Should I have sex? Can you help me?

Question

im 15. ive done everything but. i have a bf, we would never cheat on each other. should i do it? he said only if i wanted

Answer 1

Only you can answer that question. But if you're asking here, and basing your decision on what answers you get, then you are definitely not mature enough to handle a sexual relationship. Don't worry so much about sex. Just enjoy being a teenager. Wait a few years before making such an important decision. And whatever you do, don't take that kind of decision lightly.

Answer 2

If you have to ask strangers on the internet, then no, youre not ready. Sometimes guys who say only when you want, are still pressuring you by being so open. Whether you would ever cheat has nothing to do with whether your ready, and remember that you're only 15 he probably wont be the only guy you fall in love with and will you regret it later?

But if you decide to make sure he and you get checked for STds beforehand, even if your both virgins, because you have done everything but. As well as get birth control and use protection.

Answer 3

Physically, you should be ready at 15, your periods should be stable by now, BUT the real question is are you emotionally mature? In most countries you are under age, so your boyfriend would be liable to prosecution if you're caught. I don't say 'no', it's not the place of this forum to judge you, but consider getting a bit of education first. Study whatever you can find on the Internet, even try some touching and massage, but leave the penetration until you're legal.

Answer 4

I believe sex is a special bond that two people share together when they believe that they are ready. Nobody can really (or should) tell you whether you should, or should not have sex. Although, if you believe that it is the right time to take the next step in your relationship, at the very least wear a condom. A condom will drastically reduce the chances of both of you getting a STD. And a STD will really mess your life up.

Answer 5

reading though the answers, a lot of people are trying to discourge you based on your age, but I don't think your Age should come into it, your boyfriend is being good he's just said, if you want the ball is in your court, so ignore the social prejudcies about your age, and ask yourself, are you ready to have sex for the first time, are you sure it is going to be special? what do you want from sex? and sex won't fix a bad relationship it will proberly do the oppersite, but it will do good for an already strong relationship, just consider everything and try not to let your hormones get to involved in this.

Answer 6

Sex at 15 will get you nothing but trouble. You won't enjoy it, your reputation will suffer for it and you very well could become pregnant. You have many years ahead of you to have sex when the stakes are not nearly as high. Wait it out.

Answer 7

Just asking the question means you're unsure. Sex is not just about pleasure. The emotional load can be tough, esp. if you do something you're not ready for, then the relationship breaks down.

The fact that he's not pressuring you is good. if he does, mark it down against him.

If unsure, wait. There are lots of mutually satisfying things to do that don't include the risk of pregnancy, etc.

Answer 8

You've done everything but? You mean, you've had oral sex and let him do you in your a**? Honestly, if that's the case I can't see why you're hesitating. You've already "had sex" even if it wasn't vaginal.

Do us all a favor though...get on the pill and get that boy a rubber.

Answer 9

NO!
youre 15 at least wait a little bit longer, cause after guys do it they only look at the next girl theyll do it with, im a guy

Answer 10

Am 23 years old and I think you shouldn't have sex. What until your married. If I listen to my mother when she told me to wait till I get married I would of. I don't regret my two boys, but I would of just waited until I got married because it's hard on me and my fiance.