you think lap dances and strippers aren't cheating for you rite? you think what the girl is doing isn't wrong and your wife/gf shouldn't be mad or leave you rite? it's their job rite? there's no love involved rite? and all the other excuses you use rite? then why is it cheating if she strips and dances and rubs against another guys huh? why are you such hypocrites?
i think girls should do that as revenge then dump/divorce their husband/bf............give them a taste of their own medicine huh ladies?
2007-03-19 08:54:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Strippers and lap dancers are not cheating ... no that is certainly cheating. However, there may be a better solution. I heard of a wife with your concerns, who had a lot of fun learning how to strip in the privacy of her home ... so she could use that aspect of female sensuality on her husband. The guy never went to another strip club ... except the time his wife asked him to go with her for further 'field study.' She still teases him about it and they are very happy today.
2007-03-24 02:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sultan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the dancers job to bump and grind, so when a guy get's to the point of thinking it's going to go to another level, it's a problem. I've gone to plenty of strip clubs and I don't feel like I'm cheating because I know it ends at the door. I love my wife very much and have been together for 25+ years. I know my wife does not share my views on this, and that's ok. Give it a rest, if you think that a dancer is going to destroy your relationship, it was already in trouble already.
2007-03-26 01:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Brett C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the strippers and lap dancers are doing what they get paid for, if a married man decides to take it farther than just looking then he is the cheater and he probably wouldn't think there was anything wrong with paying for a BJ from some girl either. Cheaters cheat, it's their nature and they usually lie too. To do it to them for revenge justs brings you down to their level, you should just move on with your life and find someone with values that mirror your own.
2007-03-27 15:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I dont really have a problem with my boyfriend going to strip clubs. However it has gone too far when the hand jobs and back rooms come in to play b/c I know damn well my bf would be pissed if some male stripper was fingering me or took me into a back room. Its a matter of trust and respect, you either got it or you don't
2007-03-19 16:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by ntlgntbtch 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lap Dance? what the hell is that? Strippers!, are things like that actually going on in this country? If my wife wants to strip and rub up aginst another guy, welllll, as londg as she gets paid for it, it's ok by me, I could use the money.
2007-03-19 16:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by fancy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I disagree. First of all, if it's her JOB and she's getting PAID, then he should be okay with it. If not, he wouldn't be with her in the first place. Second of all not all girls/women think that way, so don't talk for all of us. Third, how is dumping them giving them a taste of their own medicine? You're just freeing them to go to the strip clubs and do whatever, whenever (as long as those girls allow it...)
FOURTH....LEARN HOW TO SPELL, RIGHT?
2007-03-19 16:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Just tryin' to help 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs don't make a right...remember?
If they go further than just watching, maybe some day he'll get an std, and then your revenge will be complete without you having anything to do w/him... Get rid of him, if he takes it to where his little buddy shouldn't be...
The girl has a job to do, don't blame her, and usually it's all about the money for them, and the pleasure for the men, not love... Find someone who won't go further than looking... and that u can trust...
2007-03-27 15:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of anger and resentment here. I don't frequent strip clubs and if some men do it's because they are restless. Doesn't make it right or moral though. And if their GF or wives counter by doing exactly how you believe they should, the man has no right to gripe. Just my opinion.
2007-03-19 17:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really hate strippers. Did the strip club down the block refuse to hire you?
2007-03-19 16:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my books that would be cheating, Nxt time he invites his friends over , put on some sexy close and give them a lap dance and see if he sees the point you are trying to make, good luck.
2007-03-27 07:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by Larry M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋