Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I had a affair with someone that I work with about 6 months ago. My husband and I decidied to try to work things and try to put this behinde us. I have done everything from try to ware the undergarments that he preferes me to ware to getting a ride to work with someone we both know. I have had no contact with this other person other that what has to be at work. Last week my husband had to take a trip and I was unable to go. And by his actions I can tell that he feels something happened with this other person while he was gone. Nothing happened this other person has moved on with his life and myself with mine.

2007-03-19 09:57:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in Scotland

2007-03-19 09:57:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend (we're VERY VERY VERY close) has a huge crush on this guy. And she just told me, and it's great that she told me that, because usually she refuses to tell me stuff. And she was going to trick me into ruining my relationship with the guy so that she was sure that she wouldn't have to deal with me going out with him. And we have this club called the RTBH where you swear never to date, marry, or have sex with anyone, or plan to. And we're both in it. And, like 5 minutes after she told me about this and I had figured out her master scheme, the bell rang and we walked out of our classroom and our other friend was waiting there. And I KNEW that she wouldn't have wanted this other friend to know about this, but I was just so angry and depressed at the moment and I knew that Friend #2 would be on my side, so I told her an abridged version of the story. That was pretty much just the plan that F2 listened to, not the why part.F1 is really mad&"I'm never going to tell you anything.

2007-03-19 09:57:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My current opinion is that most women contradict themselves when they say that they are looking for a good guy, who listens to them, is considerate of their feelings and shares his feelings; when they find a guy like that they usually don't pay attention to him because they thing he is boring. Usually women go after the more intense guys with apparent faults and big egos, although they know that guy is wrong for them. Your thoughts

2007-03-19 09:57:06 · 8 answers · asked by Carpe Diem 2 in Singles & Dating

what do I do if my Boyfriend is pregnant???

2007-03-19 09:57:03 · 8 answers · asked by =) 1 in Friends

he says there just friends but hes been calling her at like 1,2, and 3 o`clock in the morning.

2007-03-19 09:56:59 · 49 answers · asked by undiscovered beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had maybe 2 dreams of cheating on my boyfriend since we have been together which will be 5 months soon and in the dream i was going to have sex with some guy tha i dont even know and then i started to feel bad and i wanted to call him and tell him but jus as i was about to tell him i woke up and when i woke up i felt so bad that i wanted to cry i dont know what this dream means and i really want to know beacuse this happened with one of ma ex's but i never felt this way before i love my bf very much.

2007-03-19 09:56:52 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

The 1st time we broke up was two weeks ago. Because a guy kissed me, who i like and known for a year. He likes me as well. My boyfriend broke up with me and left for ABQ. Well four days later, he called and asked 2 get back 2gether. I wasn't sure, but i went 4 it. I was just 2 agree to say away from the other guy, who does go 2 skool w/me. well over the weekend, he came 2 my house to hang out. my boyfriend seen it and called and asked what he was doing @ my house. i said were gonna hang out. he said if i go with him, it would be over. i didn't think and went anyway,and he said it was over. now my boyfriend left to Arizona. well this guy really wanted 2 be w/me and so did i, but i luv my boyfriend. but i lost him, and this guy told me he had a girlfriend in Phoenix. So now were not together. I want my boyfriend back, but i don't know where he is, he left yesterday. I don't know if he'll except me back, he loves me too. I don't know what 2 do.

2007-03-19 09:55:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you let the opposite sex invade your personal space to flirt or whatever if you had no romantic interest in them?

2007-03-19 09:55:34 · 2 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

can my 17 year old friend get a motel room in oregon?

2007-03-19 09:54:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hi, there!!! I like this girl at the gym who works as a receptionist. She is 24 and has a little boy, and i usually chat to her for a bit when i leave the gym and she is sound. One day we started talking about her ex and she told me he was to controlling and she she finished with him and also the "Sex was crap, basically he wasnt giving her enough" lol. why would she tell a stranger about her sex life if she didnt like me ??? Earlier today i went to the gym and she was "sticking her tongue out at me". what to do i, does she like me?? should i get her number off her?? am just scared that what if i ask her and she turns me down then id be well embarassed cos id have to see her each time i go to the gym and she aint no random stranger who id see once then i wont. what do i do please help ???

thanks

2007-03-19 09:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl that used be my friend was starting trouble with these boys so i kicked her book bag and she started to curse at me should i say sorry or should she say sorry to me

2007-03-19 09:53:41 · 8 answers · asked by crazy4cole54 2 in Friends

2007-03-19 09:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:53:17 · 3 answers · asked by anickooii 1 in Family

My question is..if 2 years of more fighting (4 Billion per month) is not long enough for them to do what ever it is they need to do how long do Republicans want us to stayi n Iraq? 3 years, 4 years? FOREVER??? Arent we out of money yet?

2007-03-19 09:53:06 · 8 answers · asked by the man 1 in Singles & Dating

Do they image they are having sex with you ?
and wondering what is like to be with you ?

2007-03-19 09:53:05 · 15 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont mean make someone feel true love in one hour..or make your ex love you again.. (i wish).. then again.. i dont! he was a lying, arrogant, immature, careless, disrespectful little player boy! as i found out > but he was my first true love. *sniff* anyway i want to move on.. and stop the love i have for him. so>>
what i mean is.. what are the things that melt a man's heart.. make him want to have a relationship with a woman..certain things that he will never forget about you, that will make him interested in you and eventually fall in love!
i want the real thing now.. just like i though i had it with my ex..
but with the right guy! i know i have so mush love to give and im really caring and i made him breakfast and was there when he was upset.. i gave advise, acted like a couple around his friends, watched football/beer with him, fell asleep in his arms, sent him cute notes, gave him little surprises ;), never asked for much apart from respect and time for me in his life.

2007-03-19 09:53:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife and i have just had another blazing row over her kids,my stepkids,thats about the 15th since xmas.we've tried to talk and sort it out numerous times,it just doesnt last.they are rude, ignorant,arrogant and disrespectful.my wifes talked to them numerous times but they dont listen.i've got in touch with the estate agents to arrange a valuation as none of us can carry on like this.i love her so much but its not enough to save us.has anyone else been through the same situation and did it work or fail for you.theres nothing else i can give to this relationship,i'm just constantly being s##t on from a great height.

2007-03-19 09:52:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we have talked about it, and he sed he would use a condom, but im confuzed. ehat if he leaves me after that? im not a virgin, but that was the biggest mistake of my life. i wish i could change it. please help me, im going out of my mind

2007-03-19 09:52:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this girl who wanted to go out with me 4 months ago, she said this to her friends and not to me, but all i could hear was her friends screaming then rushing over to me asking if i would go out with her and i said yes, but obvously life isnt as easy as that. she started laughing and said that she said that she was joking. now the feelings that I had for her are coming back to me. the other day i thought i heard her friends shouting out my name. i also heard these words, you have got to ask him out. but i wasnt to sure if they were talking about me or not. please help me, also how the hell am i going to be able to ask her out alone, because it sounds dodgy, can i speak to you for a moment please

2007-03-19 09:51:49 · 15 answers · asked by peanutbutterjelly 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been hanging out with this guy here lately and we flirt with each other a lot but its like we're both to scared to make a move but then it's like I don't know if he really is into me or if he's just a big flirt or something so how really do you know

2007-03-19 09:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Mandie 2 in Singles & Dating

both w/ different fathers. my recent baby daddy wants me to move with him in another state, my first baby daddy doesn't take care of his daughter, but his mom plays a major role in her life. We all live close by right now, should i move?

2007-03-19 09:49:52 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

iN 2 DAYS, i am going to stay at my boyfriend's parents house for like a week

im so afraid that im gonna have diarrhea

is there any way to prevent this and if so, how

2007-03-19 09:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I talked to my husband again, like many of you advised about the "rare" sex thing. It ended up the same way it always does, even though he's the one that asked ME what was bothering me. He ranted, and raved about how I'm "all about sex", made me feel inhumane because I'd like to have it more than once a month, and it ended with him shouting in my face, calling me "names", and then telling me not to bother sleeping in the same room with him. He left this morning, without a goodbye or anything. I'm tired of doing without, while he "pervs it up" online and "out there" while he works. He also said, "If you need sex, then GO OUT THERE AND GET IT!" I'm getting the silent treatment again. I'm done talking. What would you do for step two?

2007-03-19 09:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by a_lot_smarter_now 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for over 2years and we haven't taken not even one picture together for example like studio pictures or polaroids or anything like that I really dont know why? we never really thought about it at all,it makes me feel like we dont love eachother. we met when I was 15 and he was 18 now we are 17 and 20 and yet no dam pictures so my question is what is wrong with us?why can't we take pictures I mean I never took pictures with no one not even my guy frreinds or girl friends or past boyfreinds at one point I thought that I was maybe looking for the right guy to take pictures with but I know he's the right one but why aren't we planing to take pictures someonme help me this is really affecting us alot and we argue too help???

2007-03-19 09:49:15 · 9 answers · asked by Smiley17 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:48:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 09:48:54 · 23 answers · asked by D. S 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been on and off for the past 4 years. For the first 2 we went everywhere together. He cheated on me about a year ago, and now he never takes me out anymore. He only goes out with his friends, he won't even take me to the mall. Does this mean he's embarrassed by me or he's cheating?

2007-03-19 09:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by tanisha w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have some really good friends, and we are like, best friends. But sometimes we do insult eachother, its all fun and games and we don't really mean it, but sometimes its really annyoing and i need some names to call my friends. Like she keeps calling me 'it' i need a name or a comeback. pleaseee

2007-03-19 09:48:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-19 09:48:24 · 7 answers · asked by stringcheesephish 1 in Family