The kiss was really good! He wasn't going to stop either if I didn't leave. I was shocked when he did it--I wasn't expecting it and I deep down really like him. I thought we could start a relationship until he said that he just did it on an impulse and that he's a guy, he couldn't help himself. He said he was sorry. I am so angry!!! Oh, and he said he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. Which really means he doesn't have feelings for me at all? I have been too nice about it. I haven't told him I'm really upset.
2007-03-23 13:39:16 · 10 answers · asked by sugar1973 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he does have feelings for you but isn't sure how you would respond. Take it easy and slow, friendships can evolve into better things, and its better if your lover is also your best friend, other than someone that just fulfills your sexual desires.
2007-03-23 13:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it waz a kiss in the mouth it depends i know a rule of love is he kiss you in the mouth he really loves you so I dont know how u feel about this if you really like him then do what u feel is right and if he told you that he was sorry and hopes the relation ship will go well ok I hope this helps you out ask him this question: why did you kiss me if you like me tell me and do you want to take the relation ship at a level more than firends
2007-03-23 20:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A kiss can mean many things... sometimes passion, sometimes platonic love, sometimes respect, or just the normal need for sex. Guys are guys... we sometimes think with our Johnsons... you still gotta love us. The alternatives are become a nun or a lesbian. If it bugs you, make him your boyfriend - it's easier than rationalizing your thoughts to the average guy.
2007-03-23 20:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Scott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, now its going to be tense. What you should do is kiss him and say I'm a girl and i saw an opening. To show him how you felt, then you two will laugh it off later.
2007-03-23 20:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by PJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sure wants 2 keep his options open, sugar...u do need 2 talk with him and let him know he overstepped the boundaries...u can continue 2 b friends if he respects how u feel and acts accordingly...good luck
2007-03-23 20:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he said he did it on impulses, i don't belive him ask him again why he did it. tell him you are confused because you want things to be the way they where. his answer will determine if your relationship will survive or not
2007-03-23 20:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well friends can make the best couples....and if you like him and he likes u give it a shot just agree that if it doesnt work out u 2 will remain friends!
2007-03-23 20:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by amber 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you owe it to him to give him a shot, i mean your single and you dont have anythign else going on hook the guy up with some love.
2007-03-23 20:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by shysurfer21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some friend you are!!! Why don't you offer to sleep with him. That's what real friends do!! At least in my town.
2007-03-23 20:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will probably survive
but it will be a little awkward
around each other and
you want talk as much
2007-03-23 20:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋