Im 21,and even though i am married.I find that Young guys are attracted to me.My husband even finds 10-12-13- etc yr old boys staring at me alot!.My freinds Brother inlaw is 17-18,and he told her he thinks Im hot.Why is that?.Do they like older women?.I mean C' mon.It really bothers me.I feel like a Little girl when they do that.I am attracted,and everything,but why the young guys?.
2007-03-22 16:19:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Young guys are attracted to everyone... and for that matter, every THING.
Did you see the movie scene with the apple pie?
I rest my case.
2007-03-22 16:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's just hormones, hun. They aren't blind and if you are attractive, it doesn't matter how old you are, they will notice. I am not a model type, I'm pretty, but I've had 2 kids and I'm a bit on the chubby side, and I've got guys 18 - 25 staring at me when I get dressed up and look my best, and I'm 37. They are just looking and that's perfectly natural. It really isn't about liking older women or anything odd, they just see someone they think is pretty and look. They do it at any age. My husband is 43 and he still looks. He's not rude about it or anything but it's hard not to notice someone who is really good looking. Don't let it make you feel like a little girl, feel like what you are, a good looking woman whom people notice. That's a good thing in my books. They really don't mean to make you uncomfortable, you just stand out.
2007-03-22 16:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by kiera70 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry dear, but 21 is still very young. If you do look hot as you say they may not think you look 21. Just don't let looks be the only thing you are proud of in yourself. Vanity has a cruel way of biting you in the butt. Don't put much value in their attitudes right now it's just male hormones at the ages you're talking about.
2007-03-22 16:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one thing 21 isnt considered"older" by kids who are 17-18 and yes you KNOW they think youre hot.The young guys AND the old guys stare at you dear.Its human to do that.Especially in a culture where marriage means nothing and any person is open game.You might want to look at the way you dress.
2007-03-22 16:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes they are infatuated with you . Alot of younger guys do this as they seem to have crushes alot on older girls. This is just natural for young kids but it does not mean anything serious. Just be happy and content in your marriage and dont worry about them. Just be happy in your life and keep smiling. Do not let something like this bother you and just ignore them and pay no attention to them when they do this.
2007-03-22 16:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on girl if this really bothered you.....You would not be mentioning this at all...you would just leave it be...Sounds to me like you like the ego boost and that you are probably trying to get an ego boost on here as well from a bunch of strangers that will procede to tell you that you must be so hot etc etc etc....Go figure the bunch of strangers have never saw you so how can they actually say that, but only gather it by the things you have just said and indicated about yourself...Should you not be turning to your own man for the compliments that you need to feel good about yourself? Maybe you need to tell him that you want an ego boost instead of trying to make him jealous by telling him tales of little boys...This is just my dime store Phd. for ya here....I know you'll hate this remark but heck someone needs to be direct and straight with ya so let it be a stranger.
2007-03-22 16:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You got boobies dont matter how old you are or how attractive you are. BOOBS controll the main portion of the male brain. But take it as a compliment as well. if you are attractive you are gonna get stares and glares from men of all ages, ( and jealous women too) . When you are forty, you will be hoping for these stares. so soak them up and enjoy them, let them fill your self esteem meter and strut you stuff.
2007-03-22 16:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To those young men you are that attractive older women, as young men or boys we all have that older woman who does it for us. They have picked you.
2007-03-22 16:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to go out on a limb here, but I think it's because they are teenage boys and you have a vagina.
2007-03-22 16:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by endlessknowledge 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just look younger than your age,and they dont realize it.its the hormones.keep smiling,cuz at least you know you look younger.;)
2007-03-22 16:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋