What do I do now?

Question

I really like this guy but i just met this school year so we have only been friends my friends all say that he likes me cuz at the beginning of the year he came off real strong problem is i just found out he's moving next year so my friend said i should hook up with him...i have mixed feelings because i don't want to rush into something that is going to end but i don't want to be left here wondering what could have been What do you think?

Answer 1

You already said that "you really like him;" so go for it. Even if he moves, you can still email, IM or talk on the phone. Don't beat yourself up wondering what if -- take a chance and see where it leads you -- life is all about adventure. Smile.

Answer 2

Sounds like you'll always wonder if you don't make a move so why not? You might end up broken hearted when he moves away but it will be because you're mourning the loss of something great that you would have never had in the first place if you didn't go for it. And if you make a move and it turns out he's not interested, it will hurt but then you'll be able to get over it and move on. I say seize the day so you don't regret it in the future.

Answer 3

If he's moving your better off not, I know it's hard but I am an Expert on the whole bf moving away. It hurts. More than hurts it feels like A part of you leaves with them. It was worth it though because he came back, just for a few days and we made out alot at my house, we're still together now but those two weeks i thought it was over i wished i was dead. Maybe you should see if he's coming bck ?
If not i wouldn't recomend it.
Blessed Be

Answer 4

If by "hooking up" with him, they are saying that you should have sex with him, then DON'T do it! It's not worth putting yourself at risk. Just tell him that you like him and ask him if you can stay in contact with him after he moves away. Ask him to give you his e-mail address or his new phone number (when he gets it).

Answer 5

don't do it, boys aren't worth it