i'm afraid i'm slowly falling for this person, i can't stop thinking about him, and i'm totally day dreaming, i feel like i'm a teenager! lol. which i'm not. i'm in my late 20's. i make him nervous when i'm around him, and we've kissed..... i'm drawn to him.... should i enjoy the moment? could both of us end up hurt? i am dating guys within my age range, and its just not the same, these young guys only care to get off and that's it.. with him its different......
2007-03-23 13:36:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have had 2 marriages with much older men. It's all nice and fun and good, then you marry them and they are stuck in whatever era they came from, expecting you to be something you are not from their age group.
Enjoy it while it's happening. If you're attracted, do what feels right. Just don't go any further than that. You will end up hurt and will have wasted a whole lot of time you can't get back.
2007-03-23 13:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by ohio_ninja_cows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if this is what makes you happy go for it! BUT people might make comments such as: Is he your father? Are you with him for the $$$? How's the sex life? Are you going to take care of him when he's old and ill?
My cousin was happily married to a man 30 years her senior. They had a good marriage and were happy for 25 years! But some people asked the above ignorant questions throughout the years they were together. Just do what makes you happy and good luck!
2007-03-23 13:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proceed with caution. one day at a time. some age differences work out well. some don't. my parents were married over 20 years before one passes away. there was over 30 years difference in their ages. they were happy together. the parent who survived the death went on to marry someone closer in age and had a second happy marriage of over 20 years. just keep in mind that there is a lot to think about in these relationships.
2007-03-23 13:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by post 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in your late 20's and he's 32 there really isn't that much of an age difference. This one sounds like a keeper, he must be the one for you. Congratulations, relax and enjoy his company
2007-03-24 12:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not even going to address the age difference issue. i think your old and wise enough to know if this is what you want or not. just the way your coming to yahoo for answers you should be asking this man the same questions. you two obviously feel something for each other. get your feelings out on the table and try to figure out where you two should go from there. there is nothing wrong with being honest. youll be able to determine how far to go with each other from here.
2007-03-23 13:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are old enough to be in a relationship with a huge age difference. If you enjoy him, as a person, why deny the relationship its time because of age?
2007-03-23 13:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by sestantonse58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that makes him like, late 50s- early 60s! honey, he is old enough to be your dad. you shouldnt like him, and stick with guys your own age. cuz you dont want your husband/bf or whatever to die of old age when you are in your 30s or 40s do you? i dont think so. if you really like him, i guess it could work out, but you might end up getting hurt in the end because he is so much older than you are.
2007-03-23 13:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by stevie_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do love him , then be with him! Its what your feelings count , not age differences. I'm sure you both will get along just fine :)
2007-03-23 13:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has an older group of friends, which means if you start going with him, you'll be exposed to an older crowd. My own opinion is I think you'll be disappointed. Stay with your own age group.
2007-03-23 13:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! You never know unless you try. As long as you both feel confortable and happy, age is nothing!
2007-03-23 13:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by smilingthru_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋