why are guys suck jerk? all of them are the same!?

Question

alll of them freakin' date you and then when you don't give them action they dump you!

Answer 1

because you expect them to be? Not all guys are jerks.

Answer 2

Kind of saves you the effort of dumping them later doesn’t it? Not all guys are like that but if that is all the guys you have dated in the past than maybe you are looking at the wrong kind of guy to be dating. When I go into the auto part store I can’t seem to find any linen for my bed, now that doesn’t mean that there aren’t any I am just looking in the wrong places. I will agree a good deal of guys are jerks but not all. I would say try noticing some of the more quite and shy guys, but you have to be a little aggressive and forward with them. They will probably have a better understanding of how you feel too since they probably have been passed up for those said jerks countless times.

Answer 3

Honey, all guys aren't the same. You just ran into a jerk. Don't compare all men to this jerk. If you do you are never going to have a stable relationship. Your body is your temple and if some men can't respect that you don't want to give them any action then screw him. They aren't worth it anyway. There are men that have much respect for women who respect their body. They all don't just want to jump into the sack. Just find out what a man wants before you get in too deep. Let him know up front if you are not into having a sexual relationship. That way you can avoid all the headaches and heartaches. If he stays after that then you know that he's not a jerk. Just remember all men are not the same. There are just a group of men who have a screw loose. LOL!!

Answer 4

I ain't a jerk! Not all guys are jerks. Maybe your hanging with the wrong people. Try to find someone with the same intrest and that you feel like you can trust them. Those people who are jerks and cheat off, can't be trusted because you don't know if they're telling the truth at all. Never give up looking for the right person. I hope you understand that not all guys are jerks, because I ain't one of them.

Answer 5

Who's choosing these guys? Are you going out with everyone who asks you, or are you actually applying any selection criteria? If so, they're clearly wrong.

Here's a thought, hopefully not offensive: is it possible that you're choosing to go out with guys who are, or *think* they are, outside your league? Because maybe they think you only deserve a meal or a movie in return for a shag. It happens.

Well, whatever the case, you clearly need to get access to a different sort of bloke. The issue is: how different? On the face of it you're implying that these guys are invariably trying to pin you against a wall at the first lull in the conversation. If that's what's happening, it's not really normal.

The fact is, a guy who takes you out is probably quite likely to *want* to have sex with you ASAP - but he probably expects it to take a while before *you* consider it a good idea. (I suspect young guys rarely understand *why* this transaction is necessary, but they usually learn to live with it.) 'A while' in this case may be anything from hours to months, and it's up to the bloke in question to decide whether the prize is worth the wait.

In the period between picking a woman up and getting to remove her garments, a guy will periodically test the waters in some way. Because even though the woman may not have made up her mind yet, men learn ways to influence that decision, by following the theory that ladies can get horny too, if fiddled with in special ways.

Initially such advances may be rebuffed. Later, they may be rebuffed with a slight hint of reluctance. This is usually a good indication that a time is approaching when they won't be rebuffed at all.

How much of this is or is not happening in your case? And what's going wrong with the sequence? I do hope you're not reacting to those first tentative exploratory strokes and nibblings by storming off angrily yelling that All Men Are Jerks and Only Want One Thing.

Another possibility: are you sure you're not so devastatingly sexually attractive that you're turning men's minds to mush, and causing them such a rush of blood that they clean forget any pretence of control they're trying to maintain. That happens too.

At any rate, this is clearly not working as it's supposed to, and I can only suggest you essay a different breed of blokes. You don't provide any indication of what you're actually after, and I sincerely hope it isn't someone with egg-white for blood who'll never venture a solitary finger up your skirts - because, let's face it, someday you may want him to.

CD

Answer 6

I'm sorry you've had a bad experience that makes you feel that way, but that's definately not the case with all guys. There are many men that are too imature to engage in a serious relationship that has more than a physical meaning, these are the "jerks" that many women encounter. Sometimes you just have to take it in stride, however hard it may be. You just have to relize they were jerks but it doesn't mean every guy is.

Hopefully your future relationships involve sensible men.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Sorry but this question comes up everyday and the problem is people are too narrow minded and closed minded. Of course there are decent guys out there. Problem is the decent guys tend to be the quieter guys. The loud more stand out guys are the ones that always get attention and thus let them believe they are god's gift to women.

Take a look at the guy who maybe isn't as in your face and you might like what you find.

Answer 8

Really they are not all that way. I know it is hard to find a good one. Wow do i know how hard it is. You hang in there Don't give up. And I always recomend dating the geek guys because they are the best and they will go somewhere in life. unlike the jerks. I will cross my fingers for you.

Answer 9

Amen sister, men don't give a sh*IT if the hole their going into it's waaaaaay used and easy. They think that the wider and more experience is best, but they never think how many guys went through there to help the Zluts get that good. They like to share that bush with other nasty horn dogs like the ones we tend to choose. We girls are very talented in finding asZholes.

Answer 10

Not all guys are like that!! That's judging all men by the jerks you have encountered...Unfortunately though many think this way..They have 2 heads, and use the smaller of the 2...

Answer 11

Ha ha guys being jerks are common...sadly. But there are a lot of guys who aren't jerks like the rest.