Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I was dating this girl for nine months, i took here verginity, whatever, we were like Bonnie and Clyde. Then she moved a way we broke up, i still love her and i still talk to her. latley i got interested in her best Friend. She likes me too, but she does't want to mess up her relationship with my ex. Should i have her ask my ex for permission, should i purposely turn them against each other, i don't know i need help.

2007-03-19 08:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by luis c 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 08:41:15 · 15 answers · asked by !@#$%^ <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is a sin to masturbate? Should there be any curcomstances for it being a sin and not? Do you mastubate? How often to do? Do you think how you do it its ok, if yes what are you resonings for your belief? When did you first start? Do you think its humanly possible for someone not to? Thanks for your help. Im really stuck on this, me and my friends were having a discussing earlier today on this mater and I would like to hear other peoples feedback.

2007-03-19 08:40:53 · 1 answers · asked by sexy man 1 in Singles & Dating

I have to much love in me what can i do?

2007-03-19 08:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by molly d 1 in Friends

We have been friends for over 20 years and dated off and on our entire young adult life. We married 5 years ago and had a Son but divorced one year later. We were both very stubborn and selfish and unwilling to make changes to make our marriage work. We went through the typical hate, anger, and dissappointment that comes swith divorce but we are both now much more mature. We have a WONDERFUL relationship with each other and are now best of friends again however, we have slept together a couuple of times in the the last few months. I know, I know, it's a terrible thing to do. It's just that we have a connection and I still think I'm in love with him and he has said the same to me. Are there any success stories out there in this situation. Please don't pass judgement...

2007-03-19 08:40:02 · 30 answers · asked by Lea Anit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 08:39:33 · 3 answers · asked by hendersonswoman 2 in Friends

Or do you have the heart for another...
How can you tell if you are not fit to be with someone or can tell if you are?
Will you know at an young age that you are fit or experianced for a dating or know that your are not that type of person for dating or relationships?

2007-03-19 08:39:32 · 4 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2 in Singles & Dating

I do, any girl that tries to mess up my happy home, must have not had her own happiness!!

Ladies if you dont have a man, don't try to take someone els man, GET YOUR OWN, and we will all be happy!!

2007-03-19 08:39:08 · 5 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Singles & Dating

i have this new guy im dating, and i like him a lot. the only thing is, we dont really have all that much to talk about... i mean, we do, but i am so bad at getting to know people. i try to make small talk and tell funny stories, etc, but all of my stories and efforts of small talk trail off and leave us in silence again. i see all of my friends who are great at entertaining crowds and making conversation with people they dont know well... and im so jealous!!! what is their secret??? help me out please!

2007-03-19 08:38:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I absolutely cannot stand people eating with their mouths open and smacking. Another one is slurping and sucking on drinks 5 minutes after they are gone. I have a co worker who does this and it wouldn't be so bad but he is an older man..70. We work together in a tollbooth doing security and my question is how can I NICELY and without hurting his feelings tell him to CUT IT OUT! I have left the booth to not listen.. I have turned up the tv.. I even got some earplugs and put them in when he does it. ( He should have picked up on the timing of the plugs by now) I was told to just tell him but he is old and I am so not into elder abuse. Any suggestions Honeychild???

2007-03-19 08:38:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A lot of guys I met can't seem to let go of their past relationship baggage. They seem to drag all their hurt, mistakes, dissappointment into the current relationship. Want to make the new people jump through hoops to gain trust. It's not right or fair to the new person. I am not here to right all past wrongs.

Where can I find a man who loves likes he has never been hurt?

2007-03-19 08:37:59 · 11 answers · asked by Hanna S 1 in Singles & Dating

well im 16 going on 17 and me and my boyfriend have been going going out for a whole year and 6 months, well havent had sex , cause i want to save my self for marrige, well he wants me to give him head, ive been thinking of it, but would i be a whore.he wouldnt make me if i didnt want to but, i kinda do,is tht being a whore

2007-03-19 08:37:53 · 24 answers · asked by blonde_chick 1 in Singles & Dating

I miss the search for mrs applebottom

2007-03-19 08:37:33 · 10 answers · asked by raul b 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a good friend who regularly invites my husband and me to dine with her at her home. My husband likes my friend, but he hates her dog and refuses to attend these dinner parties because he says her dog is untrained and unruly. He (the dog, not my husband) jumps on guests and sits by the table begging throughout dinner--it IS very annoying. So, I go to her house without him and I usually make some excuse for his absense. This has been going on for about a year.

Recently, my friend has asked if my husband and I are having problems because he never accompanies me. She has also asked me if he doesn't like her or her cooking since he avoids her dinners.

How can I tell her the truth without hurting her feelings? She LOVES this dog as if it were her child. The truth would devastate her.

Please do not recommend that we all go out for dinner instead. My friend really loves entertaining in her home.

Also, please note that my husband does not hate all dogs--just this one!

2007-03-19 08:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by museumdoll 3 in Friends

i been living w/ a guy about 5months.. and i got a job wear his mom works at... the thing is i went to a party one day w/ one of my co- workers "a guy" then rumors went to her about the party.... and i didnt want her to knew that HELP ME .?

2007-03-19 08:37:02 · 4 answers · asked by vanessa d 1 in Friends

Last night, after the kids went to bed my man and I deciced to take an very nice shower together, we got in I latered up and he said....you just started your period. I couldn't open my eyes because of the soap, it was horrible.

2007-03-19 08:36:58 · 11 answers · asked by 2shay 5 in Singles & Dating

I recently overheard my mother in-law tell my husband that I am a half-brain. She is upset with some decisions that we made recently and she feels that it is my husband's way of acting out and wanting attention. I supported my husband's feelings and because of this she told him that I am a half-brain, etc. The thing is, there is a family dinner coming up. I get along well with my husband's brothers and sisters. I just don't know how to handle the mother in-law at this dinner. Any advice? Before this, she and I got along fairly well.

2007-03-19 08:36:25 · 15 answers · asked by rach78 1 in Family

If he still tells you he loves you through text - but doesn't text as much. And still tells you at the end of a phonecall "I love you." but doesn't speak really at all the whole time (even on short calls) and he still tells you wen you look gorgeous n stuff, is he away to break up with you? On top of that though, hes told you he's not into all the total serious stuff as much as he used to be, and the romantic "spark" so to speak has gone, and he doesn't not want to be in contact with you, just when he is it's always about serious stuff and never fun little things like it used to be. How long should I wait before I contact him again? It's been 3 days since I last spoke to him. And what are the signs of a breakup about to happen. Please help me, we've been going out for 8 months, and I love this guy :( We were so in love we used to talk about our future together and everything. I've just got so much heartache right now :(

2007-03-19 08:36:05 · 10 answers · asked by leaf 1 in Singles & Dating

??????i need help??????

2007-03-19 08:35:13 · 14 answers · asked by RrcT09 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy and a girl live far away from eachother but like eachother a lot..but they are not having a long distance relationship..do you think the guy would rather talk all the time..or might he avoid the girl because he doesnt want their relationship to develop into anything more until she gets there..because she happens to be going to college by where he lives?

2007-03-19 08:34:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls have any of you (when you were 16 thru 19) had sex with protection and you did not get pregnant or get HIV/AIDS?

2007-03-19 08:34:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i sent my studd colt to my uncles ranch for a while i waz in trouble for my grades and my uncle wont give him back he is 10 months old i payed 1500 for him and he wont give him back. he never gave me a bill of sale for him and i dont know what to do anymore..... please tell me what to do
i dont have proof that he sold the horse to me i just have 3-4 whitnesses

2007-03-19 08:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by sexy 2 in Friends

*names have been changed*

I have this really good friend...she is soo awesome! (sally)

I have this really hot guy friend that I've liked for 5 years (bill)

Sally wanted to meet Bill because I was saying how hot he was.

Sally see's Bill on webcam and nnow she likes him too

Sally is gorgeus as opposed to me...dirt ugly

I got in a fight with Bill then I told Sally what happened.
Bill hates me now cuz I told her

Why does he care what she thinks?
Sally wants to go camping with me because I go camping with Bill all the time

Is Sally a true friend?

2007-03-19 08:34:04 · 5 answers · asked by mish_mosh_posh 2 in Friends

My fiance and I are getting married next February and want to have a small inimate wedding on Grouse Mountain, Vancouver where we got engaged. However, his mother has an assault felony from several years ago- would she not be able to attend??

2007-03-19 08:33:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'm trying to think back to all the things my doctors have said so that i dont cutt but nothing coming to mind

2007-03-19 08:33:29 · 5 answers · asked by theresa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is being bullied by someone I know, what can I do? Please list source.

2007-03-19 08:32:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my best friend since last thursday seemes to have distanced himself from me. By that i call him and he dosent answer or call me back. he hardly calls me and when we talk he seems to not be able to look at me? He also stopped acting all brotherly like play fighting and stuff and hes just acting werid. I dont no wat it is. I dont want to talk 2 him about bout because im not sure if anything is wrong. I sometimes notice that he makes quick glances at me. wats up with this guy?? any suggestsions from wat ive told u???

2007-03-19 08:32:37 · 1 answers · asked by razorsharpdut 2 in Friends

My divorced bf who's been living w me almost a yr meets women through work (entertainment industry) and keeps in touch with them via email 'friends' which I can deal with
he is looking for a place of his own but says he wants to continue our relationship
There are signs though like : lock on his cell phone and songs he writes about women he meets which express wanting to see them again, etc. ..it kills me. I tried talking to him about ending it but he assures me that things are fine says he's leaving so that he can concentrate working on his music.
Part of me wants to punch him on the nose the other half wants to be patient , is this a stage he is going through?..Yeah I feel like an idiot, worst part I don't have any friends.

2007-03-19 08:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by incoming03 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 08:32:05 · 46 answers · asked by Forest Breeze 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so me and this girl are kinda compicated. I really like her and she knows it. My friend was talking to her and even told her bluntly.. without me knowing of cource... but she even said she knew. We've been to quite a few movie but always with friends. We've kissed but afterwards it was kinda a surprise to both of us so know it seems like we're taking it slow.. really slow. Last time I asked her where we stood she kinda said it wasnt there yet but she didnt want to lead me on. Since then we've held hands at movies, we talk for hours on msn and on the bus ride to school every morning for a good 20 minutes or so, plus during school between classes and during lunch. She broke up with her last boy friend two weeks ago, and thats why most people think that she wants to take things slow... she hasnt actually said she "likes" me yet, but it seems like her actions are saying it for her, even though her words arent. We're going to a movie on thursday with a dating couple. What do u think?

2007-03-19 08:31:40 · 5 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating