Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I'm single and looking... are there any turn offs or ons that guys look for, to let them know that I'm available?

2007-03-19 09:11:21 · 14 answers · asked by Katalina 2 in Singles & Dating

So my girlfriend said she is going to have me cosplay tomorrow... I must be completely clueless cuz i dont know what she is talking about. But everytime she says it she laughs and says it will be fun. What is she talking about what does it mean...what am i getting into?

2007-03-19 09:11:13 · 9 answers · asked by NDK35 1 in Singles & Dating

Flowers, cardholders, famous punch, and etc

2007-03-19 09:10:34 · 4 answers · asked by MILITARYBRAT 1 in Weddings

Can be something silly, serious, secret,,, you decide..

2007-03-19 09:10:33 · 22 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

She calls me up this weekend after 4 months of no talking,.and asks me if I wanted to take her old queen sized bed to replace my present one. (she's moving to another city 2 hours away) This is the bed that her ex-husband, ...me,... and another guy she was having an affair with behind my back, all had initiated sex in it with her. What kind of an instigation of sorts is this crap all about anyways? Is she trying to piss me off further,...and especially after four months? Any thoughts about this woman's behavior people?

2007-03-19 09:10:19 · 2 answers · asked by scott s 6 in Singles & Dating

I would like a parent's opinion on this...

i recently found this web-site through my daughter who was very upset. I stumbled upon it on accident actually. She wrote NUMEROUS notes about how she was upset about prom and her friends ditching her asking people for advice. I confronted my daughter about this and she started crying. She seems VERY VERY upset over this whole situation.

I suggested to my daughter that she and some of her friends that are NOT attending prom and or some underclass friends go to the shore the weekend of her prom. She agreed to this. The thing is that in the U.S. one cannot rent a hotel room under the age of 18. So..I am renting three rooms for my daughter. One for 4 girls One for 4 Boys and one for My daughter's boyfriend's mother and I. I plan on being down there in case of an emergency but I am telling all the mother's if they ask that I am not and will not be held responsible for there children or the actions of there children.

is that good parenting?

2007-03-19 09:10:07 · 11 answers · asked by LiL Chrissy 1 in Friends

2007-03-19 09:09:52 · 54 answers · asked by soulessdead 1 in Singles & Dating

He's not all that good looking and he's a wanna b pimp an he's trys to dress like a thug !!!?? like all the other guys do

2007-03-19 09:09:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you do tell me ALL the details!!!!!

2007-03-19 09:08:39 · 2 answers · asked by Someone in the world 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been in my drama group for about 9 months now, and on the Friday sesions we have people with special needs join us and I basically help run the class aswell as take part.
About a month ago, a guy joined. He has quite bad special needs and he basically has the mental age of a 6 year old.
When he first joined he just asked me whether I liked Avril Lavigne and I said I did; after that he constantly talked to me about her and every time we have to go into partners he runs to me and pulls me away. Then about a week or two later he kept saying "I like your hair" and "you are really beautiful" and stuff like that. It's been getting worse over the weeks and as soon as I came into drama this week he shouted "I LOVE YOU!" at me and he kept asking if we can do a duet; plus he keeps asking for my email. When he talks to you he goes right u to your face and spits when he talks and when im lying on the ground chatting to my friends he sits RIGHT next to me! What shall I do I hate it!

2007-03-19 09:07:46 · 4 answers · asked by claireybearyfairy 4 in Friends

Is it considered puppy love?:: A girl and a guy have been dating about a month one is in 8th grade and one it in 7th grade the girl is going around telling everyone she is the new Mrs. (guys last name) is it just me or is it a little immature and puppy love?

2007-03-19 09:07:41 · 6 answers · asked by Oh Snap! 2 in Singles & Dating

He wants to spend nearly every Sunday to watch ballgames etc with them but rarely takes me anywhere (we have no kids). These 2 jerks deal drugs, are alcoholics and also sell stolen goods. I know I can't pick his friends and have been careful with my words as I have a feeling the more I say the more he will run to them. I've even thought of anonomously calling the police on them but he'd figure out it was me and they'd get out sooner or later anyway. What does he have in common with them? He likes some of the 'stuff' they sell!

How do I get him to ditch these losers!!??

2007-03-19 09:07:38 · 19 answers · asked by cj_gurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok theirs this guy, he's nice sweet, funny adorable, has a killer smile and gorgeous brown eyes. he flerts w/ me all the time knows just what to say all the time and never stops lookin down my shirt....he tells me i've got a chance, when another guy starts movin in and givin me options, then when things get a little closer he pulls the i c us as just friends card....he's sending all the signals of flertation and likes, and trust me i'm sending them right back.....he knows i luv him, and i can tell him anything and everything.......what do i do....some of my friends say i should give up on him....others say grab him and make him c what he's missin and c if there's a spark....idk....help!!!he kinda also has just a few egos...like 7....but i luv him......even with his total cofusingness....HELP!!! idk what 2 do!!!!

2007-03-19 09:07:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am wondering if you see a girl that you like, that you really really like will you go talk to her or will you let something stop you from going and talking to her. Will you talk to the girl no matter what??
also is it possible for a guy to completly ignore a girl and still like her???

2007-03-19 09:07:07 · 17 answers · asked by Bored&Broken 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this girl for 2 months now. We have been intimate and have been spending a lot of time together. Out of the blue and to my shock she says "we are just friends" It seems we are more than that because just introduces me to her family, friends etc. I just dont know what to say to that. Why would a girl say that? any advice?

2007-03-19 09:06:48 · 17 answers · asked by j j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:06:43 · 6 answers · asked by darlene1989 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this impression, may be wrong, that if I end up with a caucassian woman she is gonna cheat on me. I have few instances where I intentially avoided "white women" from considering for a date. I am not racist but when it comes to dating I see them differently.how can I overcome this fear and be acceptable to white american woman?

2007-03-19 09:06:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

35 years old? I'm asking because I met a very nice guy recently, whom I went out on a date with. He is very kind, and I really like him. He's also very fun to be with. Well, I have an older coworker (42), who I always confide in, and she confides in me as well. I told her about how my weekend went, and about my date, and she told me that the man is too old for me. I was surprised because i'm 24, and he is only 35, but she kept repeating that he is too old for me. This caused me to rethink things. She asked what we could possibly have in common, and why can't he find a woman his own age? I have no idea why, and I will admit that we don't have much in common; however, we still have a lot to talk about, and enjoy doing things together. I'm going to keep seeing him probably, but I told her i'd take her opinion into consideration. She says she is 42, and closer to his age, and knows how men think, and says that he is probably after 1 thing. Are 24 and 35 really THAT different?

2007-03-19 09:06:10 · 3 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when the guy you love most in the world doesn't believe most of the things you say? I have to say though I have given him a lot of reasons not to believe it... What should I do?

2007-03-19 09:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Singles & Dating

I was watching "Who's Wedding is it Anyway?" and there was an east asian couple who's origins are in India but they are both first-generation americans. They had this elaborate pre-wedding ritual/ceremony and it was bright and beautiful.

The week/day after (I'm not sure) the pre-wedding ritual/ceremony, they had an American wedding. (as well as a reception.)

And I was curious if I could have something like that even though I'm not east asian.

2007-03-19 09:05:21 · 4 answers · asked by C.E. A 3 in Weddings

I am thinking about trying to be a wedding planner. I am working on my degree in marketing/public relations. I also have a minor in legals studies. What is the average rate that a wedding planner charges and how do you go about actually becoming one?

2007-03-19 09:04:58 · 5 answers · asked by jennisea04 3 in Weddings

says we may get back together in the future i doubt it

2007-03-19 09:04:38 · 21 answers · asked by bob s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I am pretty college student. I have never been drunk, slept over at a friend's place, done pot, party or any of that stuff -no college wild life for me.
Customarily, I call my mom every 24 hours to see how she is doing and let her know how I am doing -although she is a little bit skeptic about my decision. For some reason, this morning my roomate woke me up saying that my mom called. As I picked the phone, she told me that she called the police and was crying out loud saying that I am irresponsible because the last time I called was at 3 pm (she called me at 12 pm next day). Now, she knows I am on finals and that I was planning on studying. This is the 10th time this happens, but this time she called the police! So now my question is. Should I, (1) change and call her even more often or (2) she is just going overboard with her worries? Choose (1) or (2), comments are appreciated!

2007-03-19 09:04:26 · 15 answers · asked by Rudy 2 in Family

Long story short, theres a guy at work. The way that he talks makes me think that he is gay because he sort of has a "feminine voice", you know, the kind that some gays usually have even though his isnt THAT feminine.....Well, he hardly talks to anyone but for some reason he chose to really talk to me. The other day he asked me questions such as where I was from and if I had a girlfriend, then he asked me my age. Well, from time to time I catch him looking at me. Anyway, the other day, he called me in the hallway to talk. This guy had his arm around my waist/back for awhile as we walked midway down the hall. Then, while he was talking, at times, he would get real close up to my face.....At this point I'm kind of freaking out.....Well anyway, at the end of the little disccusion about some other co workers, this guy gave his phone number out of nowhere, I didnt ask for it, he just decided that he would give it to me......Whats up with that?? My little "gaydar" dectects a little gayness??

2007-03-19 09:04:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:03:28 · 16 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

what are you most worried about right now?

2007-03-19 09:03:16 · 1 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 1 child. I live in IL. The rule of thumb is 20% child support for 1 child. My ex is a loser. But not enough of a loser to lose custody, just a borderline loser. She spends no money on my child, when asked where the money goes I get the usual B.S. Housing, electricity, etc.. My ex has nothing. Rents a house, cell phone shut down all the time, car company calling about payments. Where is my money going?

But step Dad loves to buy his Boats/Campers/new guns, hunting season & fishing season R big alone time trips for him too. I spend $ on my child when she is with me, vacations, clothes, museums etc..alot of $$$$$$$$

So my question is-- 20%?

and now she wants an increase to my new pay scale. Which will hurt me, and my child, as I wont be able to give anymore.

I do have a step-child in my house that I do not get any Child Support on. Father is MIA.

So will that be a factor in court, or is it :

"20% is 20% and get out of my courtroom. Thank you your Honor......

2007-03-19 09:02:13 · 9 answers · asked by John c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married for 8 years. Sadly in the initial yearsof my marriage i was v lonely and did not realize that i started hanging out with my husbands younger brother when he(spouse) was not around. i enjoyed the younger brother(YB) company but ... it seemed to grow everyday ... there came a time when we both touched each other ..(hair/..no kiss/sex etc)
i did realize my stupidity & forgot him. We all live under 1 roof .. and well he is married now .. to be a dad in Dec. two things:
1. 5 months before his wedding we had a relapse ....the same chemistry ...etc.. well it all began in 2002 i had kids but it was SHOCK that it happened again,....no sex /kiss..but obvious feelings.
2.well he is married i see him everyday .. but no matter what/how much i try to be at peace with him he makes sure that after 4-5 days he gets mean then after a cold war makes up . ihave set him free ... but he is messing with me i feel..WHY???
My hubby has no clue .. and i want it that way .

2007-03-19 09:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by barley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:02:11 · 7 answers · asked by darlene1989 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you think lap dances and strippers aren't cheating for you rite? you think what the girl is doing isn't wrong and your wife/gf shouldn't be mad or leave you rite? it's their job rite? there's no love involved rite? and all the other excuses you use rite? then why is it cheating if she strips and dances and rubs against another guys huh? why are you such hypocrites?

i think girls should do that as revenge then dump/divorce their husband/bf............give them a taste of their own medicine huh ladies?

2007-03-19 09:02:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating