Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

i don't like abuses posted to me by yahoo users! i just need a satisfying answer with no much bussle and hussle.please !!!!!!!!!since i am feeling here we are one community!

in fact iam confused with my friend cos we have been along for a good time,but the problem is that i donot know how to tackle such matter....
she asked me to have some snacks with her .i told her iam ok and i am not feeling like eating .she kept on persuading to be invited and i ate with her at the end.....u know all the snacks were paid on her part..i think a friend like me has to show some gratitude back..i hope u understand whet i mean..

then later for 2 weeks ,she asked me to go with her as a mate in some courses(extra lectures),once again i felt i have to say yes without rejection...so after alot of sorries in my part,i oked .

the problem again is that when i joined the first lecture of that course,i told her that is enough and i cant stay more long,,,,she was angry by then with me what i do?

2007-03-19 09:37:43 · 2 answers · asked by sosi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a guy I am interested in getting to know as a friend, maybe more. Not sure. He knows I am interested. We can message each other on the computer and he seems pretty outgoing, but in person he never says anything. Just looks. He will make eye contact with me in a room full of people. The one time he has ever spoken to me, he asked the same question twice after I already answered it and the answer was posted right in front of us. I used to just think he was shy but he has alot of friends that are girls so I just look at it as he is not interested. If he is friends with all of these girls it seems to me he is not shy. I thought he might be at least interested in getting to know me but I guess I misread things.

2007-03-19 09:37:06 · 2 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:36:29 · 31 answers · asked by J. P. 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 09:36:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's coming on Sunday - He'll have a long journey - I live far away from England... What shall I say? How should I behave? Where is it better to go together (no intimacy is planned) ? And the main question - What shall I wear??? I'm 20 yo tall slim dark brown-eyed brunette... And he's almost 30 yo man... every day I become more and more anxious. Any ideas for a confused girl? I've never met in real life those whom I talk to in the Inernet. Are there any rules for such cases? :) Anyway, I just want him to like me very much, that's it! :))

2007-03-19 09:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it okay for a someone to say they love you when they really don't? Tell me your answer and if you've ever been through that or not.
My answer: Hell no it ain't okay for someone to say that!

2007-03-19 09:35:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my girlfriend went on a blind date and told me her date had breath that smelled like garbage truck juice....and everytime he talked and said any word that started with "H" she kept think that she wanted to go back to his place and see if his plumbing was connect from his toilet to his sink cause his breath smelled so strong of shyt...Has anyone ever went on a date where you had to just end it before you passed out?

2007-03-19 09:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He even looks at the cleavage, breast area when their not even a littel exsposed.

2007-03-19 09:35:01 · 18 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

At first everything was good, he would call all the time and you would go out on dates. Now, its different, he doesnt do that.When I gave him my virginty, and ask him how he feels, he says we should have done that a long time ago. he bought up sex really early in the relationship. Even when we're friends he was sexually toward me. He said thats not all he wants, but hes always asking me to come over for that reason. Then he said he could do it with anyone but he wants me because he knows im clean and never been w/ anyone else(hes a virgin too). He bought me a ring(well i kinda ask him to buy it), but he said he go it because he loves me. He said i love you very early in our relationship too. I think he stayed with me long enough to get some because i told him to wait, but he still was pressuring me. Now, he has something more important in his life, money and drugs.

2007-03-19 09:34:45 · 8 answers · asked by lostcompletely 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:34:40 · 4 answers · asked by Kate T 2 in Singles & Dating

I've seen many people responding to marital woes with suggestions of being sexually adventurous. I know what that means to me, but it has become evident through conversations with friends that everyone has their own activities that they like to engage in, and I don't know anyone who thinks they aren't good in bed.

My question is a two-parter. First, what kind of sexual activities do you think are adventurous? Secondly, how did you come by the knowlege of these adventurous activities?

I'm really not looking for lurid descriptions of sex acts. I'd rather you speak in general terms. You are also welcome to find a different question to get your 2 points for answering.

2007-03-19 09:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by Martin Pedersen 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 09:32:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i no girl friend anyone tell me how can i find a girl friend ????

2007-03-19 09:32:27 · 7 answers · asked by blue_eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl and i've been told that she likes me what should ido?

2007-03-19 09:32:00 · 22 answers · asked by craig m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:31:57 · 26 answers · asked by Mrs.Bin Laden 1 in Singles & Dating

he was hiding this fact, but i found out, i asked him so many times if they still have a contact, he told me that not,not not...

2007-03-19 09:31:48 · 32 answers · asked by flower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am conducting a study on this and I would appreciate how many of you feel that your parent's divorce has/has not affected your own relationship...was it hard at first to be intimate with another, do you have more trouble in trusting people ?



share your points of view or do you have any stories? thank you in advance

2007-03-19 09:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by OnAJourney 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry, I know everyone asks this, but I need help! Okay, well, me and this guy hang out mainly after school, 'cause we're both in track. He's in my first period, too. I sort of like him, because he's really nice to me. When we hang out, we fool around a lot, like we push, trip, etc, in a friendly way. Sometimes he touches my hands, like clasps them, when he asks me to give him my picture (he keeps asking me). He seems to be very friendly, and asks lots of people sort of like this, so I want to know if this means I'm a bit different, or I'm just overreading it. I'm really shy, and don't usually talk or touch guys that much, so I don't know what to do.

P.S. if it helps, he's a cello player, and music is very important.

2007-03-19 09:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As bad as it sounds from the question, he calls me stuff like buckaroo, tiger etc etc. Does it mean anything if a guy addresses you in this manner?

2007-03-19 09:31:05 · 21 answers · asked by skagen.2006 1 in Singles & Dating

I met the perfect guy for me one week before I was leaving the state to finish grad school. I was prepared to go our seperate ways but he asked me out to dinner before I left. The night was so perfect I made moves because I wanted to sleep with him. He was gorgeous and I just went with it. He expressed he could be with any woman and wanted to wait because he felt I was special. I eventually got my way but after he never called me again (or so I thought).
I went home to visit several months later and out of the blue he called me. He said the whole evening made him uncomfortable but he still thinks about me often. We speak occassionally via phone and email. He is very affectionate and shows a lot of interest. I am moving back home now that school is over and we will be hanging out. Sometimes I hear concern in his voice that I slept with him. How do I recover? Will he always think of me as the girl who sleeps with men on the 1st date?

2007-03-19 09:30:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah , they cut u off just in time--wh. can i say I am so very tired--can u relate--or give me something to hang on to--or are u just as callous and indifferent as they said u would be --tell me --

2007-03-19 09:30:53 · 4 answers · asked by luminous 7 in Friends

Im backstage in my friends locker. He comes in I grab him by the shirt and kiss him.He starts kissing me back and picks me up pushes me against the wall.then all a sudden his manager walks in looks at us shakes his head then walks back out.My friend starts laughing puts me down and says " ok I have to go meet some fans, I'll be back" he kisses me on the lips then walks out the door.

2007-03-19 09:30:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People, i know it sounds silly...but honestly, why i feel so silly cos fall in love with my friend? and is it ok if i took the same train with him (although i should have another route, which is shorter)? i make an excuse to him that my route is too crowded...i know, sound i'm embarassing myself. it's true, i enjoy n appreciate all the time when i can be with him, also MAYBE only 2months left i can be in the same class with him, after that only God n destiny can bring us together. we both foreigner (he's european, I'm asian),after this language course ended this May,we both apply to university...its true, only God knows when i can meet him again, people...i do love him, know its sad that we can love anybody but we can't make anybody to fall in love with us.
People..is it ok i take the same route train n fall in love with him? i begin to feel silly...i feel i embarassing my self in front of him, didn't I??? let me know your opinion. Thank you!!!

2007-03-19 09:30:48 · 4 answers · asked by Vivienne 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been dating for a litlle over 2 months, and its a semi long distance realtionship, and he said that we never get to see each other, hes 16 so he can drive but im only 14 so i cant drive and he said that he thought we should wait untill i get older so it is easier and not as hard on us, because we make plans but then something comes up so one of us cant go, and he says its maks him angry and he htought he was making me angry and he said he thought it would be better if we waited untill we were both older and then try it out again, and he said he still wanted to hang out and go to the movies and come over to my house and stuff like that. Well we havent talked in a week and the night we talked he said he promised he still wanted to hang out and stuff but he never called and we havent hung out. I talked to my BFF and she said it doesnt sound like we broke up. what did he mean? did he just say that to let me down easy or did he actual want to get back together latta. HELP

2007-03-19 09:30:13 · 12 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

I always have this problem, of not being assertive, because I care too much of other people's feelings (especially if they're close people like parents, family, or cousin-at-work) , and since i don't want to hurt their feelings, I often have to sacrifice my own self-esteem, pride , & opinion, by "following their wishes/wants, instead of my wants/dreams".
I hate this "guilty" feelings inside of me, one is because I'm just too scared to be assertive, and so AFRAID that if I'm assertive & talk-back, it'll make problems even worse, & especially the family-relationship get worsens . But on the other hand, i'm also feel "guilty" because I just kept 'torturing' my soul/opinion/self-esteem because I just OTHER people's wish/wants, & not mine.

And i often feel confused,....to be assertive (or 'rebellious, even to parents!?) , or not to be assertive, & just "swallow my pride" , so not to make situation/relationship worse ?

Which one you think is better, in the LONG-run, or eventually?

2007-03-19 09:30:00 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy who i work wiv and i text him about once or twice a week. At first he'd always txt bac but now wen i txt him he rarely does. At work he acknowledges that i sent them but still only replys every so often......So, my question is, if this guy liked me wouldn't he make the effort to txt me bac??

xxxxxxx

2007-03-19 09:29:32 · 18 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up 2 days ago.
He wants me to live with his parents and I dont want to.
He's their only son and I understand that,I mean I know he has the responsibility of taking care of them and all.
But I didn't ask him to neglect his parents,I love them just as much,it's just that I always imagined my husband and myself living in independancy with our kids,without anyone butting in.
So now he broke up with me,instead of finding a common ground that pleases both of us..I'm so sad...Is it a crime that I want to be independent??Am I to blame?
I'm not asking for a freaking castle,I'd live in a tent if that's what it takes,but living with his parents is just out of the question or even mine for that matter!

2007-03-19 09:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:29:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf have been together 4 years now, sex is at an all time low, in fact its been almost 9 months.

Now, relationships aren't about sex, I know. But I’m incredibly frustrated and don't know what to do. She knows it, but simply doesn't feel like it. Other forms are not on the agenda.

No she’s not on medication, and we live together. (Also the hand doesn't satisfy)

Its got so bad lately that I have to sleep in a separate bed, I have told her this and she hates it, she feels stressed with the matter, which I try and respect by not speaking of it and keeping the whole frustration thing quiet. No improvement.

What can I do?? Part of my mind wants to look elsewhere... but I just cant do that to her…

2007-03-19 09:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

be honest..i promise i wont call the cops on you. :p

2007-03-19 09:29:02 · 4 answers · asked by soulessdead 1 in Other - Family & Relationships