Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

2007-03-19 09:02:04 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents always fight and I new it was coming, but know I just dont know waht to do. I dont know whats going to happen and how divorce works. I'm scared, i absoltely hate this!!!! help me!!!can u tell me how this is all going yo work and what i can do to feel better about it?

2007-03-19 09:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Family

I've been with my bf for 2 months(im 21,hes24)I am his first gf in 2 yrs(his ex cheated on him & was badly hurt)At first he was always wanting to see me,we live 30 min away and only i have a car.In the first couple weeks he took me to meet his parents and his friends.Lately hes been acting distant.Now we barely see each other and when we do,we are either at his parents house or out with his friends.I hate having to 'schedule' myself in.I feel neglected & like he doesnt care about me. i've brought his up with him b4 and he just tells me i shouldnt feel like that and to just "chill" and that hes "not going anywhere".When we are together he is very attentive and tells me how much he enjoys hanging out with me,but then I dont see him for 4 or 5 days.i've noticed he drinks alot.I need to bring this up again b/c it's REALLY bothering me.I dont want to break up and I dont want to play games.Why do u think hes acting like this???and how should i talk to him about it and make him LISTEN!!

2007-03-19 09:01:03 · 16 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:00:59 · 6 answers · asked by tyrha69 1 in Singles & Dating

I have pretty much came to the conclusion that boys are lame. They drive me crazy but I still love them anyway... I'm not trying to be sexist or anything but i don't know, it just seems like a fitting philosophy.

2007-03-19 09:00:47 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Singles & Dating

We are a middle aged couple in our late 40's and early 50's (she). I am the communicator in the bedroom and in the past two years she wants sex less and it almost seems she can do without it. I am still a fit man and could have many other women if I wanted but I don't. I love everything about my wife except her sex drive and the fact that she will not communicate with me about this subject.

Ladies, help me out. What do you suggest I do?

ps: counseling is out of the question, I have already asked her to see a counseler due to her not wanting sex anymore and she will not hear of it. She does not want to discuss it so what does a man do now?

2007-03-19 09:00:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this cute guy at my neighborhood bar. we chatted up and hit it off. he asked for my number and actually called 4days later to ask me out for drinks. we're of the same age. almost 30. we hit happy hour at 6pm & ended the night at 2am. but then he asked if i wanted to take a cab back to his place? i was instantly offened. he must have noticed the look of confusion on my face. then he quickly remedied it by suggesting that the cab can drop me off at my place first, then he'll go back to his. off-coarse i said yes to dropping me off at my place first. then there was an awkward silence, and i said 'i move really slow, just so u know.' he seemed cool and said he respected that. then while we waited for the cab outside, he asked if he could kiss me. i said yes. the kiss was really nice. so is this guy just looking for a fling? because i am not. i want relationship material. and a part of me feels disrespected that he even asked me back to his place. should i not go out with him again?

2007-03-19 08:59:41 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine347 1 in Singles & Dating

will humans disappear one day, as per our nature of hatred and thats what humans have always done on this world among religions

2007-03-19 08:59:30 · 7 answers · asked by Forest Breeze 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and Then tryed to tell the cops that he didnt do anything,,Well He is ALOT bigger then me.and I had all the marks to show to the cops.well he tryed to sit there and deny it because of his work,He is in the avation field.I love him but i wont let this go any farther,I came into this relationship from a domestic violence relationship prior to this.I love this man more then anything but sometimes i wonder what i am to him......Why is there a sudden of outburst on his part..He is still Currently married but is in the mist of a divorce from his 1st wife...Is not seein his kids makin him do this.He hardly talks to me anymore.I Have no family where we live now..And all my family is over 1000 miles away..What should i do......

2007-03-19 08:59:12 · 46 answers · asked by Breeanna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

mine was telling me a story about someone that did this and i wondered how often this actually does occur?

2007-03-19 08:58:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if u break up with this guy/girl a long time ago and u was the one who broke up with that person first and he/she wasnt your type really but u still liked him/her.But in the next year you start to like him/her again and he didnt really show it but u told him/her how you felt and yall agreed to go out with each other...do you believe that the relationship is meant to be or stuff just happen sometimes just say yes or no

2007-03-19 08:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by Easha 2 in Singles & Dating

when my bf feels on me it tickles but i dont wanna jump..Especially when were like kissin in what not cuz that would mess it up.cuz im super tickalish specially if hes workin his way up. Like hes at my sides n goin upwards if you know what i mean. ..it feels so good but sometimes it gives me the urge to jump a lil like a shock..idk...what should i do?

2007-03-19 08:58:43 · 15 answers · asked by Im just me 2 in Singles & Dating

How long for? Who brought it up? How often do you do it?

My husband and I have been married 8 years and swinging for 3. We only play maybe once a month. We both brought it up. I'd like to know how many on here do the same. I think we are more common than most people think.

2007-03-19 08:58:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well me and my bf hav been together for a year and a half and we dont want to have sex until we are married but he have fooled around basically been to base 3 and we love it but we feel bad after it. what should we do? and i dont realy mind do it so how can i make him want me and want to do naughty things without suggesting it and have him enjoy it.. thankx

2007-03-19 08:58:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have enough money to get a go phone from walmart and i really really want a cell phone..I told my mom that it is a pre-paid phone and so she wouldnt have to worry about a bill or anything..but she doesnt think i would have enough money to keep up on paying for minutes..and she says ''tell me some good reasons why you should get it and then i will say yes'' and ever ason i give her is not a good enough reason...so what should i do to convince her that i should be able to get one??

2007-03-19 08:57:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-19 08:57:22 · 13 answers · asked by Celticgreen 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had 2 relationships in the past year, 1 man is 54, the other is 52. Both have a problem getting it up & staying hard. When this happened, they got offended & blamed the problem on me. I actually didn't even mention it.
But, I don't want to sleep with someone that can't get it up. I would like to continue the relationship with the older man, but I want to enjoy sex. And, no he doesn't like to please me orally. Even if he did, I would still need the actual intercourse.

Sex is a major part of a relationship to me & that is not something I am willing to ignore.

2007-03-19 08:57:17 · 6 answers · asked by dragracefan10 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this boy at school that i really like and he acts like he likes me but he tells everyone he doesn't . Every time he sees me he blushes and looks at the ground and smiles . His friends look at me in weird ways and when he found out i liked him he started being nice to all the people i hang out with . so do u think he likes me ?

2007-03-19 08:57:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy...and i no he lykz me back and i no he noz i lyk him but he wouldnt ask me out if my life depended on it!!!well neewayz, i went to disney this weekend and i come back today happy 2 see my friendz and eager 2 see my crush.im talking with 1 of by bffz and she goes "um... Liza i need 2 tell something, and i no u dont wanna hear it, but im here 4 u and i dont wanna tell u this but..."Butthead" has a girl friend". next thing i no i DO see him...but he is holding handz with another girl(and she is not very pretty)!!i started 2 cry a little, and when 1st pr. came i BROKE DOWN crying for about 1 hour!!does this show im 2 desperate 4 him?what will happen next?has any1 had this experience?does anyone have any advice?i fell lyk pulling a gun out of my a** and shooting myself!!!!HELP!!

2007-03-19 08:56:44 · 1 answers · asked by Liza 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to take my boyfriend on a unique date that does not cost alot of money! any ideas??

2007-03-19 08:56:26 · 6 answers · asked by Gwen G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lie without blinking an eye
No conscience
No regrets, No thinking about the what ifs
Moving on to the next without the luggae of the past realtionships.

2007-03-19 08:56:08 · 32 answers · asked by TD 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 08:56:04 · 3 answers · asked by updownturnaround 2 in Singles & Dating

hi iam sosi and of course a girl! i have been fine with my friend for a long time.once she had invited for some snackes before we enter the hall (our lecture).i told her it is ok and ido'nt feel like eating now.anyway iate at the end and got invited!
later she asked me to stay withher in a course (extra lectures)
in fact i donot want to hurt her ,but just said after alot of rejection.ok i will do.
wen the time came for the course ifeel sth like forced to go with her...but in fact i can't stay more in the course and i left it..plz she is so angry with me?what can i do now?

2007-03-19 08:56:01 · 4 answers · asked by sosi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married 10 years and I think I might be in unhealthy relationship. How does one decide if they are in an unhealthy relationship or just unreasonable with their expectations?

2007-03-19 08:55:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

every monday after school i have mentoring and my mom is supposed to come pick up my 2 sisters at school ..usually i would drive us all home ... well today forgot becouse she was someplace with my dad and when she got home she argued with me that it was my fault that my sisters got left at school so i got grounded 3 weeks becouse i said i was right and she was wrong .... i dont think thats right

2007-03-19 08:55:43 · 10 answers · asked by apryl 2 in Family

do you believe in the saying "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never have loved at all"? I'm asking because I'm going through a very painful breakup with someone that I really loved and it makes me think that if we never got together in the first place than I wouldn't have the very painful feelings that I have right now. The really good thing that has come out of it is that I've learned so much that I'll be able to take with me into my next relationship, but I still feel that if we never got together then I wouldn't have all of these painful feelings. Any comments??

2007-03-19 08:55:24 · 4 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I am waiting til marriage to give up my virginity and my ex-boyfriend has asked me twice to give it up to him. I have broken up with him both times and now he is back again asking me to go out with him. He says he loves me and I belive him. I love him too and I want to spend my life with him, but after what he has done, I don't know if I can trust him again. What should I do?

2007-03-19 08:55:20 · 17 answers · asked by mbcangel2003 1 in Singles & Dating

He is one of my best friends cuz he can be trusted and he is so funny.

2007-03-19 08:55:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has rejected them in the past.

2007-03-19 08:54:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you think lap dances and strippers aren't cheating for you rite? you think what the girl is doing isn't wrong and your wife/gf shouldn't be mad or leave you rite? it's their job rite? there's no love involved rite? and all the other excuses you use rite? then why is it cheating if she strips and dances and rubs against another guys huh? why are you such hypocrites?

i think girls should do that as revenge then dump/divorce their husband/bf............give them a taste of their own medicine huh ladies?

2007-03-19 08:54:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce