OK, At my School, I think i like this guy, I don't KNOW what i feel like. it is hard to explain. everyone thinks he is ugly and stupid, and i THINK i like him because i get this feeling around him and i don't know though because he is ugly, and everyone hates him. and i know he like me because he always waves to me and talks to me and writes me little notes. but i don't understamd what i am feeling deep down in my heart. I don't know!!!!! Please do not tell me to "listen to my heart" or "do whatever you feel" or "there are plenty more fish in the sea" or anything like that please. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I FEEL!! and it is bothering the heck out of me! i don't like him--but i do! i feel as if i went out with him ever, i wouldn't feel right. like akward and stuff. AND I DON'T WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM!! please tell me what is happenening!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 12:32:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you need to take a step back and think seriously about the picture you have here. yes there is no doubt about it.. you like this guy but maybe your reason for confusion is because your so worried about what other people will think. i think peer pressure is ripping you to shreds right now and you need to relaize that you like what you like and it doesnt matter what other people say or think. because in the end result i think your scared of other peoples reaction to you dating this guy. put everyone elses thoughts and views on him aside and use your own judgements.. if hes such a great guy than you deserve him!! take the dip. screw the world because the only opinion that matters is your own. set yourself free woman. try it out and if it doesnt work out then maybe it was just a mindless crush.. but heyy it could be love.... hope that helped
2007-03-23 13:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by fewchure/sex_ologist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a wide-swing-of-a-guess but it seems that you have feelings for him but it's not the romance feeling. Perhaps it's pity, that you feel sorry for him because he's not the greatest guy in the world. Or, perhaps, it's the feeling of misplacement. He's out of place to you and when you're with him you feel insecure about the way that he'll act around you, and maybe you're not sure about yourself. You feel insecure when you're around him because you have no idea weather he's an alright guy or not, and because you are confused about your own feelings. The only advice that i can truly give is to take a step back and look at your situation and look for possible routes. Take your time and get an understanding on your emotions. They can be a difficult thing so don't give up. I hope this helps you and good luck.
2007-03-23 19:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused! Smile.
I think you like the attention he's given you - he treated you as a special someone. We all like that -- getting the attention. You can be friends - it doesn't matter how ugly everyone think he is -- he has a heart of gold - at least for you -- and that's what count.
2007-03-23 19:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you definitely like him but he's not a guy you'd be comfortable dating. Give it a month or so and get to know him better. You should probably just be friends unless you decide otherwise.
2007-03-23 19:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Erikka. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no answer to this. You seem really confused and if you can't "listen to your heart" then you will never know. Just don't sweat it and go on in life.
2007-03-23 19:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel a degree of 'likeness' towards him because he likes you which is understandable but that doesn't mean that you actually 'like' him.
2007-03-23 19:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋