Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

My ex-husband has been exchanging e-mails with my brother about me and our situation. We have a 14 year old daughter whom he has custody of. My brother lives close to my daughter and ex-husband. I live in another state.

I just called my brother and asked what the e-mails contained. He said that its between the two of us. He had told my cousin some of the information in the e-mails.

I said that I am sorry to have involved you and hung up quickly. He then said that I am probably bipolar and need to see a psychiatrist. He is and takes meds for it.

I got upset because my ex-husband says the same thing to me. (calls me a mental case)

My brother is 6 years younger than me and we have not been close in the last few years. He was trying to keep in touch with my daughter (his niece) and therefore exchanging e-mails with my ex. Now there are more problems...

I feel sad because of his comments....

2007-03-23 13:20:53 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

alll of them freakin' date you and then when you don't give them action they dump you!

2007-03-23 13:20:26 · 22 answers · asked by chickwithproblems!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

we have more to us than vagina's. Why don't most guys see that?

2007-03-23 13:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship and my gf wants to call me everynight and i tell her not to crowd me and i have tried to tell her this several times am i doing anything wrong i do not wanna hurt her in anyway,please help.

2007-03-23 13:19:13 · 12 answers · asked by Sean C 1 in Singles & Dating

So me and this guy have just started to talk and I think he is super cute i've known him for a week now and we talk all the time he tells me the things he likes to do and that kind of stuff and always wants to know more about me so today when he was walking me to my locker he just says "yeah i have an archery tournament coming up" he's really good at it too. I didnt say much because my friend yelled my name and said something right when i was going to tell him that it was really cool. He did tell me where it was but then he had to go to class. So what exactly does it mean? Does he want me to go? And my other friend thinks its really cool and wanted to go watch and i was thinking of maybe surprising him by showing up and supporting him is that a good idea?

2007-03-23 13:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by jc 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok! So there is this boy i really like! His name is ryan. And He is sooo dreamy. I just want a way for him to notice me. Do i need to do my hair, put on make-up? What? If make-up is the situation, please tell me how to aply it (Girls) because i am in middle school, and i cant apply it that good! Or my attitude? Cloths? I just need something! Please help!

2007-03-23 13:17:48 · 9 answers · asked by Sidney 1 in Friends

I am 23 years old and i am totally in love. The guy is way older than I am (39) but I really love him. He loves me too. A week ago he asked me if I would marry him. Of course I said yes and I was about to say it, but first he had to tell me something.HE IS A PALIGAMIST!!!!!!!!! He already has 2 wives and he wants me to join their family. I would have to help take care of 7 kids and keep it a secret. I would have to convert, but I love him. What should I do?

2007-03-23 13:17:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today he keep stealing my cell phone. I"m 24, in college... he's 19 (age doesnt' really bother me that much)... we've known eachother for a few months now... just said hi every now and then. anyways.. back to today. In the cafe for lunch.. he keep stealing my phone..then he took the battery out..and then the sim card..and woudlnt' give them back.. he wanted me ot try to take them back..so I did... then he stole my purse and WENT THROUGH IT.. LOL it was kinda funny...lol totally re-aranged my wallet... asked me about EVERYTHING in my wallet... then stole my phone back again... then ran out of the cafe.. I chassed him...and lost him...went back to the cafe... then I tried to make him give it back...but he wouldn't... I got it back maybe 3 times... then he stole it again... so then he got it again and I was like..gerrr and found a pink permadent marker in my purse...and started to higlight his hair with pink permadent marker... still didn't bother him... lol then later today (continued)

2007-03-23 13:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 13:17:21 · 40 answers · asked by Brendon B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 13:16:09 · 16 answers · asked by Doug 7 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this guy at school and he's not really cute but i think is.i don't know him,i've never talked to him, but i can tell by the way he dresses and the way he acts that he the kind of guy i would like. i just want to know how i can talk to him with out seeming weird for talking to a stranger.i have no classes with him and i want to get to know him. any advice?

2007-03-23 13:16:03 · 9 answers · asked by no day but today 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm quiet, shy, and don't have any good friends.

2007-03-23 13:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

I made this in early march just sitting in my computer and just thinking about it for 30 seconds. I am quite talented as most people say. I am only 13. Though, I know I do lack some poetry things here & there but.. tell me what you think!

Crushes are hard,
Hard to figure out,
You always want to know,
what they are all about.

You sit and think for a moment,
Is this the right guy?
You get confused,
as you see him walk by.

Your heart pounds so fast,
You try to look attractive,
You try to look cool,
You feel very active.

You talk about them with your best friend,
This dreadful confusion, you want it all to end.
You try not to like him,
You just pretend.

Crushes are crushes,
You always think their interest lack,
But you never know,
Until they like you back.

Crushes are confusing,
You never know what to say,
until you experience them,
they come a long way.

-katekitty, 13

2007-03-23 13:15:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do some guys end up liking girls that have a boyfriend?
What is it about a girl that isn't available that makes a guy
interested, or is it based on looks?
And why do some guys play mind games and act like
they want to be friends, and go out places and they don't come visit, or go fishing? Incidently, they all work together, and have made it a point to say I am too pretty/beautiful for him. It
seems like they want to lure me away from him, I am hoping at a friendship level only, because I don't mess around.

2007-03-23 13:15:00 · 4 answers · asked by violetoriel 1 in Singles & Dating

IF YOU WERE STROLLING DOWN THE MALL AND YOUR MAN OR HUSBAND SEES A GIRL UP AND DOWN, DO WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO GET MAD? FOR ME IT'S LIKE" OK YOU'RE GOING TO LOOK BUT DON'T DO IT IN FRONT OF ME". I'M NOT THE JEALOUS TYPE BUT IT TICKS ME OFF WHEN HE DOES THAT IN FRONT OF FAMILY OR FRIENDS.

2007-03-23 13:15:00 · 15 answers · asked by Monica A 2 in Singles & Dating

Girl I have been seeing had her father recently pass away. Relationship was going fine until 2 weeks after this happened. We both decided to not get more deeper into it, because of her emotions/feelings of sorrow. I emailed her a article about how to know your type & even warned her to not read it until she was ready. She emailed me & said she was in a bad mood & that me sending that wasn't good. We had a dinner date couple of days prior & everything was great. Since then I have not heard from her when I have left messages. If she wanted to just be alone I feel she should have told me so. How am I to know her mood at any given time without telling me? I would respect her need for space if she told me & she would contact me when she was ready. Since not knowing what is going on or her desire to be alone. I have been worried/stressed. I dont think this is how a person should treat another reguardless. Am I wrong? Should I end it the relationship part & just be friends or end it all?

2007-03-23 13:15:00 · 2 answers · asked by ken_bailes 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband will be celebrating 10 years of marriage next year and want to renew our wedding vows in a wedding ceremony in a church that we never had before. We are on a very tight budget and can only spend like $2500 on this wedding. I've gotten help on the dress and tuxes and other things, but I'm worried about decorations and accessories. Has anyone out these had a wedding on this budget and it was beautiful just like if u had thousands of dollars to spend on it? Please help me!

2007-03-23 13:14:34 · 10 answers · asked by Friendly 3 in Weddings

2007-03-23 13:13:34 · 15 answers · asked by dragonfly 4 in Friends

Well.. There's this guy at my school. We talk here and there. Me, him, and some of our friends all drove around yesterday. This love song came on and I looked at him and I had this like huge flash out of no where. .That I like him.. or something. Last time I spent time with him (about a month ago) he had a girlfriend. I want to hang out with him more and I think he'd make time for me.. but I'm grounded.. He's in school and the Marines. (pretty sure my family would give him lots of respect b/c a lot of my family is in the military and my father used to be)

I really like him but I don't wanna end up crushed I guess.

What should I do?

I know that sounds like a really stupid question.. but I am dearly confused.

Please help, thank you.

2007-03-23 13:13:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I'm 15 and he's 17 and my friends think it's weird that's me and him dnt fight. Is It?

2007-03-23 13:13:15 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Family

2007-03-23 13:12:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

husbands bestfriend
husbands brother
husbands sister
husbands mom
husands dad
other.............
remember NO reprecussions............just one night......this should be hilarious OH and BOYS insert WIFE where needed.......LMAO.

2007-03-23 13:12:08 · 23 answers · asked by sqwirlsgirl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 15. ive done everything but. i have a bf, we would never cheat on each other. should i do it? he said only if i wanted

2007-03-23 13:11:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a girl from 7 months now but I didnt see her alot maybe 1 time a month but I talk with her alot on telephone or email, she tald me that she have a boyfriend but I don belive that I don know why when I see her she sat beside me and she touched my arm and she made me went with her beside window (me and her alone) and talk, I feel when I see her that she changed alot to me couz when I visited her the last time she called me 5 times that day and the last call was in 2:30 am and said that she cant sleep, but when I didnt see her she didnt call at all.. me just callin I know that am crazy but what can I do to know
sometimes she talked about her boyfriend to me and there is one time she asked me do u love me but in that time may be I didnt interested on her so I said no and for over 20 days she kept ignoring me and dont talk to me even on the net when she saw me she signd out but now we back as usual just on da telephone I don know what to do hope u'll help

2007-03-23 13:11:47 · 1 answers · asked by lololo 1 in Singles & Dating

2 yr relationship. My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore.yesterday , she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. He makes her say sorry in an argument all the time and for me i'll just get mad and later compromises. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up. Sex was the first time for the both of us. She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it. I'm waiting and searching for another girl

She wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to. At first we argued and later i said sure. It wouldn't hurt much. Any ideas how i should treat her

2007-03-23 13:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

will i kinda like this guy and that i want to know if he likes me or not try asking my firend to ask him they said ok but they never did....and you give me some ideals?and how do u know if a boy likes u?

2007-03-23 13:10:57 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki V 1 in Singles & Dating

See for a few years now eversince my parent's were divorced I always had to go to my dad's house and he picked me up to stay for the weekend. But now this year he moved to Las Vegas and just left me here and now comes back and says that I should go to his house again and for a while now I've been ignoring him and not telling him the truth and making up excuses not to go over to his house. But this time for the weekend my friend and I were gonna hang out and go to the mall (etc.) and he says that I have to go to his house and he's gonna pick me up tomorrow morning. I tried telling him that I have other plans but he didn't listen to me at all! Then I told my mom about it and she said "No you're gonna go to your dad's this weekend" it's not fair both of them didn't listen to me and I don't wanna go over to his house cause it's so boring and we do nothing over there and I'd rather hang out with my friends. At least my friends were there for me when I needed them and my own dad wasn't.

2007-03-23 13:10:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 22, my girl is 19. We live in NY. Her family is moving to Atlanta in July cuz they got this new house down there. She's gonna go to school there for 2 years then come back to N.Y. to stay.

But she really doesnt wanna go and I could sense shes a bit depressed about having to go. Things are great between us, we're both on the same level about everything, I'm talking crazy chemistry here. We're very happy with each other.

Well I came up with the idea that she could go to school in N.Y., she could stay here, and live in student housing, a hostel. They have ones here that charge between $17-$30 a night, which I can afford, I would pay it for her until shes able to find work and pay herself. Her parents dont have a problem with her staying in N.Y. as long she has a way shes able to.

I haven't told her about this idea yet, I'm kinda scared of her thinking I'm being too..... I don't know what the word is, maybe you know what I'm talking about. But what do you think? Is it a bad idea?

2007-03-23 13:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 13:09:58 · 4 answers · asked by Steven G 1 in Friends

2007-03-23 13:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating