I've been married 10 years and I think I might be in unhealthy relationship. How does one decide if they are in an unhealthy relationship or just unreasonable with their expectations?
2007-03-19 08:55:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it can be unhealthy mentally nad physically. like if you significant other is bringin your health down with worry and other things and mentally if you begin to try and change yourself to fit the other persons wants and desires
2007-03-19 09:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by LuvaBaby08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness.
Romantic love is seen as a deep, ineffable feeling of intense and tender attraction shared in passionate or intimate attraction and intimate interpersonal and sexual relationships.
If you don't feel like your relationship is following these definitions, you might want to see what is preventing this from happening and work on how to achieve it. A third (unbiased) party would be good to help you both realize what is honestly, factually happening.
Good Luck!
2007-03-19 16:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by treasureyourself 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions and answer honestly.
1. Are you grateful for your spouse?
2. Is your spouse grateful for you?
3. Do you feel better or worse when your spouse is around?
4. Life is a journey: do you share the journey with your spouse or are you just sharing the road?
5. Does your spouse make you want to be a better man/woman?
6. Do you make your spouse want to be a better woman/man?
7. How far would you go to keep this person in your life?
8. How far would this person go to stay in your life?
2007-03-19 16:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nathan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are being abused, and if for any reason you feel you are in an unhealthy relationship, you should seek help right away. There are many hotlines that can help.
2007-03-19 15:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♥heartbroken♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first sign would be asking that question. If you have to ask than you might be; is there abuse?(emotional of physical) are you still in love, is the other person? If the other person decides to leave you would you care and fight for them? Ask yourself these important questions
2007-03-19 16:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by jules27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're even asking this question is probably a good sign that you're in a bad relationship.
2007-03-19 16:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in your relationship you feel, little, hurt abused in any form and you are totally unhappy and talking about it or going to counseling hasn't worked then the relationship isn't for you.
2007-03-19 16:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are constantly being hurt, getting upset or are just fed up with your relationship...
1. If you haven't tried seeing someone about it, it could help
2. Have a serious talk with your significant other
3. If all else fails......I'll leave that one blank
-Good luck
2007-03-19 16:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by elnystrom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing your barometer is are u happy?If your not then u will know it.Are u glad to see her ect.....Also make sure u are not having problems of your own tht cloud everything in your relationship.Sometimes we hit a low for a while ,then it gets better after we do a attitude adjustment on ourselfs.Good luck!
2007-03-19 16:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you loose respect & that loving feeling for your spouse. But let her know how you feel, maybe it's something you two can work on together. Getting the love back...
2007-03-19 15:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋