2007-03-23 12:33:14 · 26 answers · asked by DAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In some states you may already be divorced. Look in the yellow pages under "legal aid" and you may be able to get a free lawyer.
Only a lawyer can really answer your question!
2007-03-23 12:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by alter_tygo 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The divorce is the easy part. Youre going to probably have to answer some real deep questions like why the hell did you wait so long? And what have you been doing all this time? And how is the court going to serve her her due process of law when no one has any idea where she is or if shes even alive? Good luck
2007-03-23 12:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes very easy as long as both parties agree to the divorce... you dont even have to have anyone represent you these days you can represent yourself but there is still a cost for the fileing... Try going to public aid in your area they will be able to help you or get you the help needed... I hope this helps ~ Good Luck !!
2007-03-23 12:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't aware that a divorce costs money and after 18 years, it is pretty obvious you both should move on and marry someone else, so if i was you, i would get a divorce, but I think a low income doesn't mean you still can't get a divorce.
2007-03-23 12:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Want Your Bad Romance 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she agrees yes,contact a lawyer it should be nothing more than a formality.unless she seeks compensation in which case your fried,alimony,child support,property.especially if she feels a need for revenge,it could get messy,the best out is thru a lawyer,you may want to check if she had you declared dead,or had the marriage annulled.if you left with no forwarding address or no family to notify she could very well be remarried.start with public records,and whatever you find contact a lawyer,and to keep sh-t smooth contact her before the lawyer does.
2007-03-23 12:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by mdcinfinite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got faith for you and comprehend the way you sense. I went in the process an identical adventure a while decrease back. you will possibly desire to save your head as we communicate. She filed for divorce probable because of fact the spark had long previous off your marriage. As she has filed the case and in case you're contesting it, there'll be lots of grimy laundry washed in public. You wont % that. you will possibly desire to celebration at a mediation board and attempt to verify what went incorrect and make as much because it. If it has long previous previous mediation, then it is going to likely be annoying on you. yet evaluate in case you will possibly desire to settle for her understanding that she has slept with yet another, and if definite, at a possibly destiny fake impact will you have the flexibility to refrain from bringing this incident up and reopening previous wounds? If issues are somewhat undesirable, it is going to annoying and painful for you. locate somebody understanding to offer you ethical help, you will % it
2016-10-20 07:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afriend of mine has been married for 8 years and seperated for 5 of them. She went to our local court about getting a divorce and they said it would cost her £340 to do it through them. We are in the uk.
2007-03-23 20:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by wendywitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is pretty hard because you have to see alot a divorce laywers but if you have the patience and you do get a divorce you can get a bigger income. Hope I helped
2007-03-23 12:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by kyyrraaa :) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get hold of you local legal aid office and ask them about this. But I'd say that if you haven't spoken in all those years she most likely has filed already.
2007-03-23 12:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by davidaronis2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you left her 20 years ago?..
If you havent seen her or spoken to her, why divorce?
She's probably married.
Why do people marry when they divorce..tsk tsk.
2007-03-23 12:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋