HOW SHOULD I TREAT HER when I SEE HER?

Question

My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.
It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore.
yesterday , she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. He makes her say sorry in an argument all the time and for me i'll just get mad and later compromises. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up, sex was the first time for the both of us. She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it. I'm waiting and searching for another girl

She wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to. At first we argued and later i said sure. It wouldn't hurt much. Any ideas about what to do when i see her?

sex was the first for the both of us hehe

Answer 1

idk sorry. she must want to get back together...

Answer 2

Don't have sex with her. She is probably missing that about you. You two were obviously intimate and that created a bond and that is why she is confused. Think about why you broke up in the first place. Do you really want to be in that position again?

Talk to her, be her friend and try to figure out what it is that she wants. A part of me thinks she just wants to sleep with you again, but I may be wrong.

Your dream girl is out there, you just have to be patient.

Answer 3

You should treat her with respect and care. Even if your relationship with her is confusing, that is no reason to treat her poorly. Everyone deserves to be treated well.

Answer 4

Your story sounds like my son's. My advice to him was to treat her politely, but until she was willing to give up her current bf and return to you, don't go for it. It sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too.