Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

If you really really want somthing why does that not make it come true?? I have hoped and wished sooo hard for somthing beyond my control?? Why doesn't this make it come true or do I need to want it more??

2007-03-22 16:22:00 · 3 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter, came down the stairs after talking with her bf in tears. Saying that he "fell asleep" at a party and woke up with some chick being a jerk, and giving him a huge hickey. Now he has this hickey and wanted to explain it. She asked my opinion on the subject.

I think this guy is smooth and is totally playing defense, because he knows she will see it or find out from a friend that it is there. Who wakes up with a hickey without participating and who gives one to a sleeping person?

Anyways, I think he cheated and is trying to make excuses before she even finds out, and get points for honesty in the process. However, I could be wrong and I would hate to have her dump the guy if he is telling the truth.

But come on, call my cynical but... that is just insane! you would have to be sleeping pretty hard to not notice until it was a huge hickey.. right?

What do you guys think? Also what are the dumbest hickey excuses you have used or heard?

2007-03-22 16:21:47 · 9 answers · asked by Steffi 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 16:21:33 · 4 answers · asked by B 3 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone started a separation and then got back together, when and how?

2007-03-22 16:21:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In love, family, work

2007-03-22 16:20:57 · 18 answers · asked by witchybitchywomaninalabama090907 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i gave my friend a wrong information when she asked me a question. i found that my answer is terribly wrong when i did checking and told her the correct answer. now she keeps telling others that i have given her a wrong answer before and i am really embarrased. how should i react when she tells others about this again? i am not angry about this but i regret to have told her a stupid answer before checking the facts.

2007-03-22 16:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by ckret 2 in Friends

i miss talking to him on the phone and when i see him i used to say somthin but now i dont know what to say when i see him. is there any thing i still can say to him?

2007-03-22 16:20:14 · 4 answers · asked by number1hilaryfan 1 in Singles & Dating

Will you find all means to make money? My husband only see $ in his eyes.

2007-03-22 16:19:58 · 12 answers · asked by Vally 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 21,and even though i am married.I find that Young guys are attracted to me.My husband even finds 10-12-13- etc yr old boys staring at me alot!.My freinds Brother inlaw is 17-18,and he told her he thinks Im hot.Why is that?.Do they like older women?.I mean C' mon.It really bothers me.I feel like a Little girl when they do that.I am attracted,and everything,but why the young guys?.

2007-03-22 16:19:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I told my ex girlfriend that I miss her. And she told me that I caught her off gaurd. What does that mean? Second, when I told her that, she told me that she didn't think I did. What does that supposed to mean? I just hope I did the right thing by telling her that I miss her cause it is the truth.

2007-03-22 16:19:20 · 8 answers · asked by Dusher 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad say that we have to get married to our own culture.
uhh....so not fair.
cuz, there may be a chance where i like nobody in my culture.
so....i don't know what to do
like....not right now, but when i grow up
i'm only 14 right now.
lol
too young
but, i have to think about it

2007-03-22 16:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is $6 to much to pay my friend for doing my homework or do u think i should lower that? haha

2007-03-22 16:18:08 · 13 answers · asked by pyrokid000 1 in Friends

When I changed to my new imported car, she followed to purchase one but is a local car. Now it's approaching 3 years but she had never drove it by herself to work. She also copied my clothing until to the stuff like undergarment. This really a bit disturbing and I have also moved to my new place to get a peace of mind. Nevertheless, when sometimes I went to my in law's place with office wear, the next day she will go and buy the same blouse without asking me where to get it. As from the past 3 years when I was staying with my in law, she had memorized the brands and boutiques that I used to buy/go. Apart from that, she is also jealous with my career and likes to talk to another sister in law pretending to ignore my presence when I attended the family dinner on every Sunday. Hence, can't really figure out why people choose to behave in this manner?

2007-03-22 16:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by ML 1 in Family

what should I do because she does my laundry and will find out

2007-03-22 16:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by Diondra M 1 in Singles & Dating

After a few years of trying to figure out what I want in life I've gotten back into the dating scene and apparently forgot some of the finer points. This is for women over 24 who have NOT been diagnosed with any type of mental disorder. I noticed I tend to pick up on a woman's perfume when close or driving together is an example I'm looking for. All serious answers will be appreciated.

2007-03-22 16:17:21 · 7 answers · asked by Mike R 5 in Singles & Dating

We work together and i see him everyday and we flirt a little but nothing serious. I feel nervous everytime i try to ask him face 2 face but prom is coming up soon n i really want him as my date.

2007-03-22 16:16:32 · 7 answers · asked by sexisha 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently dating different women, and I'm not really interested in a serious relationship right now. But someday, I plan on getting married, and I want my marriage to be one of the REAL ones - I'm talking about a happy, comfortable, life-long, 'Claire & Cliff Huxtable'-type of marriage.

Now, I KNOW that I'd never do anything to hurt my future wife, especially cheat on her (NOT flirting/kissing/having sex with someone else, isn't as hard as some guys would have you think; it's all about loving & respecting your wife, and sticking to your morals). But I personally have yet to meet a woman who seems like she has the same attitudes to love & marriage as I do (not even any in my family, unfortunately; my parents broke up because my mom had an affair).

I just want to see if there are any women out there, who honestly see themselves falling in love with a guy, marrying him, having kids with him, and being with him for the rest of her life (without having any 'flings', of course).

2007-03-22 16:16:07 · 18 answers · asked by I'm Just Some Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this year i joined a group of girls who i've made really good friends with. but when i entered the group, they had already been having problems w/one of them named Amanda. She doesn't have many friends and they don't like her. I tried becoming friends w/her and tried including her into the group. sometimes i thought she was nice and the rest of the time i thought she was annoying. out of jealousy one day, she told my former bf that i said all these mean things about her which i nvr did. even though she apologized, she has done this before and the girls in my group don't want to be friends w/her anymore. i have mixed feelings about discluding her, but what there was no excuse for what she did. what should i do?

2007-03-22 16:15:32 · 4 answers · asked by soccergirl12930 2 in Friends

For a class project, this girl, that I partner up with, asks to exchange numbers with me rather then just using e-mail. At the end of the semester I tell her I'm going to delete her number b/c the project is done and the semester is over with. She smiles and tells me to just hang on to it for a bit. At the start of the spring semester I run into her and we talk for a minute and I mention that we should get together sometime and hang out. She agrees and points out that she still has my number and that I still have hers. A couple of days later I call and leave a voicemail asking her if she wanted to get together and hang out and to call me back either way. Two weeks and no call back (I find out it's b/c she's been busy with school and work). So I call her again and leave the same voicemail. Within an hour she calls me back and we just talk for about 10 minutes about school and what we've been up to. And she never brought up the question about getting together sometime as I didn't either.

2007-03-22 16:15:17 · 26 answers · asked by c_fubu 2 in Singles & Dating

"OKay....I lied....big deal.
So...something good when complete f*cking wrong...It's cool...I admit it...I f*cked-up a good going relationship with a really good girl. I half-cheated on her and I'm very ashamed at that. I wish things didn't go wrong....BUT, after being in that relationship for 6&1/2 months...I will no longer feel that depressing lonly feeling like I did those past years ago...(Aris and a few others know what I mean)....ANYWAY...so yeah...I know I f*cked up...I will try to start a new....I will defenitely not let some chick show up in my life who will ultimately f*ck up another relationship again (That means you Andrea you B*TCH!!)....As for the one I was with...Candy, I know saying sorry wont do anything to change wut I did....but know that I didn't want this to happen cuz you really do need poeple by your side that love you and support you." How are you gonna 1/2 cheat on somebdy? & also, Alex wants me to return every gift he gave me. Should I? He's an Indian-giver.

2007-03-22 16:14:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 16:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 16:13:03 · 6 answers · asked by a2qute4u411 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend in Buffalo New York. Her husband abandoned her and the children and moved out of state. She does know where he is located because he keeps in touch with the kids. Even though the divorce is not initiated, can she still fight him for child support because he is not living in the household?

2007-03-22 16:12:46 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not Jewish looking or anything, but i think that little mistake might have given me away...?

2007-03-22 16:12:34 · 32 answers · asked by Jigga Boo 1 in Singles & Dating

people like that i am ver humerous. and that i can help when people have issues.

2007-03-22 16:11:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been dating my gf almost 2 years, but we have been 4 hours apart the whole time. Traveling to see each other. She tried to get into grad school this spring but didn't and will have to try again next year. Her grad school could be anywhere and up to 5 years in length. I have a great, steady job in one location which I don't want to leave. To make things harder, she will not move in with me until we are engaged because of her family. I love her and want to live together while she wants to get engaged now, but I'm unsure about her going far away for school for a long time. Should I propose now or wait until I know where she is going to school in a year?

2007-03-22 16:10:41 · 29 answers · asked by Levi N 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have such bad luck. I find these incredible girls who I can actually talk to but they always turn out to be older. I find it rare to find the same kind of girls that are born in the year I was born and after.

2007-03-22 16:09:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when I was w/him he never hit me but he hit his other ex gf he used to be with. Why did he treat us different? And he really liked her.

2007-03-22 16:09:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's 6 months older than me. Usually for some unknown reason it seems that the guy is always older. Would it be alright to marry at that age difference. I'm bored so I'm just asking questions that I know the answer to but still just answer it because I'm bored.

2007-03-22 16:09:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He broke up with me 3 months ago. About a month ago he began to send me emails apologizing and we started talking again. He called me a lot at the beginning(we are long distance) but that only lasted like a week and then he called less. He was still calling but less.

I mean, he hurt me a lot in the past and he should be doing a lot more to make it up to me. I felt he's failing me and my expectations. He felt the same way too.

So i broke up with him 2 nights ago. And now he blocked me on facebook and edited his "look for" to "dating and a relationship"(a mutual friend let me use his account to see this). And he re-added a girl who i made him block(although there's nothing going on between them, yet)

It seems like he's moving on. Is there anything i can do to make him want me again? i actually liked him a lot. And he bought tickets to visit me next week. Now i dont know whether he's coming. I told him not to. should i just do nothing?

2007-03-22 16:08:33 · 4 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating