Is he bored because he knows I will be with him whenever he wants? Is the challege gone? I cant play these stupid games but Im frustrated with him....what can I do? I really really like him.
2007-03-23 13:43:16 · 6 answers · asked by gudsport 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, sometimes a little "cat & mouse" is needed, to shake things up. If you are frustrated, it is understandable. You sound mature, not wanting to play games,however, if you really like this guy, you just might want to try paying a little less attention to him. If this guy knows you are always going to be available, it shows him, he does not need any incentive to make any effort towards you. He is too sure of himself right now, and feels he does not have to worry about you liking him. Show him that you are not a "sure thing"
2007-03-31 03:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you need to be unavailable. I know it sucks - I hate playing that game, but alas if it is not played then the relationship with ay young guy is doomed. You have to Make him crave you. Pull away and wait WAIT for him to call you back. Do not call him yourself, always leave him feeling like you couldnt care less if you ever see him again. But at the same time make sure he actually knows that you are interested otherwise it wont work. If he doesnt do these things, let him go, he's not the right one
2007-03-23 16:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the guy really likes you,you wouldnt have to worry,he would do his way,If his kinda shy type,then get so close with things his interested with soyou can have more chances of having him chase you,
2007-03-31 09:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how hard, play the game. Don't be free( even if you are) every time he ask you out. Don't blow him off completely but don't seem desperate at the same time.
Good luck.
P.s. When he catches your eye, smile and then then look away or walk away( if you pass him in the hallway). It works most of time
2007-03-31 07:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act as if you dont like him......it really works!!!!
2007-03-31 00:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your tried "TAG - YOUR IT" lately?
2007-03-23 20:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by chazzn101 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋