About a month ago I sent this guy I like chocolates with a note that said from secret admirer. The thing is for the past month now he seems kind of distressed and disappointed that no one has come forth. I really don't want him to know it's me. The only reason I did it was because sometimes he seems so sad, and I thought this would cheer him up. But it seems as if it's done the opposite of what I intended. Some girls in my area that he used to be friendly with he now treats differently not as nice. I guess maybe whoever he thinks it is and doesn't want it to be he acts different. Should I send him one more thing a letter saying all I ever wanted to do was make him happy and I'm not coming forth. No ones going to ask him out. I just think he's great and tell him I know he doesn't feel the same but this way he's not waiting around for someone he may like to come forth. Should I do this or just forget it. I feel maybe he needs closure even though it's not someone coming forth.
2007-03-23 12:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would this make things worse do you think? Or would this possibly help what would you want if it was you? I just don't want him to know it's me. Especially if he's mad that someone did this. Because maybe he got his hopes up, I didn't think this through like I said all I wanted to do was put a smile on his cute face. I've made a mess I feel.
2007-03-23 12:36:11 · update #1
Please help I don't know what to do!
2007-03-23 12:36:32 · update #2
Yes, send him an anonymous letter before he does something drastic.
2007-03-23 12:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not a creep...
Then find a time soon when you can get him alone tell him a shortened version of what you told us. That you wanted to be nice and hoped it would cheer him up.
You really want this to be private .. not broadcast in front of your or his friends.
If you can do it, it is better than a letter.
That might help you both.
And perhaps he might like you more :)
2007-03-23 19:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, send him a letter then see what happens. You were only trying to help if he does not see that then forget it.
2007-03-23 19:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like we are playing games. Be honest with him or move on.
2007-03-23 19:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by fitzovich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sheesh. if you like him. tell him. if not, he'll get over it in time and recall he once had a secret admirer. peace
2007-03-23 19:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go u to him and talk to him.
2007-03-23 20:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send it! if u like him that much send it it's the way 2 go! please do it be4 it's 2 late!
2007-03-23 19:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by THERESITA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋