Theres a boy in my class and he doen't like me but I really like him. I need some suggestions to get him to really like me and not the concieted girls. Please answer.
2007-03-23 12:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by Queen 4 Eva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm not a conceited girl, i'm a proud parent of a well educated girl.
Why so selfish on this? Ok this guy doesnt like you, but you like him? Why not find someone who will like you, want to be with you. So this boy doesnt like you. Its not up to you to determine who he likes. Thats up to him. Plus, I think having a name like Queen 4 Eva says something about your own conceitedness. Sounds a little selfish if you ask me.
Hon, dont fall into the category of the girl who only goes out with the jerks. In the end, you'll fully regret it. There are plenty of great guys out there, you just dont see them. Open yer eyes hon, plenty of great guys out there who will want to be with you.
2007-03-23 12:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Find out where guys are coming from in general. You've probably heard that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, so don't assume that guys think the way do, nor that they interpret situations the way you do. Learn what to expect from them.
2. Get to know him. Sometimes we become enamored with a fantasy that the guy can fit into, more than the real person himself. Make sure your intentions are genuine and show him how you feel.
3. Understand that appearance is most certainly not everything. There are, of course, some guys who feel that appearance outweighs personality in a relationship, but that is not true for all guys. (See the Tips below.) Keep your appearance the way it normally is unless you are already dating and dressing up for an occasion, because if you are not desired for who you truly are, then why be involved in a relationship in which you portray yourself as something you are not?
4. Make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. Look for common ground but also use this as an opportunity to open your mind and respect his individuality. Whether he's into death metal or Nascar, take an interest in his interests.
5. Learn to read him. Every guy has his own way of showing that he likes someone, and you can find out what his is by being observant and patient.
6. Find out what he's looking for in a girlfriend (or what he's bent on avoiding) and see if that matches up with who you are and who you're striving to be. But, don't bend your personality to fit his ideals--remember to be yourself.
2007-03-23 19:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by cool&laid-back 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do youself a favor and realize that men a very different than women. They are visual and can usually tell within the first few meeting whether or not they like a girl. If this guy doesn't like you, he may still play around with you, but you will never be "the one". Don't you want better than that?
2007-03-23 19:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by TEXY1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot "make" a boy "like" you. You can however make him "notice" you by showering, brushing your teeth, wearing nice clothes, raising your hand in class and giving smart participation.
2007-03-23 19:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make a guy fall in love with you....he has tro deside that himself.....just try talking to him and getting to know him...
if it was meant to be it would happen if not move on...there other fish in the sea........
good luk....
xoxo
2007-03-23 19:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Skannk<33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that? You can not make anyone like you..if they like you they like you. Why do you want him to pretend. Find someone else
2007-03-23 19:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, get to know him
2007-03-23 21:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋