ok, i am like in LOVE with this boy at my school, i like him soo much..i write his name on my pants and my hand nd stuff and l LOVE HIM. and i asked him out twice..and he said no twice. So.. soon enough i got over him and totally forgot about him. One day in choire i was sitting there reading my songs and A big group of girls came in and were giggling and lauging and the girl in the middle came out and said " i just made out with him!!!!!" And at that moment, everything in my head just disappeard, my hear was beating a mile a minute. my eyes got big. And all of a sudden, i cried, i cried like i never cried before, i was balling my eyes out, tears everywhere, on my friends shoulder. I was crying so hard, i ran out of the classroom into the bathroom and stayed there for three hours crying my eyes out. i never knew i loved him that much. What heppened here? because he said no twice...
2007-03-23 12:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that girl wasn't lying about kissing him because my best friend ever saw it happen.
2007-03-23 12:55:08 · update #1
you are just immature.
Get home studies and stay home for now on.
Stay away from boys. You will fall in love to easy and get your heart broken easy.
2007-03-23 12:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to be straight with you: If you are writing this guy's name on your hand and your pants, then you are acting sort of like a stalker! Because you are so blatantly obvious in how much you like him, he might be afraid of you! Back off a little and cool off. Don't wear your heart on your sleeve...at least not so openly.
Also that girl may not have really "made out" with him. She probably just knows about your obsession and wanted to bait you just for fun. Whether she really kissed him or not, she's a jerk and don't let her make you cry.
I know it is much easier said than done, and I know crushes can be very painful, but trust me, calm yourself down and think about why you love this boy so much. Be honest with yourself. You might be surprised at the answers. Also remember that you are a worthwhile person in and of yourself and you should not let your self-esteem be determined by whether a certain boy likes you or not.
2007-03-23 19:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I have been through this before and next year, you won't even remember your strong feelings for this guy. There is nothing you can do because some people are just mean-spirited and no matter how much you pine away for him, you will only feed his amusement and power over you, which he will use to be an a**hole. Throw your self into the activities you like and soon you will look very attractive to the "right"kind of man!
2007-03-23 19:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by TEXY1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you love him? Love is for grown people. Your obviously not. Honestly don't peg that as love, cause your heart follows your mind. It was a crush, infatuation. If you think hard about ANYONE you can become infatuated. So...just start thinking hard about a new boy.
2007-03-23 19:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, you're hurt. Deep down, you still love him even though you're telling yourself that you don't.
It's OK; cry is good. You will be all right. You will meet someone else; maybe better than this one. Hug.
2007-03-23 19:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww dude u want him bad and he doesnt want u so ur screwed and dang some chick got him dang how do u feel u ok ull live... i think.
2007-03-23 19:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by alex a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him, and want him to like you. you are jealous because the other girl made out with him
2007-03-23 19:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋