Okay, I am waiting til marriage to give up my virginity and my ex-boyfriend has asked me twice to give it up to him. I have broken up with him both times and now he is back again asking me to go out with him. He says he loves me and I belive him. I love him too and I want to spend my life with him, but after what he has done, I don't know if I can trust him again. What should I do?
2007-03-19 08:55:20 · 17 answers · asked by mbcangel2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should give him ONE more chance, since you think you really love him, but if he asks again, I say break up and don't give him another chance. If he can't respect your wish, then he's probably only after sex. Well, I hope this helps you, and everything works out. :D
2007-03-19 09:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he has already asked you twice, and if you give him another chance he is going to ask you again! If he can't respect you enough to listen to you the first time then he doesn't deserve another chance.. My sisters they both have as high as standards as you do and that is a wonderful thing.. my oldest sister is 23 and is getting married this year to a pastor and is a virgin still and my little sister is 21 and is getting married at the end of the year to a pastor as well and they have amazing lives because of thier choice.. I however gave in to the guy I loved in highschool and became a teenage parent, and my life is not as glamorious.. so yes keep your high standards because the right guy will fall in love with you for respecting yourself and won't ask you to change your mind on that standard!!
2007-03-27 08:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by littlemama882003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I answer the question, I want to congratulate you on your determination to stay virgin. More than half of the world's population can't do that. Well, ask him if he is willing to wait until the next step(marriage) before giving up your virginity. If he's not, don't waste your time on him. If he truly and honestly is, then he might be worth spending your time on. After all, you can't blame him for having normal guy urges.
2007-03-27 02:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You already know what will happen because it happend twice already. If he really loves you, he would respect you enough to wait and not rush you into something you are saving until marriage. I bet you can find another guy who truely loves you and will wait for you. Good luck.
2007-03-26 15:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and how old is he?
If the answer is "---teen", he just wants to sleep with you - and if that's all you want, jump right into it. But don't go in with the wrong expectations because then you're only going to get hurt and be disappointed.
What's more, you'll become distrustful and bitter and the hurtful history/experience will prevent you from getting involved with someone who may be "the one for you".
Take care - their are no right or wrong answers.
2007-03-26 15:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by gorg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be with him for sure, hes not worth losing your virginity.... if he respected you and loves you like he says he will not push you, if he asks you once and you said no he should not ask you again he'd jsut waiit til you brought it up on your time when your ready.... dont give in, waiting til marriage will just make it that much better and worth waitin, trust me....
2007-03-27 08:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by yayme_denae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know right off the bat that you do not wish to sleep with him until you and he are married, and that if he wants to date you, he'll have to accept that. If he is okay with that, and you know you love him, and want to spend the rest of your life with him, then go out with him. It seems to me that he must really love you too, if he keeps coming back to you, even though he knows that you won't have sex with him.
2007-03-25 19:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him another chance but tell him that you have chosen to wait for sex until marriage and if that doesn't suit his immediate need than this relationship will not work. You break up with him just for asking for sex? Yikes.......I'd hate to really ruffle your feathers......
2007-03-19 09:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your stupid ex-boyfriend to look up the word 'marriage' in the dictionary. Tell him that it will explain in black and white what you want before he gets you to 'give it up.'
2007-03-27 04:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he will wait for you because the safest time to have sex is with your husband.. its okay i'm saving myself to..
dont let anyone make you feel bad about it.
2007-03-27 07:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋