23 08:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do not own a suit, so please don't suggest a suit. I refuse to buy one. Any other suggestions would be appreciated.

2007-03-23 08:53:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

There is this guy that i like, and he flirts with me sometimes, but i really can't tell weather or not he likes me. Today he started playing footsie with me but when we're with other people he is totally different. He's really talented at the guitar and is also kinda popular. What should i do? Does he like me? Please help!

2007-03-23 08:52:55 · 13 answers · asked by PrInCe$s 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 08:52:40 · 9 answers · asked by blondy 2 in Singles & Dating

pudding as it sat on the table while she was away getting a spoon. Don't you think that's just rude?

2007-03-23 08:52:33 · 43 answers · asked by endlessknowledge 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 08:52:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is adopted from russia and has been with her since he was 4 months but he is on a pedastal. He never gets in trouble, hits my 8 month old and when i yell at him for it I get yelled at. He has never been spanked on the bum or on the hand. She does not scold him. her oldest son(my fiance) has recently told me that she will not because she does not want to be one of those moms who scold him for everything and that she doesn't like scolding him because he is not her own. I am going nuts she needs to understand that he cannot hit a 8 month old, her excuse is he doesn't know yet.... She is crazy, How can i let her know that I will not stand for the way he treats my daughter wothout hurting her feelings!

2007-03-23 08:51:52 · 10 answers · asked by Desi R 1 in Family

I'm very loud, and outgoing but some guys have said that loud girls get on there nerves! So who would a guy rather go out with someone loud and outgoing or a shy quiet girl?

2007-03-23 08:51:24 · 18 answers · asked by Hayley 3 in Singles & Dating

My family hates my boyfriend. They have done a lot of things to him. They have embarassed him in public and even posted nasty things about him on the internet. Now he is treating me different saying that he needs his space to decide what he wants to do. I didn't do anything to him and I think that he should not take out his frustrations on me. Am I being unreasonable?

2007-03-23 08:50:59 · 12 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i used to be really good friends with this girl, going out together, going on holidays and stuff, really good friendz but recently weve grown apart. ever since we left uni we dont see each other everyday, dont have as much in common anymore!!! she was the only friend that i used to sdee all the time & spoke to like every day but know i don't know what to do. should i make an effort to get back in touch properly or move on ??? really confused!!!

2007-03-23 08:50:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends