2 yr relationship. My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore.yesterday , she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. He makes her say sorry in an argument all the time and for me i'll just get mad and later compromises. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up. Sex was the first time for the both of us. She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it. I'm waiting and searching for another girl
She wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to. At first we argued and later i said sure. It wouldn't hurt much. Any ideas how i should treat her
2007-03-23 13:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She sounds confused and is confusing you. Just listen to her and nothing more. She can't have her cake and eat it too, so to speak. She sounds like she is in a controlling relationship and doesn't want him, but wants somebody, not necessarily you. If she really love you then she would already be away from him. Just wait until she gets there and see what she has to say. You'll know what to do.
2007-03-23 13:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you should not see her, she is just using you, recall how you felt when she dumped you and that is how much it can hurt. There is a reason why they are called ex-girlfriends. I would suggest that you not talk to her if she is going to treat you like that. If she wants to see you and you want a reason than she should be able to give you an honest reason. Ask yourself “Will she be treating you like the way you deserve to be treated or is she being selfish?” If she loved you then at the every least she would loose the other guy and not even think of him, if she truly loved you she would want you to be happy, and that is not what it sounds like. There are 2 billion girls out there in the world with odds like that you are bound to find someone who will treat you better, just keep looking forward. I think you should cancel the meeting, and if she can't respect you then avoid talking to her.
2007-03-23 13:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by hollingto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's toying around with you. Do you like her? Don't say, "Pick me or him," because that makes you sound like a 13-year-old loser who can't get a grip. Say calmly, "Hey, I know you still sort of have feelings for me, but our relationship as lovers is over now. It was good while it lasted, but it's over, and you can't just leave your current boyfriend because you sort-of-kind-of have feelings for me. Wait until you're sure. And when you are, call me. But only after you work things out with your current boyfriend." Hopefully she'll understand. The talk might be awkward and she might handle it in a different way than you might expect, but it'll get straight to the point. She'll know that it's not like you guys can't ever get back together again, but she can't just ditch her current boyfriend because of some lukewarm feelings.
Hope I helped ... good luck with your relationship with her!
2007-03-23 13:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always no matter what the circumstance or whoever the girl may be always remain the "Gentleman".
Also sit down with her and explain in kind words and mellow volume/tone that the cat and mouse game is not one that you are willing to play, let her know your true feelings for her yet also explain that you are not wanting to ride this roller coaster with her up and down while she decides what it is that she really wants.
Be kind yet be true to you and she will get the message that she can not toy with your emotions anymore.
"Good-Luck"
2007-03-23 13:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt a little. Play hard to get. Don't let her boyfriend find out! Things will eventually fall into place if it's ment to be.
2007-03-23 13:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get but still be friendly cuz remember you guys are not together and she has a boyfriend.
2007-03-23 13:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her the way you see fit just don't be to harsh.
2007-03-23 13:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by CT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. She is probably a little confused.
2007-03-23 13:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your ex has to make a decision here...
2007-03-23 13:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Rosette H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋