Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

I love my boyfriend will all my heart. But because of the lie he told me, I am so afraid to trust him fully. What would you do?

2007-03-23 12:41:33 · 11 answers · asked by The only good blu is a dead blu! 4 in Singles & Dating

i am an asian guy. i am tall, really worked out and my `friend down there` is big)))

but i got this issue bout my eyes which holds me back all the time. i am intimadated by white guys to approach to make friends with them and even more which i am really dying for!

i am always kinda concious bout my asian eyes. i just cant get over it. even if some white guys tell me i am hot, i just cant accept and appreciate it, cuz there`s this nasty/freaky feeling that tells me i am not worth any white guys.

pls tell me how to get over it.

and i guess there`s no need to insult me.
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2007-03-23 12:41:28 · 8 answers · asked by 360 1 in Singles & Dating

God, i am so ticked off at him...

2007-03-23 12:40:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i just asked a question then one of my best friends called and said someone started a rumor that a boy said he wished his gf had big boobs like me? And now everyone is talkin bout me!HELP I DNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY WHEN SOMEONE ASK ME BOUT THE RUMOR!

2007-03-23 12:40:41 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Friends

2007-03-23 12:40:17 · 14 answers · asked by shortstuff 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i am like in LOVE with this boy at my school, i like him soo much..i write his name on my pants and my hand nd stuff and l LOVE HIM. and i asked him out twice..and he said no twice. So.. soon enough i got over him and totally forgot about him. One day in choire i was sitting there reading my songs and A big group of girls came in and were giggling and lauging and the girl in the middle came out and said " i just made out with him!!!!!" And at that moment, everything in my head just disappeard, my hear was beating a mile a minute. my eyes got big. And all of a sudden, i cried, i cried like i never cried before, i was balling my eyes out, tears everywhere, on my friends shoulder. I was crying so hard, i ran out of the classroom into the bathroom and stayed there for three hours crying my eyes out. i never knew i loved him that much. What heppened here? because he said no twice...

2007-03-23 12:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so im like 5'10" I weigh the same as tyra banks, im a cheerleader, a lifeguard, a tennis player, I love dancing, and i love getting my picture taken. I also love to make people laugh Im a brunett (its like a shiny bronz color) but my friends say im blond..lol, and I just love to go out and have a good time...im a good girl though, so clean fun. So If you were to meet me what would you think about me?

2007-03-23 12:39:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have male friend that i work with and he's a great guy, really nice and good looking. He calls me "sweetie" and "good lookin" all the time which is nice and i dont mind it. He ask's about my relationship with my boyfriend frequently, which i am happy in, and often mention's that he is unhappy with his girlfriend and his relationship, and that he may be single soon.
Do you think he is just being friendly? Or possibly interested in being more than friends?

2007-03-23 12:39:12 · 10 answers · asked by Nik 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres a boy in my class and he doen't like me but I really like him. I need some suggestions to get him to really like me and not the concieted girls. Please answer.

2007-03-23 12:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by Queen 4 Eva 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were just married in a very small ceremony of about 15 people in the town where we now live. We had already announced our wedding date as October 6th to everyone and were planning to still have a large ceremony for everyone in our home state where the majority of our family and friends are. More and more though we're feeling like people won't want to come because it's not the real thing and are thinking of throwing a wedding party instead. I've heard of these before but I don't actually know what the etiquette calls for in this type of situation. How do we go about telling everyone that we already got married and inviting them to the party without hurting peoples feeling and looking like we just want gifts?

2007-03-23 12:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Weddings

I have friend on crack that has four children. The ages are 7 which are twins, 9, 15. The 15 year old is living with his father. I am so worried about the younger ones. Their mother just will not leave it alone. I used to feel sorry for her. But it has been 7 years since she started so I do not feel for her anymore. I can not have any children and when she was expecting the twins she was smoking while she was carrying them. I begged her to stop but she is selfish and does not care. Her 9 year old can tell me step by step on how to load up a crack pipe. I have called social services and they have not done anything about it. Thank God the twins was born ok. I am just to fed up. The only thing that is keeping me going in this friendship is the kids. She is so neg. and we have nothing in common except the kids. Please advise me on what to do. I am at my wits in. Should I end the friendship. I have done everything I know of. She has been on welfare for 15 years.

2007-03-23 12:37:00 · 7 answers · asked by Lizzy 4 in Friends

2007-03-23 12:36:49 · 17 answers · asked by Chocolate Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm wiccan. My best guy friend is christian.So anyway,he is being really insulting to my religion,not in so many words,but hinting at it. I do believe in god , but i also know god has given up on me.I don't care if you agree with me or not,but please ,How do i deal with this without hurtng my friend? or our friendship??? HELP!

2007-03-23 12:36:16 · 7 answers · asked by compleatlyinsane=] 4 in Friends

im not friends with her, but she lives in my neighborhood and she doesnt talk to anyone. she doesn't have ANY friends. and i feel so bad for her. i cant just go up to her and be her friend because she wont even talk when i try to connect with her. and i found out that she cutts a few days ago. her parents are in denial that she had depression or anything wrong with her. pleaseeeeee tell me what to do.

2007-03-23 12:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was thinking of this earlier. I know what I think of the question but I was wondering what others were thinking of this subject. and before I leave to let you answer this question, please when you answer please explain why you think so, it would be much appreciated.

2007-03-23 12:34:46 · 25 answers · asked by terrawolf04 2 in Family

About a month ago I sent this guy I like chocolates with a note that said from secret admirer. The thing is for the past month now he seems kind of distressed and disappointed that no one has come forth. I really don't want him to know it's me. The only reason I did it was because sometimes he seems so sad, and I thought this would cheer him up. But it seems as if it's done the opposite of what I intended. Some girls in my area that he used to be friendly with he now treats differently not as nice. I guess maybe whoever he thinks it is and doesn't want it to be he acts different. Should I send him one more thing a letter saying all I ever wanted to do was make him happy and I'm not coming forth. No ones going to ask him out. I just think he's great and tell him I know he doesn't feel the same but this way he's not waiting around for someone he may like to come forth. Should I do this or just forget it. I feel maybe he needs closure even though it's not someone coming forth.

2007-03-23 12:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just broke up with my boyfriend, who was also my best friend. I miss him but he's just not good for me. HELP. :-(

2007-03-23 12:34:21 · 13 answers · asked by Nina7746 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a 4 year old little boy (tyler vance cameron) he's the cutest thing. He just dont listen to me. For the most part he is pretty good when its just me and my husband and him. I mean he's not wild and out of control then. but when i ask him to clean his room or do something he tells me no. Time outs havent been working and i hate spanking him. he's an only child i'm not having anymore but i babysit througout the day. When someone comes over he starts acting up really bad. I think its because he knows i wont dicipline him in front of our guests. I need help i dont know whta to do with him and i'm about to loose my mind. Please anyone with any advice i'm listening.

2007-03-23 12:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by tcameron_2004 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is always shooting up. On our last date (It was at my place. He is moving in in a month) he said he had to go to the bathroom and he was there for one hour. And when I was tired of waiting and I walked into the bathroom, he was jacking off and shooting up. I don't know what to do. He is such a sweetheart and I love him. It's just I am afraid to start a family with this man when he is a danger to himself and me.

WHAT DO I DO?

2007-03-23 12:33:51 · 1 answers · asked by Lior 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 12:33:14 · 26 answers · asked by DAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 12:32:47 · 9 answers · asked by myneighneigh 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but he doesnt like me back...how can I get him to?? Or at least get him to see me as his girlfriend potential?(sp?)

2007-03-23 12:32:45 · 5 answers · asked by kabelski101 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, At my School, I think i like this guy, I don't KNOW what i feel like. it is hard to explain. everyone thinks he is ugly and stupid, and i THINK i like him because i get this feeling around him and i don't know though because he is ugly, and everyone hates him. and i know he like me because he always waves to me and talks to me and writes me little notes. but i don't understamd what i am feeling deep down in my heart. I don't know!!!!! Please do not tell me to "listen to my heart" or "do whatever you feel" or "there are plenty more fish in the sea" or anything like that please. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I FEEL!! and it is bothering the heck out of me! i don't like him--but i do! i feel as if i went out with him ever, i wouldn't feel right. like akward and stuff. AND I DON'T WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM!! please tell me what is happenening!!!!!!!

2007-03-23 12:32:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont understand what hubbs is doin 2 himself!!!! he reelly big n his gut is HUGES!!!!!!! it stik out so far he cannot see ground no more!!! he make me get him hoverround 2 buzz round in,,,,,,,,,,, i try n talks to him n stops him from goin to macdonalls all the times,,,,,but nothin work!!!! he keep telling me stop naggin him!!! he health filled n GOD MAKE HIM BIG!!!! he say he need lot of food!!!!! he ALWAYS eatin!!! all the times!!!! he have so many rolls round hes belly now i not likes it!!!!! whenever he need a pall mall i got to get up n lite it for him now cause hes finger 2 bigs!!!!!!!! shood i just him be or shood i dose something???????????????

2007-03-23 12:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The other night my girlfriend came home late after going out with some friends... I found some pictures on her camera of her making out with another guy. She said she was drunk and that she as soon as she realised what happened she pushed him away and asked to leave... she said that it was all that happened, but there were like 4 or 5 pictures..

she said how sorry she was, she deleted her myspace and changed her phone number.. and said she wouldnt go anywhere without me from now on.

I dont really believe her that it was all that happened, and the fact that there were 4 or 5 pictures makes me not beleive that she was trying to push him away.. and she didnt seem like she was pushing him away..

My question is... what should I do...? I told her I would take her back, because she deleted her myspace, and changed her phone number.

I think I should have her call this guy on the spot, and say "I was drunk, what did we do the other day" and see what he says (if she's lying..?)

2007-03-23 12:32:13 · 22 answers · asked by Nat T 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.
It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore.
yesterday , she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. He makes her say sorry in an argument all the time and for me i'll just get mad and later compromises. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up, sex was the first time for the both of us. She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it. I'm waiting and searching for another girl

She wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to. At first we argued and later i said sure. It wouldn't hurt much. Any ideas about what to do when i see her?

2007-03-23 12:32:09 · 4 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 12:31:45 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl at work. We had lunch with co workers first day i met her and at night she came over to my apt (she pretty much lives next door) to borrow detergent and we chatted for a while. I then asked her if she wanted to go get some food at sorta a fast food place. She said yes and came over later to go. We had dinner there and chatted for bout an hour after at the place. We then drove home and I asked if she wanted to hang out this weekend and she said yes, we are gonna go to an amusement park. I like her and would like to date her. She is french and seemed a bit standoffish but every french person i know was like that at first, they take longer to warm up to people it seems. Today she asked me if it was okay if her roomate came along too and I said yes. Do you think im on the friend ladder? any way of saving my chance?

2007-03-23 12:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by styler 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but i just met this school year so we have only been friends my friends all say that he likes me cuz at the beginning of the year he came off real strong problem is i just found out he's moving next year so my friend said i should hook up with him...i have mixed feelings because i don't want to rush into something that is going to end but i don't want to be left here wondering what could have been What do you think?

2007-03-23 12:31:07 · 5 answers · asked by Rdy4Summer 3 in Singles & Dating

i play football am in very good shape (5'7 130 lbs) very outgoing and try to talk to girls as much as possible yet when i asked out a girl out today she rejected me

what the heck did i do wrong?

2007-03-23 12:30:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating