He came back. i broke up with him. i want him to want me again.?

Question

He broke up with me 3 months ago. About a month ago he began to send me emails apologizing and we started talking again. He called me a lot at the beginning(we are long distance) but that only lasted like a week and then he called less. He was still calling but less.

I mean, he hurt me a lot in the past and he should be doing a lot more to make it up to me. I felt he's failing me and my expectations. He felt the same way too.

So i broke up with him 2 nights ago. And now he blocked me on facebook and edited his "look for" to "dating and a relationship"(a mutual friend let me use his account to see this). And he re-added a girl who i made him block(although there's nothing going on between them, yet)

It seems like he's moving on. Is there anything i can do to make him want me again? i actually liked him a lot. And he bought tickets to visit me next week. Now i dont know whether he's coming. I told him not to. should i just do nothing?

Answer 1

There is too much between both of you. You can't trust him because he has hurt you too much before. Things will never be the same again...He tried to make it up to you but at the same time he doesn't know how to meet your expectations.


Maybe you don't really like him now but you're still holding on to those good memories in the past. It happened to me before.Keep those good memories and learn from this relationship.

Let him move on and you should move on as well...

Answer 2

Unfortunately, you might be out of luck. Sounds like this relationship is heading no where. Especially since it's long distance. Just take a deep breath and realize that someone perfect is waiting for you ...

Answer 3

u should just move on. forget about him. u can get someone better. don't even except his calls or email. good luck.

Answer 4

IF your going to just fight all the time thats not good.