Okay why is it that when a guy has a threesome they get a pat on the back but when a girl does theyre automatically thought of as a wh**e
2007-03-23 13:40:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We call it a double standard.
If a teenage boy has sex vs. a teenage girl
If a guy sleeps around vs. a girl sleeps around
A guy receives a ******** vs. a girl gives a ********
etc...
I think the best way to get rid of the double standard is to ignore how society views what you're doing. If you want to have a threesome, by all means, have a great time. You're not a whore, you just know what you want.
2007-03-23 13:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by sestantonse58 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think human beings act and react on the basis of instinct and old traditions much more than they know, even if we think we're really advanced and modern. Like it or not, women are seen as keepers of something precious (their sexuality), and its accepted that men are dogs in the sex department, following and nailing anything they can sniff. When a woman gives away her treasure so easily, especially when it's something particularly raunchy like a threesome, (some) people are going to judge it negatively.
2007-03-23 20:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a fact of life. Living loosely both male and female get a reputation. One wears it as a crown of honor and the other as the scarlet letter.
Both parents are proud if their son has a slew of girlfriends but they don't even want their daughter to date.
You can't change thousands of years of world culture.
The only reason it's deemed fair is, only a woman can be trusted to control her hormones
2007-03-23 20:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's an age-old stereotype. Get over it, and just have fun! I have threesomes and moresomes with guys, grrls, and/or both... I don't care what anyone thinks.
In fact, no one else has to know so why are you worried about it? Just be discreet and go for it...
2007-03-23 20:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what you are talking about. The male and female both are whores. I'm not patting anybody on the back for that. I knew somebody who did that and he like to tell the tale (boast) about it. It just disgusted me.
2007-03-23 20:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just the way society thinks i know it isnt right but it will take a long time for society to get over themselves and realize that if one is a whore than all that do this are whores its ****** up but theres nothing we can do except stop giving credit to the people the do these acts
2007-03-23 20:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by rickjames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah my dear, an age old question
I always wondered when the girl gets knocked up WHY IS SHE BLAMED, labled and the guy is held like a trophy, Ah you are going to be a Father......
If I was not mislead HE had to be there too. but it is not done like that.
men see us a certain way. And has from Generations back
I thing is is sad myself, Thats why it is important that we show our self as we want to be seen.........
2007-03-23 20:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two girls want to **** me, I don't call 'em whores... You're a whore though, just for the fact that you had to ask this (yes it doesn't make much sense, but I don't care).
One more thing - What dude in his right mind would want to have a threesome with another dude?
2007-03-23 20:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by I'm Hard...Again! 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
a threesome does not mean your a whore, all you did was kill two birds with one stone so to speak, hahaha!........ and joseph is just a nerd and proly never been kissed to say the least so dont listen to him lol , just have fun before all the fun is taken
2007-03-23 20:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I wouldn't think of you as a whore just because you were in a threesome....You can be in one with me any time baby....
2007-03-23 20:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋