I met this girl at work. We had lunch with co workers first day i met her and at night she came over to my apt (she pretty much lives next door) to borrow detergent and we chatted for a while. I then asked her if she wanted to go get some food at sorta a fast food place. She said yes and came over later to go. We had dinner there and chatted for bout an hour after at the place. We then drove home and I asked if she wanted to hang out this weekend and she said yes, we are gonna go to an amusement park. I like her and would like to date her. She is french and seemed a bit standoffish but every french person i know was like that at first, they take longer to warm up to people it seems. Today she asked me if it was okay if her roomate came along too and I said yes. Do you think im on the friend ladder? any way of saving my chance?
2007-03-23 12:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by styler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like she likes you too but is not ready for a serious relation ship so take it easy and ask her out again and this time make it to a nice reateraunt (not fast food)
2007-03-23 12:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by chetchat368 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked her to the amusement park as a date, you need to be upfront about it. If she's taking her roommate along for the trip, she's obviously not seeing it as a date. Either tell her what you had in mind, or enjoy being her friend. All meaningful relationships are built on honesty and open communication, so it's never too early to start.
2007-03-23 12:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two ways to split this question. First, she might want approval from her roommate for a potential prospect. Us ladies do that. Then, she might not be comfortable as you thought she was with you alone, she could have her friend there as a decoy for what could happen. In any matter, tell her how you fell candidly and see what she says so neither one of you have to feel like uncomfortable and you'll know where to take it from there.
2007-03-23 12:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm not the best advice giver but make friends with her but allways drop little hints that you do like her flirt alittle bit and who knows maybe she is bringing her roomate along to make sure she approves b4 she does soming i don't know female minds are hard to figure out even if youare a female but keep on trying flirt alittle bit and make friends with her roomate the bast way to get close to sum1 is to get close to their friends because no one wants their friends ragging on their guy lol hope this helps if not olny a little
2007-03-23 12:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kaydi Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably just bringing a friend cuz she doesnt know you that well.... but later shell warm up to you. and in response to the first man who answered this, the guy that said "you crazy" well, i think he should look in the mirror- his hair is green! whose he callin crazi now???
2007-03-23 12:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the french are pretty liberal, I'm thinking 3some. as long as the friend is female. if the friend is male, find a reason to get out of it. you will be entertaining her while he is banging her. talking doesn't mean she is in to you, it may mean you are her new g/f.
2007-03-23 12:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You crazy
2007-03-23 12:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by ashlandtree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to a movie...make your move and see if she feels the same way
2007-03-23 12:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋