IF YOU WERE STROLLING DOWN THE MALL AND YOUR MAN OR HUSBAND SEES A GIRL UP AND DOWN, DO WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO GET MAD? FOR ME IT'S LIKE" OK YOU'RE GOING TO LOOK BUT DON'T DO IT IN FRONT OF ME". I'M NOT THE JEALOUS TYPE BUT IT TICKS ME OFF WHEN HE DOES THAT IN FRONT OF FAMILY OR FRIENDS.
2007-03-23 13:15:00 · 15 answers · asked by Monica A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be a little upset, but hey, he's a man!
2007-03-23 13:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does. I myself also understand that guys are going to be dumb***es even when they do have a girlfriend, but you just want to scream, "What do you think you're doing? I'm standing RIGHT HERE!" I think you should tell him how it makes you feel and that you'd appreciate if he wouldn't make it so obvious or at least not do it around you. And it's especially embarrassing when the group you're with notices, too, because then they look at you funny and then glance at the guy! And if he doesn't stop doing that, either do the same thing around him when another cutie comes past or dump the loser. Take your pick! <3
2007-03-23 13:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to get mad. He's freaking checking out girls in front of you friends and family! I wouldn't get too mad about it. He's just a typical guy. But if it bothers you that much, just let him know that you don't mind him checking out girls every once and a while, but to calm down a bit.
2007-03-23 13:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we women will just have to accept two facts about men. 1. Men are visually stimulated. They can't help looking. It's just their instinct. 2. Men are not capable of doing what women can--that is, not get caught. Women have the ability to "check someone out" in their peripheral vision. Men don't. Translation: men get caught more often than women.
All that said, a man should not flaunt it in front of you. If he is being an absolute jerk, then get rid of him. But if he's just being a regular guy, cut him a little slack every now and then. He'll love you more for it.
2007-03-23 13:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by whosonfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men look. That's what they do. Nothing wrong with that. If you see something you like, why not enjoy looking at it? However, if you are with your significant other, I would hope you'd have enough respect to tone it down. Glancing is fine. Gawking is not. Men, how would you like it if you were with your significant other and they blatently looked someone else up and down? You wouldn't like it would you? But you probably wouldn't care if we only glanced in their direction. It's about self-control and respect. Just keep that in mind, please.
2007-03-23 13:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, then I know he's still alive. Have to say that my husband is discreet about checking out women. You have to know him to know he's looking, he just moves his eyes. Doesn't get me upset and he does't creep out the woman he's checking out. His brother on the other hand creeps men and women out when he checks out a woman. One of these days a guy is going to punch him.
2007-03-23 13:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sugar, him doin that is disrespectful as hell regardless...if u really love him and want 2 try 2 break him of it, turn the tables and do it 2 him 2...he may stop when he sees how it feels, but he may not...maybe u just need 2 talk with him and tell him how u feel, but i dunno...guys know damn well that bothers us and it has nothin 2 do with jealousy or insecurity...good luck :(
2007-03-23 13:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't care who they do it in front of and the sad thing is they do it so obvious and when we do it we are good and might just look out the conor of are eye but they just do it and sometimes you have to wipe off the drowl off there face...
2007-03-23 13:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by sashabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is disrespectful and stupid. He is rude to do that in front of you. I would tell him to stop and if he says no, drop him like a hot rock!
2007-03-23 13:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when they do that! if he's doing it in a really obious way, it's possible that he's trying to make you jealous. it's ok to get mad, but if he IS doing it to make you jealous, then just ignore it and keep your anger inside- it might make him get the picture that it isn't working.
2007-03-23 13:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by italiancat73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are going to be men but that is disrespectful to u if he makes it that obvious around family and friends
2007-03-23 13:17:44 · answer #11 · answered by ricpres123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋