i am conducting a study on this and I would appreciate how many of you feel that your parent's divorce has/has not affected your own relationship...was it hard at first to be intimate with another, do you have more trouble in trusting people ?
share your points of view or do you have any stories? thank you in advance
2007-03-19 09:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by OnAJourney 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my parents are not divorced. they have been married for 34+ years. My Dad had an affair years ago that lasted a year. My mother forgave him and they are doinf well. But, yes, I have trust issues with men now. Evertime I get really close I mess it up on purpose. I am scared of marrage now.
2007-03-19 09:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...My mother was married 3 time and now going on to number 4. I've been married for 3 years and swear I will never get divorced ( except for cheating) I look at having a husband as a comfort not as love..yes I love my husband but I just feel a woman should always have a man around. I dont trust my husband, I question him alot, and for being gushie and lovey...I just dont do it, seeing my mom marry and divorce so much shows me how men just hurt women.
2007-03-19 09:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my mum and dad have been married for eighteen years until eventually my father's dying and their marriage hasn't affected my love existence in any respect. the only concern that affected my relationships became the style of persons my mum and dad have been, their personalities and what they have carried out earlier me because of the fact they made a marvelous type of errors earlier they have been given married which carried out to their toddlers. My character is cut up and based upon the two my mum and dad. My father became a meek & quiet guy and my mom became an outspoken woman conversing her concepts. i'm shy and quiet in a surrounding of persons i'm around people i don't comprehend and as quickly as I see some thing that only isn't correct, i upward thrust up and obtainable and communicate on it. only like my mum and dad, earlier i became married I made errors that are only fabulous. in case you ask the Lord in a private room in a prayer, offering the mesiah because of the fact the lamb and your sacrifice to seperate you out of your loved ones, you would be ridiculed and released to be your person person and God will help you in any way in case you confer with him approximately this and different issues. interior of days or perhaps weeks, you will word a beneficial-hearth substitute in you, your habit, and love existence.
2016-10-01 04:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents divorced when I was 17, before they divorced I thought that someday I would find love and it would be great. After that I realized that love wasn't going to last. My husband hates that part, but I can't help but too feel that love ends always
2007-03-19 09:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by chersa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it did affect my perspective. it was hard to trust... i always had that thought in the back of my mind of what is he doing and where is he and who is he with. eventually with the right person i got over that and started to really experience what a relationship meant and what it's actually supposed to feel like being in love.
2007-03-19 09:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents being together for 45 years did not prepare me for a husband who left. Go figure. It works both ways.
2007-03-19 09:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't going to get any decent data from this forum. Put together a proper questionairre and distribute it as per the protocol for scientific studies.
2007-03-19 09:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋