can anyone give me tips on how to ease the pain of losing my virginity? i'm am very ready to make love to my boyfriend (please, no lectures on premarital sex) and we've tried other things like him using his finger but that hurts as well! we use plenty of lube and i try my best to stay relaxed, but does anyone have any other suggestions? Thanks.
2007-03-23 09:01:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax, it's going to hurt little bit first time usually does. I would suggest foreplay, condom!!! Be safe! and relax. It's gets better as you go along. Takes things slow and make sure your ready.
2007-03-23 09:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Babe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use lubrication and go very slow. As he progresses you should try to remain relaxed. In either case it will only hurt the first time. Wear protection.
2007-03-23 16:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could start by taking a couple of stiff drinks or if you don't drink a couple of Tylenol 3's should ease the pain
2007-03-23 16:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by all we want is a 1 nite stand 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There really isn't much that will help but relaxing and enjoying the moment. It is just part of losing your virginity.
2007-03-23 16:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately there is no way to avoid it. The membrane has to be broken and that is what will hurt. You may even have a little bleeding. Hang in there....it definitely gets better.
Just be safe!!
2007-03-23 16:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try using a dildo, one shaped like a humongous black man's loin! That will get you lubed up nicely..you might add some KY-jelly.
Mainly, you need to enjoy sex..get hot and nasty! If you feel like there will be "pain" in losing your innocence.then what's the point in doing it in the first place!?
2007-03-23 16:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If even a finger hurts, you are too tense; don't. It's your body trying to tell you something!
2007-03-23 16:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can say is relax and get it over with and it will keep getting easier every time
2007-03-23 16:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by x3miissiing_youx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing I could think of is using fingers.
Yes it will hurt at first.
Either that or buy yourself a vibrator and take it at your pace.
2007-03-23 16:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by B-Rad 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to ease the REAL pain... is to get married first!
2007-03-23 16:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Benny & the Jets 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋