She has rejected them in the past.
2007-03-19 08:54:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
bargin with her.. tell her that if she actually watches some adult films with you and really puts forth the effort because this is something that you like then you will do the same thing for her that she may want to do that you may not like and will put forth the effort and really try.
2007-03-19 09:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-24 16:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry she may never get into it, as some women just hate the whole scenario, but like someone mentioned make it about you and her making your own little movies, or make her feel like the star by taking sexy pictures of her, then she will feel you are admiring her, not needing to see other women naked. The women in the movies have perfect little bodies with huge breasts, amazingly they are all bi, it's very intimidating for the average girl, even if men think you are
attractive, you can't help but feel insecure. We can't all look like Pam Anderson or Jenna Jameson.
2007-03-19 09:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife does not like adult films, you should not force her to watch. Try other things to spice up your marriage, use your imagination.
2007-03-19 16:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she doesn't like it.
Most women hate porn because they think it is intended to replace them. Once women understand that they usually benefit from it (i.e both turned on, new fantasies, ideas, scenarios, positions) and realize that it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with themselves and their bodies, the sooner they will like it too.
Convince her that the porn isn't a criticism of her. Let her pick it. She'll probably pick one where 5 dudes do one girl and think you'll be upset, to "get back at you". She'll be surprised to find out you aren't upset at all and you wanna do her.
Be patient. Don't be angry. Communicate. Slowly.
2007-03-19 09:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if possible, it might be helpful to know what her preferences might be.
Second, check out titles produced by Candida Royale; a female director/producer.
Below is an excellent online source for video/DVDs.
Oh, and the CEO of the company is a woman (or was last I checked).
2007-03-19 13:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they gross her out, there isn't much you can do to change that. Maybe if you turn the sound off, she'd be OK with you watching them while she's there. Compromise. If you wanted someone who acted and felt the same way you did, then you would of married someone just like you.
2007-03-19 09:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her some womens porn (Erotic Romance)..
have a few drinks with her and then watch some adult films..
Make it a prelude to a good sexual experience for her and
she will come to look forward to watching them with you.
2007-03-19 09:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are not so enraptured by visual stimuli. Try writing some real racy stories about two characters that just happen to resemble you and your wife. Have them do what you want to do. You will be surprised. Wink, wink.
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2007-03-19 09:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What turns you on may not turn her on. If she is against it don't push it. Find some other way for you two to enjoy each other. I'm sure if your try harder to satisfy her wishes as your trying to get her into watching porn you may find that second honeymoon that eludes most couples. :)
2007-03-19 10:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋