Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

Okay. 90% of the time, he sits next to me. He plays with my hair. Compliments me. Does/wears stuff that he knows I like, and when I compliment him, he says he knew I would. He doesn't want me to get hurt, so he does it for me, meanwhile getting cut in the process. He always helps me out, touches me (not inappropriately, though-on the arm,shoulder, etc.)
He memorized a lot of stuff (even though I only might have said it ONCE), does whatever I want, says he always likes what I wear, doesn't do things if I knows I don't like it, is really concerned about my feelings. I had my head down the other day because I didn't feel well, and when he came in, he automatically asked "What did you do to her"? He always IMs me first, even though he may only have a few seconds to be online. We have so much in common, about 80% of things we agree on. I'm friends with him, though, and while one friend says not to ask him out, two other friends do.

2007-03-23 13:43:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to talk to this girl and we have went out about three times but just as friends I want to try to get her to be my girl but I don't want to make my move too soon cause
I don't wanna seem thurst. when should I make my move and what should I say

2007-03-23 13:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I HAVE A 13INCH MEAT. SOMETIMES girls will say no after they see it. What should I Do????

2007-03-23 13:43:33 · 12 answers · asked by J TEZZY 1 in Singles & Dating

This probably isn't my best poem. I just made it up in 30 seconds again... probably more but It's about a girl who likes a guy but her crush already has a girlfriend so her feelings are told throughout the poem. You can read my last poem, click my name, it's probably better than this one. But I just made it really fast so it's quite short... what do you think!



"Jealousy"


My heart just sinks,
when the dumb girl winks,
a smirk on her face,
what a nasty disgrace.

My crush doesn't know,
How much it really hurts,
to see him with his girl,
and she just flirts.

I try not to give up,
It's like a stupid hard test,
always confusing,
even if I try my best.

How can I get him?
Should I really just wait,
For this loving moment,
to break up with his mate?

Jealousy is one of the few things,
that really does suck,
but if you go for it,
you might have a little luck.

-katekitty, 13

2007-03-23 13:43:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is he bored because he knows I will be with him whenever he wants? Is the challege gone? I cant play these stupid games but Im frustrated with him....what can I do? I really really like him.

2007-03-23 13:43:16 · 6 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Singles & Dating

When I'm trying to befriend a guy because he's cool, not because I have feelings for him, it seems like they always turn down my offer to hang out, but we still talk all buddy buddy and stuff IMing and in school. I asked my friend and she said it was because they might think I'm asking them out, so how do you ask to hang out without making it a date??

2007-03-23 13:42:57 · 4 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Friends

2 yr relationship. My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore.yesterday , she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. He makes her say sorry in an argument all the time and for me i'll just get mad and later compromises. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up. Sex was the first time for the both of us. She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it. I'm waiting and searching for another girl

She wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to. At first we argued and later i said sure. It wouldn't hurt much. Any ideas how i should treat her

2007-03-23 13:42:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am by my whole family that means aunts, uncles, cousins, brother and sisters etc... I admit I am spoiled but I don't consider myself a brat, I think I am a very caring person...But my family just thinks that because I get everything I ask for I'm a brat.. I don't force my parents to give me anything

2007-03-23 13:42:25 · 10 answers · asked by Aracely 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2 yr relationship. My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore.yesterday , she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. He makes her say sorry in an argument all the time and for me i'll just get mad and later compromises. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up. Sex was the first time for the both of us. She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it. I'm waiting and searching for another girl

She wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to. At first we argued and later i said sure. It wouldn't hurt much. Any ideas how i should treat her

2007-03-23 13:41:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is very hot and also vegan. She's incredibly smart and very versed in cult. movies, anarchism, and botany. I've had a crush on her for a year now. We used to get dinner once a week or so, but that stopped because I became to lazy/nervous to call. It's been 4 months since I last talked to her. I'm sure I'll see her again soon and when I do I want to impress her as being witty ,confident, and fun. How do I do this?

2007-03-23 13:41:35 · 12 answers · asked by fysicsphun 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to understand something guys please! I have feelings for this older man. This man is 64 and I'm in my forties we both are married. There are times we talk I feel he is a great person but at times I think of him when my husband is making love to me. I realy think this older guy is playing with my emotions. I have decided to stop talking to him .

2007-03-23 13:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by patty m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 13:40:44 · 3 answers · asked by Freelance Chick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay why is it that when a guy has a threesome they get a pat on the back but when a girl does theyre automatically thought of as a wh**e

2007-03-23 13:40:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets take a poll.. who votes for it ?

2007-03-23 13:40:27 · 2 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 13:40:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The kiss was really good! He wasn't going to stop either if I didn't leave. I was shocked when he did it--I wasn't expecting it and I deep down really like him. I thought we could start a relationship until he said that he just did it on an impulse and that he's a guy, he couldn't help himself. He said he was sorry. I am so angry!!! Oh, and he said he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Which really means he doesn't have feelings for me at all? I have been too nice about it. I haven't told him I'm really upset.

2007-03-23 13:39:16 · 10 answers · asked by sugar1973 2 in Singles & Dating

I love My boyfriend very much, but I don't want him to get in trouble. Every time he gets in trouble I get mad at him, but I still let him know I love him. How can i keep him out of trouble.

P.S. I am not the mushy type. So I don't like to pour my guts

2007-03-23 13:38:45 · 2 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 13:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by Mark D 1 in Family

I've heard a thousand times that there are women out there that like "nice" guys. I think it's a curse. I'm easy on the eyes so I know it's not because of my looks. I'm fun to be around and like to laugh and cut up. But ...because i'm "nice" it seems that the women that interest me tend to run in the opposite direction when they realize this. How do I rid myself of this curse? It's not that i want to be mean to women, I just want to stop being considered as a nice guy.

2007-03-23 13:37:26 · 20 answers · asked by RockstarR 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 13:36:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm afraid i'm slowly falling for this person, i can't stop thinking about him, and i'm totally day dreaming, i feel like i'm a teenager! lol. which i'm not. i'm in my late 20's. i make him nervous when i'm around him, and we've kissed..... i'm drawn to him.... should i enjoy the moment? could both of us end up hurt? i am dating guys within my age range, and its just not the same, these young guys only care to get off and that's it.. with him its different......

2007-03-23 13:36:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 13:36:39 · 8 answers · asked by ric_e_ric 1 in Family

Ok there is this guy that I think likes me. The reason is because he is always nervous around me and I am not a scary chick at all. I am just his friend and I don't flirt with him. I am just really nice.
One day, he was telling me and his guy friend how it was almost impossible to get to his girlfriend. She lives 5 states away.I didn't even know he had a girlfriend.
This was the day after I caught him staring at me for a long time. After I caught him looking at me, I looked at him, and then I looked away.

He is also a really nice guy.

Only serious answers please.

2007-03-23 13:36:19 · 31 answers · asked by lakers_girl17 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well my bf(darell)i was in love with him!!yea, you(by lloyd) and dont matter(akon) was OUR song(just sayin). anyway we were great and everything until march 23,2007 he told my friend 2 tell me its OVER.well i wanted 2 cry but i kept it back, and i was really crushed. then he was flirtin' with other girls, and being mean 2 me kinda. but today he was being kinda nice 2 me. and my friends were sayin' somethin' 'bout him doin' somethin' gross behind me, and im like ok?and he started talkin' 2 me more often.but then he was flirtin' with my friend in front of me wen i was done talkin' 2 him
is he tryin' to make me jealous? or is he really moving on?he said he's not mad at me.help!!(i still like him!real bad!)

2007-03-23 13:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by 'PK Nelson 2 in Singles & Dating

our basement is flooded and we need to get it out right away we have no hot water and we need to get it out ....any ideas ...quick ..please...

2007-03-23 13:36:09 · 12 answers · asked by angelinas daughter m 1 in Singles & Dating

the man you were seeing who sent you special gifts like jewelry and clothes sent the same gifts to other women around the US as he met them online and in chat rooms. I am not sure how to feel, the same necklace he sent me, he sent to three other women for christmas!! All of it came from Zales. Would that bother anyone else?

2007-03-23 13:35:40 · 4 answers · asked by kamieshac99 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really want to hear your answers guys. For me, this is cyber cheating and more than just wanting to read what everyone has to say.

2007-03-23 13:34:23 · 21 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 13:34:18 · 11 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any ideas on how i can make the wait time of two more weeks feel less extensive? I'm a full time student extremely busy with school, but still it feels like a lifetime since my boyfriend left, and its been almost two months now (long long two months) I need a huge distraction to be completely consumed by, to make the process faster? What can i do?

2007-03-23 13:33:48 · 2 answers · asked by DesiGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm 17 and i have a 1 month old baby my ex gurlfriend won't hav nuttin to do wit me!!!! I luv her and the baby i really want to be wit her and help her take care of my son will some body please help me!!!! I don't know how to tell her how much i love her!!!!!

2007-03-23 13:33:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating