Are there any women out there, who seriously desire a life-long (and completely monogamous) marriage?

Question

I'm currently dating different women, and I'm not really interested in a serious relationship right now. But someday, I plan on getting married, and I want my marriage to be one of the REAL ones - I'm talking about a happy, comfortable, life-long, 'Claire & Cliff Huxtable'-type of marriage.

Now, I KNOW that I'd never do anything to hurt my future wife, especially cheat on her (NOT flirting/kissing/having sex with someone else, isn't as hard as some guys would have you think; it's all about loving & respecting your wife, and sticking to your morals). But I personally have yet to meet a woman who seems like she has the same attitudes to love & marriage as I do (not even any in my family, unfortunately; my parents broke up because my mom had an affair).

I just want to see if there are any women out there, who honestly see themselves falling in love with a guy, marrying him, having kids with him, and being with him for the rest of her life (without having any 'flings', of course).

Answer 1

I hope my marriage turns out like that... I have been married almost 5 years and have one child, I have not had any desires to cheat. Hopefully my husband has been faithful as well :)

Answer 2

Yes, there are many women that have been faithfully married for many years. The secret to this is finding the right woman. You need to find a woman that is your friend first because that is the deciding factor when it comes to marriages lasting. You can be in love but you also must like the person. If you are not friends, it is easier to find another. The very fact that you are friends will help you have the same interests, goals, likes and dislikes, and other friends. There are plenty of women out there that you describe. Now you have to ask yourself, "How will I find the right one?" Think about this.

Answer 3

I am already married and plan too stay this way life long .. We are in a monogamous relationship.

I met my husband out of the blue, stop looking for love or you will only find the wrong type , let love find you , and you will see that it will be worth the wait

My whole family *and yes we have a huge family* there has only be 2 divorces .

Answer 4

yes there are women like this out there bud you just have to keep looking and not give up and someday the right woman for you and your life will come along. Why dont you try match.com or eharmony.com or even the yahoo personals to try to find a woman like this. You can also ask this same question on yahoo answers in the singles and dating section as you might get a better response there then you will here in marriage and divorce. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

Yes i think deep down everyone wants that, but like you said about yourself, maybe the woman you date just arent' ready yet, or haven't reached personal goal they wanted to achieve before settleing down. also i think fear is a big factor . noone wants to get hurt ( or hurt again) so they put up the wall. I have found that some of the grumpiest negative people are really the sweetest most sensitive, they just dont want anyone to see their vulnerable spots so they put up this unclimbable wall. My only suggestion is to not post your beliefs on anyone too soon. just let the relationship develop slowly and naturally. Once you have trust and commitment, the rest should fall right into place for you.

Answer 6

Absolutely !!! I'm a woman who seriously desires a life-long and completely monogamous marriage with a man who recognizes the importance of love, trust, fidelity, honesty, respect, and communication in a marriage. You don't state how old you are, but I say "never give up". If this is the type of woman you seek, you'll find her, don't settle for less.

Answer 7

I plan on doing it as soon as my boyfriend gets back from Iraq and we meet all the requirements of the Catholic church (I'm not Catholic but he is). And we'll be Claire and Cliff with a twist or two. He's already got a daughter from his first marriage and it looks like we are switching careers but he's the only man I'll ever marry.

Answer 8

I honestly fell in love with a guy, and married him. We haven't had children yet but we are planning on it, and we love each other very much. We plan to grow old together, and we talk about what we want for our children, and it's always "ours" not "my" or "your." We have a date planned for the year 2040, and I have a letter from him in my safe deposit box that I will open on our golden wedding anniversery.

Our relationship is sacred and beloved by both of us, and I don 't see it devolving away from that.

We are out there :) I hope you find yours when you are ready for her.

Answer 9

Dude, why would you want to ruin a good thing. From what I read, you are having relationship after relationship. This means that your love life never gets stale and boring.

If you do get married, make sure it is with a BI chick so you can continue to mix it up with the hotties! This is the ideal situation.

P.S. And whats with the Cosby kids reference? Do you need to drop them off at the pool or something?

P.S. P.S. And the women...not to be trusted, lie out of their @$$ to tie you down to marriage as your mother already proved.

Answer 10

I love and adore my husband and I want to be with him for the rest of my life. I can never see my self wanting to be with anyone else. Both my grandparents were married for 50 years and my parents have been together for almost 40. there are people who only wont to be with one person for the rest of their lives you just have to find them.