Ok! So there is this boy i really like! His name is ryan. And He is sooo dreamy. I just want a way for him to notice me. Do i need to do my hair, put on make-up? What? If make-up is the situation, please tell me how to aply it (Girls) because i am in middle school, and i cant apply it that good! Or my attitude? Cloths? I just need something! Please help!
2007-03-23 13:17:48 · 9 answers · asked by Sidney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, most girls attract attention on their outer looks but I think you should have an attractive attitude. You should be friends with him you know? Get a friendly relationship going and that relationship can develop even deeper!
2007-03-23 13:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by KiT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one needs make up in middle school, trust me on this one... Too many girls too early are starting to put make up on. I'm in ninth grade and I haven't even put on makeu up.
People say you are what you wear, and that is mostly true. Wear things that you are confortable though, don't try going for anything that's... Too much, if you know what I'm saying.
The best way for a guy to notice you is to spend more time with him. Be his friend first, get to know him, and let him get to know you. Make a stand in conversations, and back up your statements. Show him you can talk, and show him what your are thinking inside that head of yours!
Basically you don't need to change your appearance. Just spend more time with him, if he gets to know you, he will defintely notice you...
I mean, would you rather be noticed as that girl who wears a lot of eye shadow and short mini skirts or the girl who is always there for you and is super friendly?
2007-03-23 13:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by JanetB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he will ever be interested in you (not saying that he won't) then you have to give him time. Become friends, show your interest in him. It's o.k. to make yourself pretty for him but don't strain yourself. He should like the you that you like. and sometimes its good if your friends know him too (that way they can hint that you like him). The one rule to crushes is to never get your hopes up too high (trust me, it hurts if they come down) Just let thing flow and see where it goes. And GOOD LUCK! : )
2007-03-23 13:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by purplegrape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should treat him like you'd treat your friends at first, and then flirt with him. Don't change yourself for a boy, because even though it seems worthit at first, it'll really suck for you because you won't feel comfortable. If you wanna talk to him, you should crack a joke or complain about something in his direction. Give him lots of smiles. Good luck.
2007-03-23 13:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ansia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER EVER change your self for a guy!!!!!!!!!!!! thats so cliche but it is sooooooooo true!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER!!!!! if you change your self than, what if ur friends dont like the "new" you, then you wont have the guy or any friends. and if the guy doesnt like you for just being you, than he is no good, move on. who ever your love interest is, make sure he likes you for you! and dont feel like you have to be like everyone else just so he likes you. be yourself.!!!!!
2007-03-23 13:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me you should never EVER change yourself just to get a guy EVER!!! just talk to him and if he has any interestat all after a while it will show there is no magic potion to make them fall for you if you change who you are to get a guy he wont like you for you or respect you!!!
2007-03-23 13:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Become friends. You have enough time ahead of you that you shouldn't worry.
2007-03-23 13:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go talk to him or just be yourself he might notice u good luck
2007-03-23 13:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him become friends wit him ask him outsee wat he says take it slow an be confident
2007-03-23 13:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by lilmissyin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋