After a few years of trying to figure out what I want in life I've gotten back into the dating scene and apparently forgot some of the finer points. This is for women over 24 who have NOT been diagnosed with any type of mental disorder. I noticed I tend to pick up on a woman's perfume when close or driving together is an example I'm looking for. All serious answers will be appreciated.
2007-03-22 16:17:21 · 7 answers · asked by Mike R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I notice if the man is paying attention to me or to everything else around me. Is he polite to the people around me? If he is rude to waiter or waitress or nice. Is he easygoing or uptight like he has to hurry at everything? I also notice his face, is he smiling with his eyes? Those are what I noticed the most. It tells me a lot about the person I am with. If he is looking around at everything else, he really isn't interested in me or the date. If he is rude to the people around me, then that is someone I do not want to be around. It could be that he has had a bad day or that is his personality. I like a man to communicate if he has explain, if that was the case.
If he is in a hurry, then he may not be the type of person I want to be with. I want someone who can relax and be in the moment. If he smiles with his eyes, that shows his spirit. I like someone who is truly happy with himself.
2007-03-22 16:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Cologne is great, sucks when it reminds me of my father though. I appreciate good teeth, and nice fingernails. A light touch to the small of my back never goes unnoticed. Chilvary is not dead. I appreciate a sincere interest in what I am about and a few questions. I don't really like telling people about me when they are not intersted. Avoid awkward silence at all cost. Gernerally I dont think girls like to hear about ex's and how many gal pals you have off the start. I think we are all jealous in nature. Be super nice to strangers, that goes along way in my books as well. This goes beyond first date, but Ive heard that "a man really loves you when they offer you the last bite of something they are enjoying". So i really notice that as well. Everyone is going to tell you to be yourself, but i wont bc thats a given. I beleive in being honest and truthful in everything you do. And smile lots!
2007-03-22 23:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Body language, what he is wearing, how well he listens, his eyes and all that jazz.
If I'm honest I am also thinking about what he would be like in bed - what is his body like, what does he look like naked and what does his manhood look like.
I also think about how good will he bed, does he rush and c()m too soon? Would he be as kinky as I am or would he be frighten off.
I also try and imagine the two of us in bed - me with my legs akimbo and him grinding and pumping me into the bed.
I don't bed all the men I date - but I always think about the bedroom dept.
2007-03-22 23:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Table manners. Do you put the napkin in your lap? Do you eat with a fork--not your hands? Eat with your mouth closed? Believe me this is a huge thing--mom was not wrong--lol--it tells a lot--especially on a first date.
2007-03-22 23:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pay attention to his language and action. is he focusing on me, or talking with me while his eyes are strolling on other girls. Is he bragging a lot about his past and so on.
the look very important to me then the character.
2007-03-22 23:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by chance 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i notice the way he looks at me, and if he does things like opens the door for me, and asks me what i like.
2007-03-22 23:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eyes,lips,cock,sense of humor.
2007-03-23 22:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋